Nicholas Cain Kirven

Hello,

We wanted you to know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Nicholas Cain Kirven US Marine Lance Corporal.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and many others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

It was an honor to serve with you. I will never forget you or your sacrifice. S/F

Nicholas, I think about you and your family often. We never met but I grew up friends with Morgan and over the years I heard so much about you that I felt like we had known each other all our lives. We joined different branches of the military about the same time, went to train in different places and when you were back in RVA, I was out for training or vise versa. In 2005 we were deployed to diffent countries and I will never forget the heartbreaking letter I received in late May. You are loved by so many and you will never be forgotten!
Heroes, such as yourself, live on forever.
Take care my friend.
Respectfully, Bryan

My son served in India Company and was deployed with 3rd Bn. 3rd Marines to Afghanistan at the same time. Every Mother's Day I think of Nicholas and Cpl. Ricky Schoener. My son is leading a good life and remembers every Marine in the battalion with whom he served who lost their lives in Afghanistan and later in Iraq.

I don't know you and you don't know me, but I receive a yearly e-mail from this site which brings me back to Nicholas' page. I think again of him and others who have paid the ultimate price for our country, for my freedom! I am so grateful.

I realize it has been several years since you lost him, and I can only imagine how much you still miss him. May you find comfort in your memories, in the God of all comfort and in a small way, of knowing that his story continues to touch a perfect stranger.

Respectfully, Williams

Remembering you this weekend, Nicholas. I am so thankful for you and your sacrifice. keep looking over us bud.

As I am writing a memory for a family memory book for my former boss Senator John Glenn, I am struck by how many good memories I have of Senator Glenn. The one that keeps coming to me is personal. Senator Glenn came out to give Beth -- Nicholas's purple heart. It meant a lot to me but more importantly it meant so much to his family especially his mother. As I write in the Glenn memory book I decided to take a look at this guest book again and read some of the posts and to look at the photos. Our Nicholas -- miss him everyday what great great memories. Love Auntie

Not forgotten. Rest in peace.

Dear Mrs Belle and Mr. Kirven. My son, Thomas Patterson, went to Parris Island with Nick and was assigned to 3rd Bat, 3rd Marine with him. They were both deployed to Afghanistan at the some time, but at different locations. I would really love to talk to you both. email me at [email protected]. My son thought a lot of Nick.

On this Memorial Day weekend, I am reviewing a book for our school library titled, Battle Heroes: Voices from Afghanistan. I am reading about the heroic actions of our military. Lance Corporal Nick Kirven and Corporal Ricky Schoener are featured in this book alongside other heroes. I couldn't read any further without finding out more about these young men and paying my respects in some way. I'm a grateful American and this book is a tribute to them and carries their story to others. I sit with tears in my eyes as I look at the fresh, young faces that have paid the ultimate price for our country, and feel overwhelmed with gratefulness, yet experience great sadness for their family, friends, and fellow soldiers who love and miss them. May you find comfort and strength from your wonderful memories and in the love and care of God.

What a special day the family had celebrating Nicholas Kirven's 10 Year memorial mass and service at Arlington National Cemetery . . . May 8, 2015 . You are so loved and missed by all. Rev. Mr. Kenneth Warne and Rev. Michael Carroll

This Message is for Nick's Family! I never knew Nick but heard of your loss back in 2005 when I lived in Richmond, VA! I want to express my respect and gratitude for his service and your sacrifice! It is the ultimate price! I saw a photo (which I saved)of Nick back in 2005 which I wanted to draw but for personal reasons I never did at that time! In 2014 I came across the picture again as I was moving and decided this needed to be done! The picture is complete and I would like to pass it on as a gift to his family! you can contact me via email([email protected])! god bless and thank you

Our flag does not fly because the wind moves it. It flies with the last breath of each soldier who died protecting it.
Saw this sign in Jacksonville. Wanted to share. Love you!

