Patrick A. Elwell

Patrick A. Elwell

Patrick Elwell Obituary

Published by A.J. Desmond & Sons Funeral Directors on Nov. 1, 2018.
Patrick passed away in October 2018. Patrick was a resident of Michigan at the time of passing. Family will receive friends Wednesday 2 - 8 p.m. at A. J. Desmond and Sons Funeral Home, 2600 Crooks Rd (Between Maple and Big Beaver) Troy, 248-362-2500. Funeral Mass Thursday 11 a.m. at St. Hugo of the Hills Stone Chapel, 2215 Opdyke Rd., Bloomfield Hills. Visitation at church begins 10:30 a.m. Memorial tributes to Mental Illness Research Association (MIRA), memo line: for research only. A. J. Desmond & Sons Funeral Home 2600 Crooks Road (btw Maple & Big Beaver) Troy MI 48084 Visitation - A. J. Desmond & Sons Funeral Home Elwell, Patrick A. Visitation - A. J. Desmond & Sons Funeral Home 2600 Crooks Road (btw Maple & Big Beaver) Troy, MI 48084 Wednesday, November 7, 2018 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM St. Hugo of the Hills Stone Chapel 2215 Opdyke Road Bloomfield Hills Michigan 48304 Service - St. Hugo of the Hills Stone Chapel Elwell, Patrick A. Service - St. Hugo of the Hills Stone Chapel 2215 Opdyke Road Bloomfield Hills, Michigan 48304 Thursday, November 8, 2018 11:00 AM Visitation begins at 1.

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November 8, 2018

Cathy and Arnie Kanka posted to the memorial.

November 7, 2018

Diane Miracle posted to the memorial.

November 7, 2018

Boris Sellers sent flowers.

Cathy and Arnie Kanka

November 8, 2018

Arnie and I (Cathy) send out deepest condolences to the entire Elwell family. Pat was a good fried, a wonderful person and a true contributor to our community. I enjoyed the chance to see Pat at Panera and give him a hug whenever possible. He will be greatly missed. Sorry neither of us was able to come to the visitation in person to express our sympathy to you all.

Cathy and Arnie Kanka

Diane Miracle

November 7, 2018

Very sorry to hear this news, my deepest sympathy to all the family. Pat was a great man, always loved his humor. I worked at his restaurants and even though it was work we always had fun. RIP Pat.

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Anita Wilson

November 6, 2018

Paula, Kelly and Patrick
I am so sorry for the Loss of Your Husband and Father.
I was in Such Shock when I heard the News.
I, like Others was Truly Blessed to have Worked for Patrick. Not only Once, but a few times.
I still have a message from Patrick on my Phone.
I was in the Hospital when he called me.
I feel so bad for not returning that call to a Friend of Mine.
I just know...
I like so Many...
Was Blessed to work for Pat at the "Shalet Inn" right up until the end of Time of the Trailer Days in the Parking Lot Next Store... answering the Phone until they didn't come in. What Memories we all had.
And again, when Pat opened "Patrick's"
Here again... Another set of Blessings all the Way Around for all of Us who Worked for You Mr. Patrick Elwell
You my Friend...
May you Rest in Peace
Just know there is Never going to be Another Patrick Elwell like You Again!

Tom Coles

November 5, 2018

Pat did fantastic work in helping destigmatize mental illness by starting MIRA. Research is so very important for these commonly very difficult illnesses. I offer my sincere condolences to Pat's family.

I knew Pat some because I was President of the National Alliance on Mental Illness affiliate eastside of Wayne Cty. 1988-2010. I was on the Board of the charity now known as the Brain & Behavior Research Foundation and accepted some years ago a significant check from MIRA for this national charity funding important research.

November 5, 2018

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

June Anderson

November 3, 2018

Pat was one of the most kind, generous men I have ever met. He was a very Special person to the Johnson Family. We all Loved him very much and am very saddened of his passing.

Judith Walters

November 3, 2018

An inspirational person in my life. I considered Pat as a mentor. Fine man! God speed Patrick.

Gretchen Luttrell

November 1, 2018

I am so sorry to hear this. I was the office manager for Superior Redi-Mix for years and would often see Pat, either in the restaurant or when he would visit. He was one of my favorites for sure! RIP, Pat, you will be missed and have been thought of (often) by me over the years.

Janie Saltarelli

November 1, 2018

Pat, you will be greatly missed. You were a nice and kind person. Our thoughts and prayers go to your family.
Janie and Dominic Saltarelli

Edward & Karen Parrett

November 1, 2018

Karen and I would like extend our deepest sympathy to Elwell family. My mother (Meryl) has just received an order of 10 pies. Pat's big restaurant is now open for business. Our prayers.

October 31, 2018

Paula,
We were so sorry to hear of Pat's passing and we send you and your family our deepest sympathy. Meryl loved working for Pat and spoke of him often, right up to her passing.
I will always remember Pat and I sat one Friday night at the Shalea and talked over our problems and laughing out loud at the same time until 3 am. He was a great guy and could make a person feel great just talking, much the same as another mutual friend Jim Kane who was my old boss and your old neighbor.
Always remember the good times and know that he will be fondly missed.
Ken and Sharon Ryan. (Meryl Jenkins daughter and son-in-law)

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November 8, 2018

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November 7, 2018

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November 7, 2018

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