1935
2024
Sponsored by Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home, Crematory and Cemetery.
Michael Gresham
December 3, 2025
Miss you,Mom.
Andrew Martin
May 6, 2025
I remember Pat as a kind compassionate person. A devoted wife to Ollie. A loving mother to her two sons. A truly nice person.
Janis Jmaeff
April 15, 2024
My sincerest condolences to your family. Pat was such a fun, kind person. I played a lot of tennis with Pat back in the 70´s and 80´s. She was a fierce competitor!! I was always glad when she was on my team at Lafortune. I always think about her when I drive down 31st, fun times on her court too. God speed, Pat!!
Kelly Clark
April 15, 2024
My sincerest condolences and heartfelt sympathy to the Gresham family. Pat was such a lovely, sweet, kind lady. I'm glad I had the pleasure of knowing her.

Michael Gresham
April 14, 2024

Michael Gresham
April 14, 2024

Michael Gresham
April 14, 2024

Michael Gresham
April 14, 2024
Michael Gresham
April 14, 2024
You are at peace Mom.
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