Nick, you've missed too many birthdays, already. I know that each birthday your family spends without you is very difficult; a reminder of all that you have missed, of all that could be. But I think it is a day which should be set aside to celebrate YOU! Your birthday is a day that I think about you, smiling at your smile, celebrating your great accomplishments, envisioning your beautiful smile and hearing your hearty laugh. I know how difficult it is for your family to go on without you, to be happy, without you. But I also know that they are never without you. I know this as fact! Nieces and nephews and cousins will grow up knowing about their Uncle Nick; knowing of his service and great sacrifice, but moreso, knowing of his great love for his family...and his great sense of humor, life and adventure. So, your birthday is a NOT a sad day, it's just another reason to celebrate 'you'! I remain very thankful to have had you in my life. Happy birthday, Nick!!

My dearest Nicholas,
Another birthday has come and gone. Another reminder of how much we have lost. You would be 29 years old. I can't help but think about what you would be doing with your life. Would you be married? Would I be a grandmother? I truly believe all of that would have happened by now. Pridie and Joseph's children will know all about their Uncle Nick. We will tell your stories and talk about what an amazing son and brother you were to me, Dad, Pride and Joseph. The void without you here is huge and we miss you so much. We will strive to be like you; strong, brave, loving and kind. I know you watch over us. Your presence is felt. The lighted tea candle I found in my pocket when I got home from Arlington National Cemetery is still burning at your table. So is the candle that we lit in memory of you on the 31st. Your light burns on in our hearts and we will honor your life as long as we live. Happy Birthday, my dear, dear son. We couldn't love you more.

You have never stopped being part of our family. Every day, every month, every year.....still it's the same. We love you, we honor you and we keep every memory alive. You are here and I feel it, every day, every month and every year.

Hi Nick,

It's been far too long since I've logged in here to write. Just wanted to say Happy Birthday! It's crazy to think of the time that's passed... I remember your 21st (snow covered hummer photo in the gallery) birthday, man what a crazy field op. Thank you for the memories, the good times, and the constant reminders you're around. Semper Fidelis and Happy Birthday, miss you brother.

Nick, was thinking of you on this Veterans Day and was not aware this Guest Book was still live until I got an email advising of an entry. I figured I would look at a couple of pages and then found myself going back to page 75 and working backwards through all 373 entries. Made me laugh, made me cry but more importantly made me THINK....think of you, think of family, think of some earlier commitments I made in this book, and mostly think of the impact you made on so many people. Going thruogh all the entries took a couple hours sitting here at my work desk and was somewhat of a journey ...and you know what....Thank you....I kind of needed that.

Kirven and I went through boot camp together, and after seeing him on the news, May 8, 2005 as I stood duty at barracks 7000 at MCBH Hawaii, I went into total shock. Kirven was always someone to look up to, and as a Marine myself, not a day has gone by that I haven't thought about him.

I was watching the CBS News on June 15, 2012 when a piece on shattered families due to the War in Afghanistan came on. I listened to the mother of a young soldier talk about her son. I continued to watch with tears in my eyes until a sickening feeling overtook me. I know this family. I continued to watch hoping against hope...but then they the names of Beth and Michael Belle from Fairfax, Va were given. I was in shock.

I moved from the area in 2002 and never knew of this tragedy until now. My son, Ryan, attended school with the Belle's and Babington's children. We lived in the neighborhood across West Ox Road. I never met Mr. Kirvin.

Beth, Michael and Mr. Kirvin...I can't even begin to imagine what it was like for you to lose this beautiful young man. I am so sorry...

Another May 8th passed, another excruciating 24 hours. 7 years since we got the news that would shatter our world and change our family forever. It seems like a life time ago and at the same time, like yesterday. I only miss you more, each and every day. I long to see you walk through the back door and light up the room with your sweet smile and funny remarks. Oh, how I miss your laugh, your sunny disposition, your ability to make everything alright. I want so badly to be able to make things easy the way they used to be. I can only try to make you proud and do something with the rest of my life to make a difference. I need your strength to help me persevere. It is hard, Nich. I hate this "new normal". There is nothing normal about it! But I will move forward. I won't "move on". It just isn't possible. You gave your life so we can all live free. We are forever grateful and we will never forget what you brought to our lives. Your Momma loves you more than you could ever know. You are my hero.

