Peter D. Merchant

Peter D. Merchant obituary, Cape Neddick, ME

Peter D. Merchant

Peter Merchant Obituary

Published by Nicholson & Carmon Funeral Home on Aug. 12, 2013.
Peter David Merchant, 66, died after a long illness, on Monday, August 12th, 2013 at his brother's home in Suffield, CT surrounded by his loving family. Born in Springfield, MA to the late Malcolm and Alta (King) Merchant, he lived in Springfield until he entered the U.S. Air Force in 1970. Peter served as a Hospital Pharmacist beginning in Presque Isle, ME and successively serving in Portsmouth, NH, Thailand, Dover, DE, Spain, Germany and Sacramento, CA before retiring with the rank of Major in 1990. He lived in California for a number of years after retiring and finally returned to the East coast to a home in Cape Neddick, ME. He loved being near the beach where he spent many leisure days. He earned his Pharmacy Degree from the University of Connecticut. Peter was a long-time member of the National Ski Patrol serving at Springfield Ski Club in Blandford, MA - he was distinguished as the very first "Patroller of The Year" in the early 1960s. He loved going on the ski trips with family to places in Colorado, Utah, Idaho and France. He also liked to take vacation journeys to Thailand and recently visited Viet Nam as well. Peter became an avid Red Sox fan years ago and sent out an email newsletter daily to many friends and family. Peter will be sadly missed by his brother John and wife Mary, his brother James and wife Crista, all of Suffield, CT. He leaves behind many extended family members including niece Keri, husband Andy and their two boys, Alex and Ryan, nephew Christian and partner Jessica. Mary's sister Ellen and husband Stephen, and sister Ethel were very close family members who were very supportive during Peter's life. He will be missed by many dear friends in California, Maine, Massachusetts and Connecticut. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, August 14th from 5:00 - 8:00 pm at the Nicholson and Carmon Funeral Home, 443 East Street N., Suffield, CT. The Funeral will be Thursday, 1:00 pm at the Chapel at the Mass. Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 1390 Main Street, Agawam, MA. Peter's family would like to acknowledge and thank the wonderful Hospice staff both in Maine and later in Connecticut for their attentive care. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society, 825 Brook St I-91 Tech Center, Rocky Hill, CT 06067.

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June 17, 2014

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August 16, 2013

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August 16, 2013

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MSgt David Dussault

June 17, 2014

I served with Pete at Dover AFB. I was the ranking NCO in the pharmacy 1976-1983. He was the best Officer I served under. He was fair, good-humored, and I considered him a friend as well as my superior. Was thinking of Pete today and searched the internet. Found his obituary. Wish I had looked before. I now realize we lived closer than I thought, and shared a passion for the Red Sox. I regret not being able to renew out friendship.

Sharon Lee Davies-Tight

August 16, 2013

I've lit many candles in my life. Real candles, candles on canvas--and candles of the heart, when I didn't have an actual candle to light nor a canvas upon which to paint one.

I light a candle today on the internet--a new medium--not for my childhood friend Peter--who has communed with his God, but for his family who is feeling the pain of his departure.

August 16, 2013

Peter, you were always a brother I could look up to. Always heard of your goodness and likeability being just 2 years behind in school. You brought real depth and joy to family at all times. We will miss having you around but will always have you with us. Continuing our love, Jim

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Sharon Lee Davies-Tight

August 16, 2013

My sister Carole just told me of Peter's passing today.

We three, Carole, me (Sharon) and Jim grew up with the Merchant boys (Peter, Jim and John).

Alma was involved with boy scouts while her husband was away on air force duties. My mother was involved with girl scouts.

They lived at the end of the street and we a few houses up. We, as kids, spent many days exploring the woods behind the Merchant house and enjoyed what kids like to do--be free.

I remember that the Marcel's ate at 4 P.M., the Davies at 5 P.M. and the Merchants at 6 P.M. We kids knew how to work around our parents' schedules to come out and play. When the street lights came on we all went home. That's the way it was on Arthur Street. We were the East Springfield gang --the Arthur Street gang--but a gang absent any bad will towards anyone. We just enjoyed being kids, and all that entails.

