L. Dodge Fernald

1929 - 2017

L. Dodge Fernald obituary, 1929-2017, Wellesley, MA

L. Dodge Fernald

1929 - 2017

BORN

1929

DIED

2017

L. Dodge Fernald Obituary

Published by Eaton Funeral Home on Mar. 1, 2017.
On March 1, Dodge Fernald of Wellesley died as he had lived, with courage and kindness. Dodge was born in Springfield, Massachusetts to Lloyd Dodge Fernald and Gladys Neff Fernald. Together with his brothers, Kent, Jack and Peter, he enjoyed a childhood enlivened by sports and pranks. He embraced enough academic rigor at The Hotchkiss School, in addition to captaining the varsity basketball team, to attend Amherst College, where he displayed his athletic talent on the soccer and lacrosse fields. In 1955, during four years of service in the Navy, Dodge married his college sweetheart, Marjorie Maxwell. Together they port-hopped around the Mediterranean Sea, Dodge on the vessels Des Moines and Newport News and Marjorie with a group of Navy wives. Upon leaving the Navy, Dodge earned a master's degree from Harvard University. Although committed to the discipline of psychology, he hopped among colleges as he had among Navy seaports. After earning his doctoral degree, he taught at Bowdoin College, Cornell University, and Wellesley College, with sojourns as a Fulbright Lecturer at the University of Madrid and the University of Santiago de Compostela. Eventually he returned to Harvard as Assistant Dean of Harvard Extension School, and he relished teaching the course dreaded by other professors - the undergraduate course in introductory psychology. In 2012 he retired after 51 years of teaching. In addition to entertaining and stimulating students with his lectures, Dodge authored a number of books on psychology. During decades of writing, he developed a signature approach that explained psychology through stories -- written by his students, inspired by his children, and reflecting six perspectives of psychology. Interviewed by a grandchild near the end of his life, Dodge declared his hobby to be "playing with words." Dodge was best known in Wellesley as a soccer coach. After coaching the men's varsity team at Bowdoin College, he found his true calling as a coach of the Purples, Blacks, Hotspur, Rowdies, and Clovers (the first girls' team in Wellesley), among other youth teams in the Wellesley town league, the Boston Area Youth Soccer League, and at Wellesley High School. Dodge had an unusual ability to meet his players at their level and combine their individual strengths to build teams with skill and spirit. Dodge's infectious enthusiasm, sense of humor, and consideration of others are his treasured legacy. He will be greatly missed by his wife, Marjorie; his children, Lucinda, Darcy, Stephanie and Kirk; his brother, Peter; and his grandchildren, Tyler, Alexa, Lucinda, Liam, Ann Foster and Max. Although Alzheimer's disease eventually stole Dodge's ability to captivate his listeners with a story, he cheered others with quips even in his final days. To celebrate Dodge's memory, his relatives, students, players and friends are encouraged to bring laughter into someone's life through a pun, joke or wordplay. Family and friends will gather to celebrate Dodge's life at the Wellesley College Club on April 15. For more information, email [email protected].

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September 26, 2024

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May 8, 2018

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May 11, 2017

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Tony Berg

September 26, 2024

I took "Introduction to Psychology" with Professor Fernald in 1991. He was an inspiring lecturer who taught us to take joy in the material and to give our best when demonstrating what we had learned. I wish I had returned to study with him further. Thank you Dr. Fernald."

Tony Berg

Lucy Douty

May 8, 2018

I realize it is over one year since his passing, but just this week I told friends about the best course I ever took. It was his course at Harvard Extension in Harvard Yard. I decided to google him and was sad to hear of his passing. Reading his obituary and all the wonderful comments, brought him, and that time of my life, back to me. It was in the early 80s, (if memory serves me well) and he was the most insightful and delightful professor I have ever had. I can only imagine the pleasure he brought to his family and friends. I have never forgotten him and what he taught us in that one class!

