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Owen James Brandano

2008 - 2024

Owen James Brandano obituary, 2008-2024, Valley Village, CA

BORN

2008

DIED

2024

Owen Brandano Obituary

June 9, 2008 - April 10, 2024 Owen James Brandano, aged 15, passed away on April 10, 2024, in Valley Village, CA.

Owen Brandano was born on June 9, 2008, in Los Angeles, CA, to Allegra Pollock Brandano and Paul Brandano. He is survived by his twin sister, Amelia Brandano. Owen spent his childhood in Valley Village, where he was known for his big, bright smile and mischievous laugh. He attended Colfax Charter Elementary School, Walter Reed Middle School, and most recently was a sophomore at Chaminade College Prep School. Owen was an intellectual and an explorer of the truths of the universe, consciousness, and all that could be learned from science, mathematics, history and philosophy. He excelled in chemistry and enjoyed going deep on his favorite topics in world history.

Owen was athletic but preferred his skateboard over most organized sports. His street skating skills were advanced and well-honed with hours of consistent practice. Most recently, Owen developed a love of bodybuilding. He was in the gym most days and loved seeing it pay off with better health and a truly remarkable physique.

Owen received a Colfax Elementary School citizenship certificate award for "Being Determined" seven years to the day he was laid to rest. This award could have been given to him in any year of his life, for his resilience through the pandemic, for his grit in wilderness therapy, for his patience through a life-long effort to find his footing in a world he sometimes found hard to fit into comfortably. Most of all, we celebrate and honor Owen for his empathetic heart, and kindness to all he met. Owen was a warrior from the time he was a toddler, and we will always remember him for his strength.

When Owen set his mind to something, he was truly committed. He was relentless in the pursuit of goals, especially in his last years. Owen enjoyed spending time with close friends, listening to music, excelling at video games, skateboarding, basketball, soccer, hiking, road trips, and enjoyed every minute of his many vacations. Owen spent many wonderful years and holidays at Papa Tom's Malibu beach house and Grandma Helene and Papa Joe's estate in Montecito.

Owen loved his twin sister Amelia, and they maintained a lifelong bond of love and mutual respect and protection. Owen looked out for his sister, and she looked out for him. As children, they were constantly playing and laughing together and as teens, they shared friends, movies, game nights, and helped each other navigate each new phase of life. Owen was an excellent and caring brother and will always be remembered for that.

Owen loved his parents. Just weeks ago, he held his mother's hand in the car on the way to school and told her he loved her so much with tears in his eyes. He was a boy who felt things deeply and made sure he shared his love when he felt it. He loved spending time with his dad, who will always remember their last conversation over a homemade steak dinner. They had developed an uncommon bond as they helped each other through a challenging year and in doing so, developed a father/son bond that can only be aspirational for most in the teen years. Owen was proud of his dad and his dad will always be so proud of him.

Owen is survived by his parents, Allegra Pollock Brandano and Paul Brandano, his twin sister, Amelia Brandano, uncle Peter Brandano, aunt Dayna (Brandano) Ellis, uncle Alan Ellis, aunt Laura (Mazor) Brandano, uncle Luke Pollock, aunt Ali Pollock Gagerman, uncle Ryan Gagerman, grandmother Peggy Pollock, and many beloved cousins including Haley and Benjamin Gagerman, Lillian, Paige and Audrey Brandano and Marc Ellis. Owen is also survived by life-long best friends Yuri, Emma, Noa, Laura and Michael Steuer. He is predeceased by his beloved Nana Joyce Foley Brandano, beloved Nonno Peter Brandano Jr., beloved grandfather Thomas Pollock, and beloved great-grandparents Helene and Joseph Pollock.

A private funeral service was held on April 24, 2024, at the Santa Barbara Cemetery. A celebration of Owen's life will take place on Sunday, June 9th, 2024. In lieu of flowers, donations in Owen's honor can be made to the Owen Brandano Memorial Scholarship ( https://www.chaminade.org/owen-brandano-memorial-scholarship)

Owen's family would like to thank all of Owen's family and friends for their love and support in his loss. Owen was so lucky to be raised by a village of people who loved him dearly and who will remember him well. Although his time was short on this earth, he will always be with all of us and should be thought of for inspiration in times when extra effort is required to thrive.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on May 12, 2024.

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Nancy Hammerman and Peter Cowen

March 5, 2025

Paul and family: we did not know Owen but we are deeply moved by the loving words you have written. We send our condolences and healing wishes.

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Rob Janas

May 27, 2024

I had the great pleasure of coaching Owen´s U-12 basketball team. Owen was a fierce competitor and a ferocious defender, and I have vivid memories of watching Owen play lockdown defense. He was never concerned with scoring points or being the star and was always willing to do whatever was needed to help the team win. I remember one game in particular there was a player we could not stop - he was clearly the best player on the team. I asked Owen if he could shut him down and he said, "I can take him." The rest of the game Owen covered him like a glove. After that game I always put Owen on the other team´s best player. You could always count on Owen to shut the guy down. His defense helped his team go undefeated that season, and his tenacity and heart was an inspiration to his coaches and teammates.

Jennifer Kenna

May 15, 2024

I will always remember Owen for the beautiful boy he was. His eyes lit up when he smiled. He was always so confident and kind...even when he was stuck in the back of my car with the three girls. I loved having conversations with Owen and I'll never forget him.