To the family and friends of Cpl. Nicholas C. Kirven:
Always remembering Nicholas. "Some gave all."

My dear son, Nicholas. How can it be that it has been 28 years since I first held you in my arms? I have such vivid memories of your birth and the joy I felt adding a baby boy to the family. I felt like the luckiest mother on this earth that day and I still do because I had the honor of raising a little boy who grew up to become an American hero. Dad, Pridie, Joseph and I will gather at ANC today and release balloons at 3:16 PM; the time of your birth. I made chicken enchiladas for dinner tonight and got the football shaped Carvel ice cream cake to top it off. Listen carefully as we sing Happy Birthday to you, straight up to heaven. Oh Nich, how I miss you; each and every day. My heart is full of such love for you. Thank you for being so good to your "momma." Happy, Happy birthday, my sweet, sweet son.

Take care of grandma for me. I love you Nick.

Never forgotten.....

SO PROUD OF YOU CORPORAL NICHOLAS CAIN KIRVEN! O'ER THE LAND OF THE FREE AND THE HOME OF THE BRAVE!!! WE LOVE YOU!

A special day and time as your were meritorious and posthumously appointed to the rank off Corporal.

I still cannot think of Ricky without thinking of you. I had to write him today to tell him of the big move I made to NC. May your family, friends, and everyone that knew you know that from our family you are loved and never forgotten!

NIcholas,
Remembering you every day, but especially today. We are so very proud to tell your story. It was another meaningful day at ANC. Memorial Day will always have a profound affect on us and on our country. We love you, our American hero.

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Nicholas C. Kirven:
Please accept my remembrance of Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

My sweet Nicholas,
It is Mother's Day and I am thinking about why I still celebrate this day. For it is the day I lost you but at the same time it is a reminder of how I felt for 21 Mother's Days with you on this earth. I rejoiced in May each year on this day because I felt like the luckiest woman on earth. How could I NOT feel that way? I had been given the greatest gift of all when I was chosen to be the mother of 3 remarkable human beings; my Pridie, Nicholas and Joseph. I am comforted knowing you thought of me even on Mother's Day 6 years ago when you were fighting so hard on that mountainside in Afghanistan. I was with you, NIch. I never left your side and I will rejoice on the day I can stand by your side once more. I love you more than you could ever know. Rest in peace, my sweet angel.

Nick,

I can't believe 6 years have come and gone. It feels like yesterday that we lost you on that mountain. I can't begin to express my gratitude and thanks that i have for you making the ultimate sacrifice for me. Know that you are missed and thought of every second of everyday and will be remembered always, not only for being a true Hero, but also for being you. Tomorrow will be spent with your family at Arlington remembering and honoring you. Semper Fidelis my brother.

Rusty--please accept my very belated condolences in the loss of both your son and your dad.

Thinking about your short, well lived life on your 27th birthday. Thanks for those wonderful times you shared with us.

Happy Birthday dear Nicholas. 27 years ago today was one of the happiest days of my life. I will never forget how it felt to hear, "You have a beautiful baby boy!!" and to hold you in my arms for the first time. I am blessed to have been able to celebrate 21 birthdays with you, even though the last one was from many miles away. We will send balloons up to heaven and light candles on our Carvel "football" ice cream cake as we remember our sweet birthday boy. I love you, my beautiful son.

God bless you all on this Holiday month, I hope all of you are doing well, nick's been in my heart lately, I don't know if you all remember me but I'm the girl from Alaska, I just wanted to wish you all a Merry christmas and hope all is going ok.

Thinking about you even more than usual today; your favorite day of the year. We give thanks for the past holidays and the precious memories. I carry them in my heart and am blessed to have so many sweet moments to cherish. You are my inspiration and I strive to be as courageous and loving as you. Your momma misses and loves you. Happy Thanksgiving, my sweet boy.

~jenni, sky-man, and baby belle

My dearest Nicholas,
We thought about you on Wednesday as we celebrated the Marine Corps 235th birthday. And we thought about you yesterday on Veteran's Day. We think about you EVERY day and thank you for your commitment and your sacrifice. We are so proud of you and we promise to carry on your legacy as long as we live. We will pass it on to future generations who will know all about their uncle Nick. We miss you and love you.

