Phillip D. Schmeer

Phillip D. Schmeer obituary, Brockton, formerly of Cape Cod

Phillip D. Schmeer

Phillip Schmeer Obituary

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Phillip D. Schmeer, 54, a resident of Brockton, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, July 3, 2018 at the Lahey Clinic in Burlington. He was the loving husband of 14 years of Kathleen M. (Bruce) Schmeer. Born in Rochester, NY, to Victor and Irene (Lohman) Schmeer, he was raised and educated in Rochester until age 13 at which point he moved to Cape Cod and eventually settled in Yarmouth. He was a graduate of Dennis Yarmouth High School, Class of 1982. Phil worked for several Cape Cod Restaurants as a chef, including the Captain's Chair in Hyannis, the Cummaquid Golf Club and Fred's Turkey House both in Yarmouth. Eventually he opened his own restaurant, The New Moon in Harwichport, which he ran for several years. Recently, he worked in Landscaping and lawn care, at Scotts Lawn Care and most recently at Yukon Landscaping in Raynham. Phil was a Parrothead and loved going to Jimmy Buffett Concerts, golfing, fishing, his 1979 Trans Am, traveling to Florida and North Conway and camping. He was a member of the Cape Cod Dart League at Captain Parker's in Yarmouth. Phil loved spending time with family and friends at Chapin Beach, shopping with his beloved wife, scratch tickets and keno and anything that included Peanut Butter and Chocolate. He was an animal lover, especially his dogs, Midnight and Chloe. Friends often referred to him as McGyver due to his ability to fix almost anything and his love of gadgets. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his brothers; David Caluori and his wife Mary, Edmund Caluori, Daniel Schmeer and Robert Schmeer all of NY. He was the brother in law of Stephen Bruce, David Bruce and his wife Karen and Joseph Bruce and his wife Heather. Phil was the uncle of Michael Caluori, Stephanie Caluori, Brandon, Erica, Riley, Ian and Ezra Schmeer, Brian and Marissa Caluori, Ryan, Patryck, and Kaitlyn Schmeer, Lindsay Bruce, Kaitlyn Dudley-Cheney, Nicole Dudley-Bruce, Olivia Dudley-Bruce, Jake Bruce, Devon, Andrew and Kiera Bruce. He is also survived by several aunts, uncles and cousins. Memorial Prayers will be held in the Farley Funeral Home, 358 Park St., (Rt. 27) Stoughton on Sunday at 4 PM. Visiting Hours prior to the prayers from 2-4 PM. Donations in Phil's memory may be made to the Angell Memorial Hospital/MSPCA, 350 S. Huntington Ave., Boston, MA 02130 or to www.mspca.org/donate-now/.

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July 13, 2018

Paul Valentine posted to the memorial.

July 10, 2018

Diane Johnson posted to the memorial.

July 6, 2018

Ed and Alice Tobin posted to the memorial.

Paul Valentine

July 13, 2018

So very sorry for your loss. Phil has been taking care of our lawn for several years and we always enjoyed talking with him. He will be sorely missed.

Paul & Diane Valentine
Middleboro, MA

Diane Johnson

July 10, 2018

Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Phil at The Lawn Company/Scotts and have kept in touch via Facebook. I have such fond memories of him. Please know you are in my thoughts.

Ed and Alice Tobin

July 6, 2018

We just heard the news of our very dear and long time friend Phil. He was a very dear and wonderful person. we are very saddened.He will be greatly missed. Kathy you are in our prayers and thoughts. We will treasure all the memories .Ed and Alice Tobin ,Gettysburg ,Pa

Maureen Bruce

July 6, 2018

Phil will be truely missed by Maureen Bruce. Without a doubt the kindest loyal person I have met. A wonderful son in law to Kathy's dad and to me. He is with Jim now and hopefully enjoying a stuffed clam or two etc. so sorry Kathy.

Matt Nighorn

July 6, 2018

Kathy, when I heard about this my heart broke for you. I'm so sorry for your loss and can't imagine what you're going through right now, but my wife and I are praying for you for peace in your heart, a clear mind and for comfort. I pray God just pours his love out over you and lets you know just how big of a God He is.

Clayton Tinney

July 6, 2018

I was extremely sad to hear of Phil's passing. All my love to Kathy and his family. You all are in my thoughts at this time. I always liked Phil and he was such a wonderful man. He will be missed much!

Robert Rockwood

July 6, 2018

My deepest regrets on your loss Kathy. We have all been touched by Phil's short life and will cherish the memories of love and laughter shared over the years. I will miss wishing Him a Happy Birthday on the day we both shared.
Rest in Peace, My Friend, My Brother.
Rocky

Sue Covell

July 6, 2018

Beyond sad; my heart hurts for my dear friend Kathy. Your are surrounded with love and prayers. Rest In Peace, Phil, you will be missed!

Vanessa Santiago-Anderson

July 5, 2018

Thank you for being the wonderful human and giving me a place to call home. I pray your family will find peace. God Bless

Simone Schmeer

July 5, 2018

Phil was my nephew, and he even lived with us for a while in Yarmouth...He and his 4 brothers, and my three sons grew up together, so they were very close as kids. Phil was a kind gentle young man, taken too soon, and we will all miss him very much. When my husband was dying in the hospital, Phil made it a point to come and visit him as often as he could, and I appreciated it very much, as it was a long drive. My sympathy to his wife and his brothers, and the rest of the family...We will miss his sweet smile.

Arlyce Hansen

July 5, 2018

Rest In Peace Phil.. So sorry Kathy for your Loss..

Daniel Kane

July 5, 2018

Sorry to hear this very sad news.

Kendra Rideout

July 5, 2018

Kathy, so sorry for your loss! Sending hugs and love during this extremely difficult time.

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