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Adding some of my recent favorites of my golden boy. This kid was stronger than anyone I knew in so many ways.

calliope

May 12, 2024

I met him on my cruise, and he was the sweetest person on there and he always made me laugh. he would come to karaoke and cheer me on, and we would hang out in groups. one day we were in the hot tub late at night, and he dared me to jump into the pool yet he promised he would do it with me. he pushed me in first then i pulled him in with me and we both got out as quick as we could and ran back to the hot tub. we were giggling the entire time and the little mermaid was playing and i remember us laughing about the part where sebastian almost gets cooked. he was so funny and nice and I feel for everyone who was friends with him or close to him. L.L.O

Richelle Malacas

May 9, 2024

As Owen and Amelia´s "Santa Barbara Nanny" and he called me. I loved doodling and creating art projects with them and story time in a blanket fort before bed.

Addison Combs

May 8, 2024

One of my favorite memories about Owen is one time when I was at his house and we were swinging on the swing in his front yard. We span in circles on the swing to see how dizzy we could get. I also remember going to Papa Tom's beach house every year and making a pool in the sand that we would play in. I will love and miss you forever.

Kathryn Merlan

May 7, 2024

It's been such a pleasure to live next door and hear the laughter of a loving family and the playful times that you can only imagine are happening when you hear the splash of the pool, wonderful music and the smell of good cooking. We love our neighbors and my last memory of sweet Owen was when I was trimming a tree out front and he took out some trash. As we often find ourselves talking over the trashcans, it was a rare sweet moment where Owen smiled and waved to me, and I to him, and I thought "wow, what a handsome young man he has turned into." Kathryn Merlan

Isaiah Mahmood

May 7, 2024

My favorite memories of Owen were when I slept over at his house. For a while I practically lived with Owen. We would spend the nights doing many things. Listening to music, jumping on his trampoline, playing video games with his Vr headset, or watching horror movies together. But out of all those nights filled with adventure and fun my favorite memory was when we were both in the pool late at night and we made a dream together. Our dream was to grow up together and to become rich together, me as a pro soccer player, him as a successful businessman. Than once we had enough money we were going to buy a mansion together and create our own dream house. I wish we could still have nights like those talking about random things that keep us entertained for hours. He made me and I can only assume everyone else smile whenever they saw him. I miss his contagious laugh and his never ending crazy ideas.

Ammar Mahmood

May 7, 2024

Thank you for being a friend to my son, Owen. The surf camps, the sleepovers, the gaming hangouts, they were cherished moments for him that left fond, lasting memories. We´ll miss you.

Jermina Malumane

May 7, 2024

Reading about how he loved his family. May God comfort you in this trying time

zoe schwartz

May 6, 2024

Me and owen would spend hours talking and going on walks at elcap and he always gave me such amazing advice and made me feel so fulfilled. He always found a way to make me feel special. Even at the darkest times of my life, he helped me to see the light and push through. We struggled with many similar issues and we helped eachother through them. I wish he was still here but I will live out his memory by constantly pushing through and persevering as he always told me to.

jordyn patterson

May 6, 2024

We were in kindergarten and I was in room 1 while he was in room 2 it was common for our classes to partake in many activities together. We were learning the friendship song and Owen happened to be the person I was sitting next to.

Pete Brandano

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Pete Brandano

May 6, 2024

My first memory of Owen was dry heaving while changing his diaper. Memories got better from there. He and Amelia were the cutest babies in history. I remember them hanging all over wrigley. I remember when all of our kids sat on make way for ducklings at least twice. I remember how absolutely wonderful Owen was to all three of my girls. His cousins. He made them all feel special. On vacation in San Diego when he saw Lillian come out of our room wearing a Nirvana shirt, he immediately ran back to his room and put his matching shirt on. She was so proud that he was her cousin because he was so cool. I remember the fun trips we had together to Malibu, Boston, and around the Valley. I will never forget the fun Paul, Owen, Lillian and I had playing Baldur´s gate together. It made thousands of miles disappear. I am so grateful for the memories I have with Owen. I will miss you forever my amazing Nephew and God Son. I will always love you Owen. - Uncle Pete

R

May 6, 2024

Owen was one of the funniest and nicest boys i ever met. He always cheered me up when I was upset and would try to make me laugh. he was so kind and goofy and i miss him everyday. im sharing this photo because it shows him ( photo from 6-7-22)

Alex Shabtay

May 6, 2024

I remember going with owen to pali camp in 5th grade. I walked him across camp to the nurses office to get some medicine. one of the nicest people i ever had the chance to meet

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Brody and I remember the Little Owen. The toddler that were shared play dates. His little laugh always stuck with me. I once thought that his little eyes smiled along as if mischievous music played in his head. Forever, he will be remembered to me as the little guy who was excited to share the turtle pond with Brody at Greystone.

Although we didn´t get to see him as he grew, I know that same kind soul grew up with him. Thank you Brandanos for sharing such a magnificent treasure with us. Thank you Owen, for sharing a bit of your time here with us. We are so fortunate to be part of your world.

Emma Steuer

May 6, 2024

I remember growing up, my family would visit the beach house with Owen and his family all the time. One day, us four kids went walking along the beach, to the farthest point, when Owen found a weird looking rock. I laughed at him for being interested in it, but seconds later, found out it was a beautiful rose quartz. Owen let me keep the rock, and it now sits in my front yard to this day. I love you owen. Emma Steuer

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