I ran in the USMC Birthday 5k yesterday morning in Kandahar, and each runner received a paper with a Marine's name who was lost here in Afghanistan. I had LCpl Nicholas C. Kirven. I've read posts from this guest book, and can tell that he was an outstanding young man, with a big heart, and is very much missed by his family and friends. I would like to thank Nich for his service and his sacrifice to our country. I pray that what we are doing here will be successful, and that all the Nichs that are lost will not be in vain. God Bless you Nicholas, and your family. Thank you for your service and your sacrifice.

You are so loved, and so missed.

some days are harder than others my friend. some days you won't leave my mind and i wish for another day. i wish we could have traveled together like we had planned and i wish that you were there telling stories with us when we all get together. i need that one more time so that i can tell you all that i need too and to thank you for everything that you have done. there are times that i think about you and i can only smile and sometimes i am still floored by the thought that you are gone. i still can't believe it. i was told the other night that i was talking in my sleep and i was asked if i remembered what i was dreaming about, i could only smile my friend and i look forward to your next visit! i love and miss you brother

We thank you for your courage and willingness to defend this great nation. Your sacrifice is never forgotten in our hearts. Our son served with you in 3/3 and we think of you often. You gave your all so that we can be free and we thank you. You are close in our hearts always!

Nick,
We (the remaining Kilo guys that served with you in Hawaii & their wives) lit a lantern for you & your fallen brothers and sent it off to sea last night. It was a beautiful experience.

i just heard of of this and wanted to thank nicholas for what he gave and wanted to say to his family be assured he is with jesus and doing great. I have ason in the army about his age and i give thanks every day that he is willing to fight for our freedom it is people like nicholas and josh that make this a good world to live in

Thank you for our gift of freedom.

Nick
It's Mother's Day and I can't help but think of the day you were taken from this world and entered Heaven. I know you are with all that love you and feel your presence and comfort. Thank you for all you gave us in your short time here on Earth. I am so blessed that you touched my life

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Nicholas C. Kirven:
Remembering Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

"When a Marine leaves our world, all that he believed in still lives on in the hearts of good people everywhere. For faith, courage, commitment, love and devotion cannot die. They are the cornerstones in the foundation of civilized life. The freedom and security we enjoy are fruits of the labors of those who lived and died to make them possible. "
We are remembering and honoring our son, our brother, our hero.
You would be so pleased with the outpouring of love and support your family has been given. It is all because of you, my sweet, sweet son.
I am honored to be your mother and I love you with all of my heart.

Nick,
I know I don't write that often, but don't think you're forgotten. I think about you daily, that day 5 years ago, and the always inevitable "what-ifs". I can't thank you enough for what you did for me and 2nd squad. I look forward to spending this weekend with you, your family and the Heroes like yourself that rest with you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you!

Our Country is a better place because of heroes like Nicholas. Thinking of you all this weekend and sending my love.

For Beth, Michael, Mary Pride, Joseph, and all of Nick's family...

I want you to know that I think of Nick & his sacrifice many times each day, as I have been wearing a memorial bracelet with his name these past 5 years. Nick deserves to be honored every day. Many people have learned of Nick's service & the sacrifice that he made for our country because of the bracelet. I keep in mind the sacrifice that you all have made, as well. Although I can't be at Arlington tomorrow, on the fifth anniversary of Nick's death, I will be thinking of him and all of you. God Bless.

With love, Mary Ann Melville

Hi Nick, if it wasn't for warriors like you, people in the world will not have the security and peace that we have sometimes taken for granted. You were truly one of the bravest warrior God has sent to earth and it was sad that God had decided to have you back to heaven. Your memories will forever lived in the hearts of all those you've touched.

