Paul Sylvia Sr

Paul David Sylvia, Sr., age 79, of Phoenix, Arizona, passed away peacefully at home
on Saturday, September 27th, surrounded by his loving family.
Born on September 10, 1946, in Acushnet, Massachusetts, Paul was the beloved son of John and
Mary Sylvia, and the cherished brother of Joe and Lydia. A man of deep faith, humor, and
integrity, Paul lived a life marked by service - to his country, his family, and his community.
Paul proudly served in the United States Marine Corps from June 22, 1965, to June 20, 1969,
including time as an embassy guard in both Paris and Cyprus during the Vietnam War. After
completing his service, he pursued his education at Georgetown University through the GI Bill,
building the foundation for a life of hard work and perseverance.
On August 30, 1969, Paul married Carolyn Sue DeFauw, with whom he shared a joyful and
faith-filled life raising six children. After Carolyn's passing in 1998, Paul was blessed to find
love again, marrying Beth Swanson on March 24, 2001, expanding his family and his heart even
further.
A true self-starter, Paul built his independent insurance agency from the ground up and operated
it out of his home so that he could remain present and involved in his children's lives. His
dedication to family was unwavering - he was not only a provider but a constant presence,
offering guidance, laughter, and love.
During his years in Illinois, Paul was active in the Cursillo movement, a Catholic retreat
community that deepened his faith and nurtured lifelong friendships centered around God,
service, and fellowship. This experience strengthened his walk with Christ and connected him to
a faith community that remained dear to his heart throughout his life.
Those who knew Paul will remember his quick wit and endless supply of dad jokes, his deep
love for his grandchildren, and his humble, faith-filled approach to life. He rarely missed a
chance to cheer them on - whether in person from the sidelines or online from his iPad,
faithfully keeping tabs through GameChanger or any app that let him follow their games and
accomplishments.
Originally a Red Sox fan from his Boston roots, Paul became a devoted Chicago Cubs fan during
his years in Illinois, often watching or listening to games while working from home. In 2016, he
fulfilled a lifelong dream when he attended Game 7 of the World Series in Cleveland with two of
his children, witnessing the Cubs' historic victory in person.
Paul's loved ones often teased him for his legendary frugality - from his knack for finding a
deal to his infamous enjoyment of "free" hotel breakfast buffets (even when he wasn't staying
there). He also loved a good shortcut when driving - even if it sometimes meant getting a little
lost in the pursuit of one. He lived simply, laughed often, and loved deeply.
Paul's faith was steadfast, and his love immeasurable. He was fortunate to be cared for at home
by his wife, Beth, whose love, strength, and devotion ensured his final days were spent in
comfort and peace. Her selfless care and countless sacrifices allowed him to remain where he
was happiest - at home, surrounded by love.
He was preceded in death by his first wife, Carolyn, his parents, his sister, Lydia, and
his grandson, Jeremy.
Survivors include his wife, Beth; children - Amy Richardson; Paul Sylvia, Jr. (Jennifer); John
Sylvia (Jennifer); Mary Krogman (Nate); Tim Sylvia (Kathi); Emily Sylvia; Matthew Beswick
(Kristin); and Genny Beswick; 15 grandchildren; his brother, Joe; and many nieces and
nephews who will carry forward his love, humor, and faith.
His legacy - of faith, family, laughter, and service - will live on in all who were blessed to
know him.
Paul was cremated, and interment with military honors will take place at the Rock Island Arsenal
Cemetery.
He was so very loved - and is so very missed. "The righteous man walks in his integrity; his
children are blessed after him." - Proverbs 20:7
In lieu of flowers, if you feel moved to give, the family would be grateful for
donations to Hospice of the Valley, whose kindness and care were a true blessing in bringing Paul
comfort and peace in his final days.
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