Paul Oquendo Obituary
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Stephanie Genung
June 2, 2025
Paul was in my class at Edgewood school from K-5th grade and was always a nice kid. My mom has told me a story about how he went up to her at a school movie night and said "hello, I´m Paul and I am going to marry your daughter one day." In the most confident and adorable way. I loved that story and I wil remember Paul as a nice person. It´s sad to hear thathe passed so young. And I hope his family are holding onto wonderful memories of him tightly. Rest easy Paul.
Autumn (Prokop) Ortiz
October 29, 2018
To Paul's family, I am so sorry to hear about his passing. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Sending thoughts and prayers as you heal through your time of grief. Although I lost touch with Paul after high school, I'm sure he was still that kind, warm and caring person. His children and loved ones will forever have a guardian angel.
Frank Sirre
October 29, 2018
I remember as a child wrestling with him and giving him nuggies on his head and bouncing him on my leg at Dad and Mom's. Gone too soon...
Janet Sandella
October 29, 2018
Ronnie,Our deepest sympathy to you and your family . Hugs and prayers to you during this most difficult time❤ Janet and Richard Sandella
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October 29, 2018
I am sorry regarding the loss of your loved one. May the God of Comfort, continue to comfort the family, during these difficult times. May he, continue to give support and loving kindness to all. 1Cor 1:3,4.
October 29, 2018
What I'm feeling now its hard to put into words. Paul has touched so many lives, remember him coming to the NHSB and always would say hi. My prayers and thoughts are with you Ronnie, just remember his angel and will watch over all he loved and left behind.
My prayers and thought are with you.
When you get a chance give me a call.
Giuliana Gioiosa
Bonny Frangipane
October 29, 2018
My deepest sympathy Ronnie to you and family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers. I remember him as a young boy coming to the bank.
Margarita Torres
October 29, 2018
May the light of God always shine upon your soul, May Grace of God be always with you I love you Pauly and will be missed. R.I.P. Your titi Margie
Nicole Calver
October 29, 2018
Ronnie, I am so sorry for your loss. He grew up in the NHSB family and I always loved seeing him. I have been thinking about you constantly and you are in my prayers.
Joe Santos
October 29, 2018
Veronica and family. Words cannot express my sadness. I am so sorry. R.I. P. my friend. Gonna miss you Paul.
Joe
October 29, 2018
Pauly o always would kiss my face and tellMe how much he loves me every single time we were together for a show or just to hang out . This hurts .
Erika
October 28, 2018
Another angel has gained his wings
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