The Ultimate Sacrifice

Because of you
we can get up every morning
and go to work
run errands at lunch time
drive through McDonald’s
fill up our gas tanks
and make it back to work
just in time

Because of you
we don’t have houses
we have homes
where we walk through the door
the dog jumps on us
as do our children
we hug our spouses
and smell dinner cooking

Because of you
we have artwork from Kindergarten
and shopping lists
hanging on the refrigerator
along with pictures held up with tape or magnets
school pictures, pictures of gramma and grampa
pictures of babies, kittens, and teenagers
dressed for the prom

Because of you
we gather around the dinner table
play in the backyard with our kids
feed the cat, walk the dog
splash water on our children in the tub
then tuck them into bed with hugs and kisses
and reassurance there are no monsters
in closets or under beds

Because of you
with the children asleep
and the dishes all done
men make love to their wives
wives make love to their husbands
and drift off to sleep intertwined
feeling life is good, all is well
and we are safe

Because of you
we are safe
we can sit in fields watching our kids play soccer
or in the stands watching our kids play hockey
we can grill hamburgers and hot dogs
eat potato salad and cole slaw
drink ice cold beer
and play pool while the kids run through sprinklers

Because of you
we must remember
to have a moment of silence on Memorial Day
to remember your sacrifice
and your family’s
and to thank you that we get to live these lives
sometimes eventful, sometimes uneventful
but always full of possibilities

Because of you

Yes, we had an Easter Egg Hunt yesterday, but not quiet as exciting as watching you as a youngster. You always, always, made it throught the door first and even as a 4 year old had perfected your technique, which was run fast and don't hold Pop-Pops hand. He would really slow you down.
I smiled yesterday at the thought of you dumping that Igloo cooler full of eggs, no easter basket for you, surely not big enough! Thanks Nicholas for that twinkle in time. You were surely missed yesterday.
Thanks for keeping your love going.
Your Auntie Chrissy

Happy Easter, my sweet son. We took daffodils to you today and saw the plastic Easter eggs that were left for you. Always remembering the fun Easter's from past years and how we loved watching you run to find the eggs; your basket would be overflowing!
We miss you so much and love you forever. Wish you could be here helping to make the bunny cakes you loved to decorate. XOXOXO

Thinking about you today, Nicholas. Remembering the good you did for us all. Thank You.

Happy Birthday!
But it is not a happy day for us.
I too, just yesterday, was looking at family photos and was drawn to you and your smile. You always smiled and it melted my heart then as it still does today. You had that effect on people. Everyone that knew you loved you.
So today, I think of you and your contagious smile and smile too, because
I want to remember all those wonderful times we had with you.

As the time draws near another birthday, another year is marked upon our calendar.
A day to pause, to stop; a bittersweet day filled with emotions of "what if"..."remember when"...
Looking back at the pictures of you, the brown eyed boy so full of mischief, so full of life.
The handsome young man in dress blues, so proud to be a Marine.
We will mark this day with laughter and tears as we whisper, "Happy Birthday, Nicholas."
Each precious memory a gift from God, printed on our hearts forever.

A new year, another 365 days of missing you. We continue to honor you and will do so the rest of our lives. With each holiday and celebration we remember how much joy your brought to our family and wish you could be here to share it all with us. It is so different now without you; we strive to carry on your good works. To make a difference in other's lives. To be as unselfish as you were as we remember your bravery and sacrifice.
Happy 2010. We love you forever.

I love you, Nick....I think about you everyday

Adam

My dearest Nicholas,
This day is such a mixture of emotions. It is the biggest family day of the year. That is why so many people consider it to be the most special holiday of all. Because it brings family together and reminds us of our many blessings.
I am filled with such wonderful memories of past Thanksgivings at our home. As we gather today with our family, I will raise a glass to you, my son. Thank you for the songs we sang, the dreams we saved and the smiles we shared.
There was not nearly enough of them but I am grateful for the 21 years.
I am holding you extra close to my heart today.
I love you and miss you everyday.
Happy Thankgiving, my sweet, sweet child.