Everybody in the neighborhood marveled at how we kids would come together and plan a Valentine party, or a backyard circus, always being in the moment. Somehow, and I really don't know how, we all were confident in who we were. I guess we had the East Springfield gene in us--that nobody could take away, and nobody better try.

With loving memories, childhood memories, of all of us growing up together in a safe place, with parents who cared, with not much except their ingenuity, and ours, to support that claim.

Struggles throughout those years and in later years? Yes. And who doesn't have them?

I wonder as I get older when my time will come. But when it does I will remember as I remember today, that early on, when we were just kids exploring the world in the woods behind the Merchant house, that I had something few kids have, a place to feel safe while exploring the world of nature--soil, plants, frogs, trees, humans, friends.

Alma, and my mother too, were all about that--all the East Springfield mothers were about that.

And that's something that nobody can ever take away from us East Springfielders. We were bred strong and we lived strong, enjoying all of nature. It's just the way it was in East Springfield, Massachusetts--back in the day.

I am happy to see the photo of Pete Merchant smiling from the side bar as I write. It's been so long since I saw your face.

To Pete's family, the Davies family is with you. From Arthur Street to all the places the world has taken all of us, PEACE.

Ray Dalrymple

August 16, 2013

Dear John, Mary and Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Peter was in good hands and a loving home his last days. Ray, Kyle and Julia Dalrymple.

Kathleen K. Hull - Director

August 13, 2013

Mary & John ~

You remain in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. The tender care given with love and compassion only proves Mary you are a true angel here on earth, Peter was blessed to have you as our we. The doctors and staff at Saint Francis GI Endoscopy, LLC Windsor CT.

Helaine and Steve Hagstrand

August 13, 2013

John and Mary, Jim and Crista,
Our sympathies go out to you at this sad time. We know that you made Peter's life very special in life and sent him to heaven with a smile. Thinking of you all including Ellen, Stephen and Ethel, his nieces and nephews. With love, Helaine and Steve

Dale Seymour

August 13, 2013

Peter led a great fun-filled, well traveled life. I was glad to be part of his life. We were both stationed in New Hampshire together and then luck had it, stationed together at Ramstein, Germany. His continuing friendship was very special to me. He always spoke lovingly of his family. Peter will be missed.

Pete Cooley

August 13, 2013

Jim,

My sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your brother Peter. I'm sure he will be missed by everybody. May he rest in peace.

PeterD - Fenway Park August 2012

John Merchant

August 13, 2013

Gail Hogan Lucia

August 13, 2013

Jim and Family-
So sorry to hear about Peter's passing. Just remember all the good times and happy memories and he'll always be with you.

August 13, 2013

Jim - Sorry to read about the loss of your brother. May family and friends give you peace during this difficult time.
Karen Arble (Oakdale Dental - Holyoke)

Sue Ordinetz

August 13, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of Peter's passing. He had a wonderful family and supportive circle around him. May he rest in peace and God bless you all.

August 12, 2013

Peter, Your service to our country and love of family, friends, travel and other cultures gave you a "quilt" of experiences that shaped you into a humble, tolerant and kind man with deep thoughts and a camera's eye for beauty. I was lucky to know you. ~~ Crista, your sister-in-law

Carol Tower

August 12, 2013

Jim, Praying for you and your entire family. I am sorry for your loss. RIP Peter

Linda & Jim Cepican

August 12, 2013

Sending our love and thoughts to you. Peter was a wonderful person. Love you

chris and mary anne cary

August 12, 2013

Thinking of all you guys, sending hugs and loving thoughts your way. You were all such dedicated, caring and giving family support to Peter and each other. I am sure you sent Peter on this next journey with peace and comfort! Blessings to you all!

Susan Kramer

August 12, 2013

Mary & John--My thoughts are with all of you. We are on vacation so cannot be there but I loved Peter's Sox update and our shared love of MMM Jacoby. Will give you a call.

Nicholson & Carmon Funeral Home

August 12, 2013

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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