Pamela J. Eimer

Pamela J. Eimer obituary, Ronkonkoma, NY

Pamela J. Eimer

Pamela Eimer Obituary

Visit the Moloney’s Lake Funeral Home & Cremation Center - Lake Ronkonkoma website to view the full obituary.

In Loving Memory of Pamela Eimer.

It is with deep sorrow and profound love that we announce the unexpected passing of Pamela Eimer, who left us peacefully on July 13, 2025, at the age of 57.

A devoted sister, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend Pam touched the lives of many with her kindness, strength, and boundless love.

Born on April 19, 1968 in Queens, NY, Pam was predeceased by her parents George and Patricia Eimer and youngest brother Kenneth. She was raised in Lake Ronkonkoma, where she had many friends and enjoyed spending time with family, going fishing, hiking in Mills Path, going to the local parks with all the kids and taking Mom shopping. As a sister, she shared a special bond with all her siblings, at different times, offering both love and support through life's joys and challenges.

A loving mother to Tara, Rob & Kenny, She was a best friend and first love to their father Robert Cisler. Her heart was also full of pride for her new grandson, Stephen, whom she cherished with every fiber of her being. In addition to her immediate family, Pam was also a beloved aunt to many nieces and nephews, all of whom she held dear, offering guidance, laughter, and warmth that will be forever remembered. Pam had a gift for bringing people together, and her presence was felt in every room. Whether through shared meals, quiet conversations, or family gatherings, she created a sense of belonging and love that will endure forever.

A celebration of her life will be held at Moloney's Lake Funeral Home, in Lake Ronkonkoma on Sunday July 20, 2025, 2 PM to 4 PM/7 PM to 9 PM, where family and friends will gather to share memories and honor her legacy.

Though her physical presence is no longer with us, Pam’s love and memory will continue to guide and inspire all who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion, resilience, and devotion to her family.

Rest in peace, Pam. You will forever be in our hearts.

Moloney’s Lake Funeral Home & Cremation Center - Lake Ronkonkoma

132 Ronkonkoma Avenue, Lake Ronkonkoma, NY 11779

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