Olivia Mellan Shapiro

Olivia Mellan Shapiro obituary, Santa Barbara, CA

Olivia Mellan Shapiro

Olivia Shapiro Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McDermott-Crockett & Associates Mortuary on Aug. 30, 2024.

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Olivia Mellan Shapiro - psychotherapist, author, and pioneer of money therapy (which she dubbed "Money Harmony") - passed peacefully on Saturday, August 17th in Santa Barbara, CA. Her son, Anil Mundra, was at her side, and her daughter-in-law, Heather Lorentz, and their two sons had been there shortly beforehand. She is also survived by her husband, Michael Shapiro, in Silver Spring, MD; her first husband, Anand Mundra, in Boulder, CO; the family of her brother, Stuart Mellan, of Tucson, Arizona; and many adoring nieces, nephews, cousins, and chosen family, including Nancy Dunn, of Washington, DC, who had recently helped her move to California. Known as "Livvie" and sometimes by her middle name, "Julie," she was born in Brooklyn, NY, and raised in Wantagh, Long Island, by Sara and Judge Eli Mellan. After college at Mount Holyoke, including a junior year abroad in Paris, and graduate school in French literature at Georgetown, she forged her own career as a self-described "renegade" therapist. Her work with couples showed her that the main taboo and source of conflict was money, and hence her mission of "Money Harmony" was born. After authoring five books and giving countless speeches, workshops, and media appearances, she retired at age 70. She was then stricken by a rare and devastating neurodegenerative disease called Progressive Supranuclear Palsy, which ultimately took away her movement and speech. Burial was at Santa Barbara Cemetery on Tuesday, August 20, at 1:15 PT, and the video recording is posted at: https://client.tribucast.com/tcid/f24082205930892. A virtual memorial service will be held on Sunday, September 22 at 8am PT (11am ET) -- please check Olivia Mellan's Facebook pages for the link.
In lieu of flowers, donations in her name can be made at CurePSP.org.

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Leslie Luxemburg

September 14, 2024

Livvie was in my dorm freshman year at Mount Holyoke. She was always a lively and vivacious participant in any reunion gatherings, either back in South Hadley or in Washington DC, where we both ended up settling.
Sending sincere condolences to all her family and loved ones.
Leslie Luxemburg

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