Philomina Nirmola D'Costa

Philomina Nirmola D'Costa

Philomina D'Costa Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wantagh Abbey Funeral Home on Oct. 23, 2025.

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With heavy hearts and deep gratitude, we remember Philomina Nirmola D'Costa - a devoted wife, a loving mother, a cherished grandmother, and a proud great-grandmother. Her life was a beautiful example of unwavering love, selfless care, and quiet strength.

She leaves behind not only treasured memories but a legacy of wisdom that continues to guide us: stay united, respect one another, and love unconditionally. These values were the foundation of her life and the gift she passed on to all of us.

We will do our best to honor her by walking in the path she showed us - with kindness, humility, simplicity and love.

May her soul rest in eternal peace. She will forever remain in our hearts.

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