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Nicholas Longo Obituary

WESTERLY - Nicholas V. Longo, beloved husband of Paula Longo, passed on July 15, 2025 at the age of 82. For over sixty years, after being set up on a blind date, Nick and Paula shared more than the greatest love the world has known.

The son of Italian-American immigrants, the late Cosmo and Antoinette Longo, he was born in the Bronx where he attended Mount St. Michael and Fordham University. An eloquent communicator from a young age, he excelled at debate and theater. Throughout his life, he loved telling stories about Sunday dinners with his cousins, playing stickball, spending summers working at Freedom Land, and driving his Chevy Impala (his first of many convertibles).

He moved to Yonkers in the late 1960s. His passion for making a difference inspired him to spend the next decades as a skilled politician and dedicated public servant. He served on the Yonkers City Council for 16 years, including as Vice Mayor and Majority Leader where he was recognized for his work ethic and courageous leadership. He was also an Administrator for the County of Westchester for over 30 years, a small business owner, and the Teamsters Public Sector Representative. He was a founding member of the local Sons of Italy, served on boards promoting economic development, and spent much of his free time playing racquetball and watching his Amazin Mets.

He brought his charisma, playfulness, and generosity to all aspects of his life. He was never short of light hearted teasing or a witty retort. He retired to his home away from home in Westerly, RI where he enjoyed pickleball, walks on the beach, hosting family and friends, and spoiling his beloved dog, Bella.

Nick deeply loved his three children, Anna Marie Longo (Angus Cleland) of St. Helena, CA, Alison Longo (David Bilotto) of Westerly, RI, and Nicholas V. Longo, Jr. (Aleida Benitez) of Providence, RI. His greatest joy was being Pop Pop and he was immensely proud of his five grandchildren: David Nicholas, Luciano Paul, Maya Paula, Connor Cosmo and Noah Nicholas.

A celebration of his life will be held at Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly with visiting hours on Sunday, July 20th from 1pm 4 pm. Family and friends are also invited to attend a Mass of the Christian Burial at 10 am on Monday, July 21st at Immaculate Conception Church, 111 High St., Westerly, where he was a devoted parishioner.

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Published by The Westerly Sun on Jul. 18, 2025.

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Candace Intervallo

July 22, 2025

He was such a great boss and helped me so much as an employee and friend. I am sad today but will continue to think of him fondly. Sending massive hugs and love to the Longo's!

Thomas Rossi

July 22, 2025

May God Bless him always. Nick embodied true leadership sorely lacking today. I was a young aspiring councilmember who always looked up to Nick in all ways. So sorry to hear of his passing. RIP.

Michael Amato Jr

July 22, 2025

To Paula and Family

Mr Longo held a special place in my mothers and father´s heart. I also have fond memories of all the election canvassing I did to help elect him for council. Fun days that will always be remembered. God bless.

Ted Garofalo

July 21, 2025

He was probably one of the best debaters on the council in the 70´s through his last term. Those were the days when you could have a disagreement and then have dinner later. My condolences to Paula and his children

Fernando Fuentes

July 21, 2025

I was a Yonkers school board member and also served on the Yonkers city council. Nick Longo was the master of the universe in westchester county.

He was the best among us. May he rest in peace in God´s kingdom. We loved and respected you. Fernando Fuentes

Martha Furlong

July 21, 2025

A very special man is Resting In Well Deserved Peace now! May his family Live in well Deserved Peace!! Martha Furlong

Elizabeth Engelman

July 20, 2025

Dear Ali, "Ma" and Family,
Covering you all with prayer, hugs and love. May your wonderful memories of your Dad provide you with peace and comfort always. We will all miss your dad´s fun, personable and kind spirit. We know that your Dad is so proud of all of you. You´re such a wonderful family! Always stay close to each other. Your Dad is in God´s Loving Arms!
Love The Engelmans and Jenna & Traci Bingham
We love you guys!

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Diane Portelance

July 19, 2025

Ali and family, Bruce and I send our condolences to you and your family. Sounds like dad was an accomplished man with a generous heart. May he rest in peace. Diane and Bruce Barstow

Neil Squillante

July 19, 2025

Dear Paula and the family thinking of you and wishing God´s blessing on you all. Nick rest in peace in heaven with all your family. You were like the brother I did not have great memories living together and with all your guidance and help to me. Love always Neil

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Tom and Carol Doherty

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Madaline Harris-Warren

July 18, 2025

To Nick's family, May God Bless you all. Nick was one of our pickleball buds. It was always nice to see his happy face.
RIP Nick.

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Audrey and Herb Wyman

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Denise Fusaro

July 18, 2025

My deepest sympathies to the Longo family.

Carmella Palladino

July 18, 2025

Rest In Heavenly Peace Forever Nick... Memories of us growing up together will remain in my Heart Forever.. My Heart is Broken... May Our Lord keep you close to him for Eternity... Paula. Nick will always be by your side and continue to watch over you and your family... Love you Nicky!!! Until we meet again...

Bob and Judi

July 18, 2025

In the theatre of life you had the lead role...at heaven´s table you will tolerate garlic and onions...how much you will be missed is incalculable. You left us beauty and grace in Paula and your children and their families. RIP NVL.

Linda Squillante

July 18, 2025

Dear Paula and Family,
Thinking of you and sending God´s love and healing prayers. May your wonderful memories be a lasting comfort to you all.
Love, cousin Linda

Dr. Niel

July 18, 2025

From your brother (from another mother)
Rest in Peace in the arms of Jesus. Amen.
Love, Niel

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