I was honored to speak with Nicholas in Hawaii. His grandfather, Leo, asked me to call on him. I keep him in my prayers. I would like to reconnect with Leo if possible. Patti Grogan, MD- 818-808-6396 [email protected]

My everyday prayer:
To all who haven fallen, those still fighting the war, and the families of all our men and women, May the Lord shine down on you all, guide those soldiers still at war, heal those who have lost, and bring peace to our world. May the darkness of war subside soon, the pain of a loss become bareable, and the hopeless regain that which was once lost. I pray this with all my love and hope. Amen

Dear Nicholas, his family, and friends,
I would like to thank you all for the honor of Nicholas' life. It is hard to find the right words to say, and fight back all the tears. Let me start with who I am. I am Crpl. Richard P. Schoener's first cousin. To have known either of these gentlemen was not just an honor, or a privalege, it was knowing someone special. There is not a day that goes by that when I think of Rickey that I dont think of Nicholas. They were together and I am glad that they were not alone. I am sorry for your loss, I keep both of there names in the front lines of everything I do or say. When people talk about the military and the war, I mention them both, because to many of our fallen become forgotten and I dont wnat that for either of these beautiful men. I shall end this message sweetly. To all that knew Nicholas, I send all my love and hope, that each day gets better, brighter, and easier. We shall never foget them nor shall we ever want to! Love Angel Reber

Thank You, Nicholas,for allowing us to live in freedom. Freedom Is Not Free and we will always remember your sacrifice.

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

We miss you! Thank you for watching over us and putting a few good words in with the big guy for us. I know those signs came from you. My neighbor stopped me today to thank you for your service. She said she past your sign a few times but never took the time to read it. We shared tears. Please watch over Jeep, he is scheduled to go back soon. Thanks for your sacrifice! Love you.

Remembering your courage and sacrifice on Memorial Day, 2009. We will be sitting among heroes all day at Section 60. Thank you, my son, for defending our freedoms. We are proud and humble. We love you with all of our hearts.

Thank You, Nicholas, for your service to Our Country. We continue to share your story - you will never be forgotten.

Thank you Nick........

My dearest Nicholas,
Another Mother's Day without a card or call from you. Another reminder of how privileged I feel to have been chosen to be your mom. Nich, I realize now that Mother's Day is the most precious day of the year. It is a reminder of how lucky I am to have raised 3 amazing children who so lovingly call me "momma", "ma" and "moo" (shortened version of mooma!)
Those terms are music to my ears. I never realized just how precious though until I lost the chance to hear your sweet voice again. But I know you are here, Nich. I feel you, especially today.
Thank you for the memories and for making your mom feel so special.
I am honored to be your mother.
I love you, my sweet son.

To the family of Lance Cpl. Nicholas C. Kirven:
Nicholas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Nick,
Sorry I couldn't be there in person today, but tomorrow Kim, Cole and I will be down to see you. I thank you for willingly laying your life down to protect me and my Freedom. I can't believe it's been 4 years, only feels like days to me. I want you to know you're truly missed, continually mentioned, and NEVER forgotten. I've been looking back a lot lately and wanted to thank you for keeping an eye on me. I miss you buddy. Thank you and Semper Fi.

We mourn and celebrate your life today. Because of your courage many others were able to go home to their families. We will never, ever, forget what you did. Life does go on, but with a huge hole where you should have been. Missing you is an understatement.
Love,
Rich, Chrissy and family

I wore my Nicholas shirt in the Memory Walk at work Wednesday and shared your story with those walking with me. I will continue to share it - you will not be forgotten. Thank You for your service. Peace to you.

Hey Nick

We hope you're doing well, buddy. Every time May approaches, I think of you... obviously. And it just makes me so grateful for both you as a person and also the services that you sacrificed for us. As another deployment approaches for Matthew, the inevitable fear overcomes. And when I truly stand in the face of that fear, knowing what could happen, I remember that no matter the consequence... there is nothing more honorable and demanding of respect than putting your life on the line for your family, friends and mostly... your country. And you, my friend, are a perfect example of that. Thank you so much for being you. Take care up there and God Bless your family. Hope you're watching over us!

