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On November 18, 2025, Patricia Ann Gray passed peacefully from this world into Heaven. Born in Midland on July 20, 1940, she was the middle child of Arthur and Alberta Lincoln. Pat married Thomas Gray on June 15, 1959 at St. Phillip Neri Catholic Church in Coleman. They shared 59 wonderful years together and had two children, Ted (Robin) Gray and Laurie (Frank) Chavez. Pat was a loving grandma to Matthew and Nathan. Also left to cherish her memory is her brother, Joe (Jan) Lincoln; and in-laws, Pat Lincoln and Bill (Jackie) Gray. In addition to her parents and husband, Pat was preceded in death by her brother, Richard Lincoln.
Pat was devout in her faith and was actively involved at her church, Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church, where she participated in the Ladies Guild. In her spare time, she enjoyed traveling, birdwatching, doing word searches, and watching sports, especially U of M football, the Detroit Tigers and Lions.
Pat's Funeral Liturgy will be held at 11 a.m. on Friday, November 21, 2025. at Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church (St. Agnes of Sanford). Fr. Dan Fox, OFM Cap will officiate with burial to be in St. Agnes Cemetery. Visitation will be at the church on Friday from 10 a.m. until the time of mass. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be offered to Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church or Amber Hospice. The Gray family is being cared for by Wilson Miller Funeral Home.
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Sue Weiler O,
Yesterday
Joe and Jan and family,
. thinking about you and the loss of your sister. She´s joining the "pillars" of Saint Agnes in heaven.
Libbey Lincoln
Yesterday
Rest in peace aunt Pat. I remember the love of the Sunday ham dinners, her busyness, commitment to her church, and (feigned?) exasperation at us kids.
Kelly Lincoln
Yesterday
Laurie and Ted, I´m so sad and sorry to hear of Aunt Pats passing. I have nothing but great memories of her kindness and love. She was such a wonderful lady in every way
Judy Miller
Yesterday
Pat and Tom were neighbors of ours fir mant years on Hicks Rd.
I loved stopping at their house and visiting.
R.I.P. my friend.
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