VAL Brewer

May 11, 2017

Dodge was a wonderful friend and mentor to me many years ago (1971-74) when I was his teaching assistant at Wellesley College. His kindness, enthusiasm for psychology, appreciation for each individual, and sense of humor inspired me and helped me become a better person during a difficult time in my life. Dodge was one of a kind and his departure leaves a lesser world. My condolences to his family for the loss of this wonderful, loving person. Val Brewer

May 8, 2017

I just stumbled on this. My condolences and deepest sympathy to the family of Dodge Fernald. Was not able to meet Dodge, but knew of him. My mother Helen Cort Fernald, Provincetown, was always very thankful to Dodge for helping out when my mother was caring for my grandmother Helen Clark Fernald, Lexington during her last days. Sincerest wishes - Cort Fernald

April 9, 2017

Hello Fernalds. As my first high school soccer coach, Dodge taught us to be fair, to have fun, and to try new skills with optimism. He coached with quiet joy. Remembering our mythical teammate, Mary Grabasandwich, still makes me smile. As does the belief that once that first olive comes out of the jar, others will follow. In my coaching practice, I try to incorporate the best of my own coaches. Dodge is with me on my best days. Peace be with you all. Truly, Alicia Carrillo

Susan Austrian

March 15, 2017

I too was fortunate enough to have Professor Fernald, along with Claire Zimmerman, as my professor in Psychology 101 at Wellesley College. It was in 1974. He was such a wonderful teacher; lively, funny and so intelligent and engaging. He was also very warm and supportive of a sometimes anxious freshman! That class was very influential in my choice of a major and a career for which I am very appreciative.
I am sure that he is deeply missed by his family but hope that you are comforted by memories from many years.

Wellesley Dynamo 1975(?)

Bob Little

March 14, 2017

Marjorie, Cin, Darce, Steph and Kirk - My thoughts, love and condolences to you all. Dodge was, and will always be, a pivotal person in the life of so many of us Wellesley soccer playing boys. I continue to be thankful for the love that all of you showed me, Sully, Dicky, Max, Mase and others as we joined Kirk rampaging through your house, playing with soccer balls, Fusbal tables, and lab rats. It's a childhood that I treasure and have tried to replicate for my three daughters. I was, at least, successful in coaching the A-B Hotspur, replete with the requisite cheer. Alabeem, Alaboom, Alabeem, Boom, Bah. Wellesley (A-B) Hotspur.. Ganara! As sad as I am to learn of Dodge's passing, I look forward to seeing you all on April 15th.

Neil Kressel

March 13, 2017

At age 21 back in 1979, I had my very first university teaching experience as Dodge's assistant at the Harvard summer school. What a wonderful guy -- warm, funny, insightful, caring, and dedicated to his profession. He was a terrific teacher, a sparkling writer, and a great person.

March 12, 2017

My love to Marjorie, Kirk, Stephanie, Darcy, Lucinda and all Dodge's grandchildren including my two nephews, Maxwell and Liam. It was a pleasure having so many good times with Dodge at family gatherings. His humor i will always remember. Fondly, Liz

Polly Ingraham

March 12, 2017

Oh how well I remember your dad, always with verve and mischief, and such agility of mind and body both! Feel fortunate to have known in succession all of his remarkable daughters. Sending my sympathy out to you too, Kirk, and to Marjorie.

Laura Bookman

March 12, 2017

Professor Fernald was my psychology 101 professor at Wellesley College in 1970. He was a wonderful teacher. I remember a chapter of his book showing a photo of a monkey peering through a window in a door who had performed multiple tasks just to look through the window. The subject of the chapter was curiosity. Also, he explained how to toilet train children using rewards - I think it was M&Ms..... I remembered and used that system many years later when I had children.

March 12, 2017

My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

March 10, 2017

Stephanie and Darcy,
Thinking of you 2 and all of the fantastic soccer memories of the times with you and your Dad in Wellesley. Take care- Lisa G Berdan, Durham NC

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