Yesterday was Easter Sunday. One of many days that bring such sweet memories of you to the surface; thinking about how much you loved to dye Easter eggs on the Saturday before; dipping them in to so many colors that they usually turned brown. Easter Sunday was church, gathering with cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents for lunch and an Easter egg hunt. You always found the most eggs. You were crazy with excitement, running in front of Pridie and Kaitlin. You found the egg with the money in it every time! Then we would decorate the bunny cake. You loved putting the jelly beans on his tie and ears and eating most of the cool whip.
Nich, you made our days together so much fun and you filled my life with such joy.
I miss you each and every day. I love you more than ever. I thank you for being such a wonderful son.

Nick,
Happy belated Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nick,
I looked out the window at the snow that lays on the ground and had to laugh. Remember 4 years ago, in Afghanistan when we were heading back to base, hoping to make it back for your birthday and Powers rolled the humvee over and we had to spend the night in the middle of nowhere? What a crappy situation, and yet, you turn misery into comedy once again and that's what I thank you for the most. Being up all night, sleeping in those little tents, and waking up to who knows how many inches of snow may not have been the ideal way to celebrate 21, but you did it with a smile on your face and spread that feeling to all of us. Nick you gave me so many great memories and I can never thank you enough for everything. You are truly missed.

My dear, sweet son, Nicholas,
I woke up throughout the night and when the time had passed midnight, I wished you a happy birthday each time I looked at the clock.
I remember with vivid detail the day of your birth; the excitement of bringing a sibling in to the world for Pridie. The joy of welcoming a new baby.
I told you the story of your birth many times. How the nurses and doctors were betting that you were a girl, but I knew the baby boy I had dreamed about so many times was soon to make his appearance. You were so beautiful and such a happy, easy, loving baby. Those traits stayed with your throughout your life.
Oh, Nich, I ache to hold you in my arms again. What I would give to go back to this time 25 years ago to get that chance again.
Dad and I are getting ready to go visit you at ANC. We will bring our usual flowers, balloons and candles.
At 3:05, the time of your birth, your brother and sister will call, your cousins, aunt and uncle will join us and we will sing "Happy Birthday to You" as we release a balloon up to heaven. I am including a big hug and kiss.
Happy 25th birthday, my brave boy.
I love you with all of my heart.
Momma

Nicholas, you & my Dad share the same birthday today! Tho you were born 69 yrs apart, you have similiar traits: strong, courageous, honest & hard working. How I wish you were both still here with us! We had SO MUCH more to learn from ya'll ! If you see Kilowatt up there today, ask him to fix you a "koolamucha" ! CHEERS!!
God bless you guys always!

Dear Nicholas,
It is hard to even believe that this is your 4th birthday in Heaven. We can only imagine knowing you as we never had the priviledge of meeting you in person. Yet, for 4 birthdays, we have grown to love you through the memories of your family and the deep gratitude we have for your sacrifice. I have wept today for your family because more than anything they want to be able to hold you, to kiss your beautiful face, bake you a cake, cook your favorite meal, hug you some more, see the delight on your face as you open their gifts and hug you over and over. Even at the very least, to hear your voice and laughter on the phone, if you are far away.
Your life on earth warmed many hearts and made faces smile. Your courage has set an example for others. We are blessed to know you even if it is just through memories.
I can imagine the joy and glow on your mother's face the day you were born. I can imagine the pride that is cradled in the hearts of your family for being able to call you son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend.
And there is many a time, I imagine what it will be like to finally meet you in the presence of Christ.
But for now, we wish you a day blessed with peace and joy. We will play "I can only Imagine" today in your memory, light a candle and pray for you and your family. Happy Heavenly Birthday Nicholas.
With faith, hope, love and courage,
The Philippons
p.s. I asked Larry to go easy on the birthday punch in the arm.

Sending kisses and love to you, and hugs and hope to your Mom, Dad, Pridie and Jobes on your birthday.
Nich we miss you so terribly much.

