Patricia "Pat" Endicott
Patricia "Pat" Endicott
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Nov
13
Graveside service
3:00 p.m.
Avery Cemetery
Cushing, OK
Nov
14
Visitation
6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.
Downing & Lahey West Mortuary
10515 W. Maple, Wichita, KS 67209
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Downing & Lahey Mortuaries & Crematory - West WichitaPatricia Endicott Obituary
Graveside Service: 3:00 p.m., Thursday, November 13, 2025, Avery Cemetery, Cushing, OK.
Visitation: 6:00–8:00 p.m., Friday, November 14, 2025, Downing & Lahey West Mortuary, Wichita, KS.
Born near Cushing, Oklahoma, on June 24, 1932, Pat was the 10th of 12 children to Dwight and Sylvia Haskin. She met her lifelong love, Kenneth "Ken" Endicott, in high school, and they were married at First Baptist Church, Cushing. Together they built a life centered on faith, family, and hospitality-first in Norman, OK, and later in Wichita, KS.
Pat was known for her joyful spirit, warm hospitality, and delicious home cooking. She faithfully served her church, teaching Sunday School, organizing meals, and opening her home to all. She loved Ken which involved traveling together, learning while he taught her to play golf, and sharing their home and hospitality with family, friends, and even strangers. Her greatest joys were her husband, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
Pat is preceded in death by her parents, Dwight and Sylvia Haskin; husband, Kenneth Endicott; brothers, Harold Haskin, Woodrow Haskin, Loyd Haskin, Delbert Haskin, Marlin Haskin, Thomas Haskin, Curtis Haskin; sisters, Annie Grace Haskin, Betty Wolfe, and Leone Haskin. She is survived by her daughter, Sheryl "Sherri" (Keith) Hayden; son, Gary Endicott; grandchildren, Lydia Hayden, Caleb (Lauren) Hayden, Joshua (Gayathri) Hayden, Susanna Hayden, Nathan (Deborah) Hayden, Megan (Derek) Simpson, Erin (Jeremy) Allen; eighteen great-grandchildren; brother, Olin Haskin; and special family friend, Jeremy (Amy and 3 sons) Helm.
A memorial has been established with Koinonia Senior Care, 13303 W. Maple, Suite 139, PMB #128, Wichita, KS 67235.
"Her children rise up and call her blessed." - Proverbs 31:28
Services in care of Downing & Lahey West Mortuary, Wichita, KS.
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Nov
13
Graveside service
3:00 p.m.
Avery Cemetery
Cushing, OK
Nov
14
Visitation
6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.
Downing & Lahey West Mortuary
10515 W. Maple, Wichita, KS 67209
Services provided by
Downing & Lahey Mortuaries & Crematory - West Wichita