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Pamela K. Harn-Spaulding
1950 - 2025
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Pamela Harn-Spaulding Obituary
November 2, 1950 - September 4, 2025
Pamela K. Harn-Spaulding, 74, of Waterloo, Iowa, passed away on Thursday, September 4, 2025 in Des Moines.
She was born on November 2, 1950 in Fort Dodge, Iowa, the daughter of Ross Jay and Bernice (Campbell) Kitchen.
Following high school, Pam earned her LPN working at various nursing homes in Waterloo. She enjoyed playing cards and loved animals.
Survivors include her husband, Mark Spaulding; sons, Darby Harn of Waterloo and Aaron Harn of Des Moines; stepchildren, Jeremy Spaulding and Brandi Spaulding; a sister, Kandi Rochholz; several nieces and nephews, Kati, Matt, Mason, Kim, Mickey and Marshall.
Preceded in death by her parents; and a brother, Jon Kitchen.
Funeral service will be at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, September 11th, at Hagarty-Waychoff-Grarup Funeral Service on South Street with a public visitation from 9 to 10:00 a.m., with a 9:45 a.m. rosary. Burial will take place at a later date in Fort Dodge Memorial Park.
Memorials may be directed to the family.
Online condolences can be made at:
www.hagartywaychoffgrarup.com
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