My dearest Nichie,
I was not able to write to you on Christmas Day because Joseph, Dad and I were with your sister in San Diego. We took the dogs to run on Dog Beach (yes, it really is named that; the sign is a big dog paw!) and as we came around the bend, there was the most vibrant, beautiful rainbow we have ever seen. Pridie pointed it out to us and started to cry. There were no words spoken; just smiles, tears and hugs. We knew you were there with us.
Now we are at the beginning of a new year; 3 weeks in to it already.
It is hard to believe that we are facing another year without you.
I search each day to find meaning in my life. I am driven by your spirit, your courage, your strong will and your faith.
You once told me that you thought I was the most unselfish person you had ever known. But that is how I think of you. You make me want to do bigger things and be a better person.
Thank you for the many gifts you gave me and those you continue to give me.
I hope to make you proud, Nicholas. I couldn't be more proud of you.
You are my sweet angel.

Merry Christmas Nicholas!

Not a day goes by a song doesn't play or something happens that reminds me where you are and why. You died in the line of service to your country and you live on at the foot of God. Thank you, Sweet Nick!

It is Thanksgiving, 2008.
We continue our tradition of hosting a big meal at our home, surrounded by family. Pridie cannot be with us this year, as she is in San Diego and will be working tonight. This will be the first Thanksgiving in her 26 years that she has not been home with us. We will miss her today. Joseph came home last night from college and will be able to sit with Alex at the adult's table this year! He is the same age you were when you went to Parris Island. I wish you could have seen him as a man.
We remember so many past years, especially 2002 when you had just graduated from boot camp and were home on your first leave before infantry school. We all loved listening to your great stories and watching you eat. You sat so straight and proud. We gave extra thanks that year for having you home with us.
We are reminded of so many wonderful memories from past Thanksgivings and we are thankful for our many blessings.
We will say a prayer for our troops and their families. Those who are serving and those who are no longer with us. We will say an extra prayer for you.
Happy Thanksgiving, my sweet son.
I love you dearly.

I would like to thank Lance Cpl. Nicholas C . Kirven and his family for defending our great nation. As my family gathers for Thanksgiving I will say a prayor for Lance Cpl. Kirven and all the brave men and women of our armed forces that make such gatherings possible. GOD BLESS

A Prayer For Our Soldiers ~~

DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WE COME HUMBLY TO YOU TODAY,
THINKING OF OUR SOLDIERS
WHO ARE VERY FAR AWAY........

WE ASK FOR YOUR PROTECTION LORD
PLEASE KEEP THEM SAFE AND WARM,
AND WHEN EVIL LURKS AROUND THEM
KEEP THEM FROM ALL HARM........

BLESS EACH FAMILY AND THEIR CHILDREN
WHO GO THROUGH DRED EACH DAY
WONDERING IF THEY WILL COME HOME
OR ARE THEY GONE TO STAY.......

GOD PLEASE PROTECT OUR SOLDIERS
WHO FIGHT FOR OUR COUNTRYS NAME,
PLEASE DEAR LORD KEEP THEM SAFE
AND BRING THEM HOME AGAIN........

OUR COUNTRY STANDS FOR FREEDOM
WE FIGHT TO KEEP THE CAUSE,
WE MUST ALL STAND TOGETHER
NO MATTER WHAT THE COST......

SO DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WONT YOU HEAR OUR PLEA,
BRING PEACE TO EVERY NATION LORD
SO OUR COUNTRY WILL BE FREE........















...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.



I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

Father we entrust our brother Nicholas to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Nicholas in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

To the Kirven family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Nicholas' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04

Rest in Peace LCpl. Kirven. God Bless!

Rest in peace Marine, you're paid in full. Our humble thank you for giving it your all.

Today we honor and thank not only you Nich but all those who have proudly served including Grandpa Wayne and Papa Joe.
Mom did you well on the Today Show this morning. You would be proud of her......... almost as proud as we are of you.
Love you, tons

To the family of Nicholas....I saw you on the Today Show this morning, Beth. We are honoring today and always our veterans and those who have sacrificed so much for all of us. Our Marine son did a tour in Iraq. We know the pain of a deployed Marine but do not know your pain. Members of our son's platoon were injured on Mother's Day 2005 near the Syria border in a tank explosion. That day is burned in our hearts as it is in yours. Please accept our heartfelt condolences as you remember your dear son. May sweet memories of him make your smile! We will never forget. Thoughts and prayers wing your way.

Today is Veteran's Day and we remember heroes like you and honor those fighting for our country.