Phillip Simmons

Phillip Simmons

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Phillip Simmons Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Frary Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Gouverneur on Feb. 24, 2026.
Gouverneur – Phillip "Phil" Simmons, 77, passed away peacefully at his home on February 17,2026. Calling hours will be held Thursday, February 26, 2026, from 10:00 a.m. until the time of service at noon at Frary Funeral Home, 33 Park Street, Gouverneur, with Pastor Howard Maxson officiating, burial will follow at East Dekalb Cemetery.

Phil was born in Ogdensburg on May 30, 1948, to the late Ward and Clara (Burke) Simmons. Growing up on a farm, he learned early the value of hard work and determination, traits that would define him throughout his life. He graduated from Hermon DeKalb Central School and on August 18, 1972, married the love of his life, Connie Bush. Together they spent 50 years building a life rooted in love, laughter, and devotion. Phil proudly served his country before working for the Department of Public Works at Fort Drum until his retirement.

Known to many as "Tippy," a nickname earned from his habit of walking on his tiptoes (and occasionally tipping over), Phil was truly the life of the party. His laugh was bigger than most rooms; you often heard him before you saw him. He never met a stranger and had a gift for turning everyday moments into something memorable. Whether playing cards with friends, bowling league nights at Gouverneur Bowl, golfing at Emerald Greens, or swapping stories and jokes over a cold drink, Phil brought warmth and humor wherever he went. Until their passing, he was rarely seen without his wife or his son by his side.

Above all, Phil was devoted to his family. He remained a constant and loving presence in the lives of his children and grandchildren. Phil is survived by his daughter, Joanna (Richard) Elliot of Lillington, NC; his son, John (Amber) Simmons of Norwood,NY; six grandchildren, Erin(Justice),Christopher, Morgan, Zachary, Kaitlyn, and Liam; and two great-grandchildren, Ezra and Everleigh. He rejoins his wife Connie, his son and best friend Robert Simmons, his Parents, one sister, and two brothers in the afterlife.

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33 Park Street, Gouverneur, NY 13642

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Feb

26

Funeral service

12:00 p.m. - 12:30 p.m.

Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Gouverneur

33 Park Street, Gouverneur, NY 13642

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