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Michael Molster Obituary
January 31, 2023
Michael John Molster, 56, a lifelong resident of West Haven, passed away surrounded by his loving family on January 31, 2023, after a brief battle with cancer. Born December 27, 1966, in New Haven, CT, he leaves behind his parents John and Patricia Carmody Molster. Mike is also survived by his sons Ryan Molster, Michael "Big Red" (Adriana) Skarlos, and his stepson Billy Brice. As well as his siblings, Carolyn (Tim) Smallidge and their children Brandon and Tyler, David (Andrea) Molster; Brian (Kelly) Molster and their children Dylan, Christopher, Madison and Paige; Scott (Tracy) Molster and their daughter Skylar; as well as lifelong friend and the mother of his children Amy Skarlos (John), Marquis Reddick whom he considered another son, along with many aunts, uncles, cousins and lifelong friends. Michael or "Moe" as he was known to his close friends and co-workers, graduated from Platt RVTS in 1984. He was employed by the U.S. Postal Service, under NALC Branch 19, as a letter carrier for over 35 years, where his co-workers soon became his second family. Mike was an avid sports enthusiast, as a lifelong NY Giants and NY Mets fan. He enjoyed attending games and harassing opposing fans. He passed along his passion for sports to his siblings, children and all who would listen. Michael was a loving gentle soul, who always had a smile on his face and was there for anyone and everyone. He will be truly missed by anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Visitation will be held on Sunday from 3-6pm at the West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. His funeral procession will leave the funeral home on Monday morning at 9:30 for a Mass of Christian Burial in St. John Vianney Church of Saint John XXIII Parish at 10am. Interment will follow in St. Lawrence Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his name to CT Hospice www.hospice.com . To leave an online condolence, please visit our website at www.westhavenfuneral.com
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Sally Hopkins
January 27, 2025
Here it is 2 years already. We still tell storied tales of you and all the laughs we all shared at work. You were a bright soul here and your light shines on. We miss you, Molster. Rest in Peace.
Sally Hopkins
January 27, 2024
Can't believe it's a year already! Shine on brave soul. We shall keep your light alive .... Until we meet again. Xo
Bobby Picagli
February 7, 2023
To the Molster family, I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Mike, I will keep you all in my prayers, Rest In Peace my friend, your buddy, Bobby Pic
Gerard Considine
February 6, 2023
Never got to meet you but I heard a lot about you. I am friends with Scottie and Tracy and I promise to look after them (and Skylar) for you !
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Bob and Annette Desautels
February 5, 2023
Dear Jack, Pat, and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Michael's passing, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.
Daniel Greco
February 5, 2023
So sorry to hear of Mike's passing. I worked with Mike for many years and thought of him as a friend and great person. He will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Michael John Skarlos
February 4, 2023
Dad you were always there for me, I´m gonna miss calling you in the middle of the night just to hear you say "what did you do this time?" Or "how much is the bail amount?" You can finally rest now and be pain free and worry free! You made a giant impact on the lives of all the people you came in contact with whether you liked them or not, they all said what a wonderful person you were..rest easy dad I know your watching over us. Love your favorite son MJ
SALLY HOPKINS
February 4, 2023
It's just so hard to believe. Such a bright light in our lives . Your postal family, which I am part of, will forever mourn the loss of this brave, charming, loving, fun brother of ours. You will ALWAYS be in our hearts and mind......until we meet again. May the Lord, our God, give your family the grace it needs to accept His will and may your soul rest in His Peace forever. Love you, Mikey.
Love Denise and Bob
February 3, 2023
Jackie and Patty, we are so very sad and sorry for you and your family. May he Rest In Peace.
Walter Donovan
February 3, 2023
My deepest sympathy to the Molster family.
Mike Gargano
February 3, 2023
I will always remember the good times, and laughs we had at the Post Office. May you rest in peace. You will be missed by all that knew you.
Patricia Cumberledge
February 2, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jean King
February 2, 2023
I am So sorry for whole family! God Bless you all!
Rich Stober
February 2, 2023
I will always remember that smile and laugh. Rest easy Moe, XO
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