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Jo Ann Shaw Howell
January 17, 2020
Elaine, I am so sorry hear of Ray's passing. You and your family are in my prayers.
Chris Crabill
January 14, 2020
Kristi and family, so sorry to learn of your dads passing. You, Scott and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary-k Wilson
January 11, 2020
Dear Elaine, It was a bit after the funeral that I heard of Ray's passing. I extend to you my sincere sympathy. I know how you two loved each other. Ray had a wonderful smile. Your friend, Mary-k Ashley Wilson
Patti Michael
January 6, 2020
Elaine, Kristi, Todd and family
I am so sorry for your loss...prayers for you and your family Patti Alexander Michael
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Cheryl Briscoe Wilson
January 5, 2020
Elaine, Todd, Kristi, I'm saddened to read about Ray's passing. Many hours have I spent in Woodard's and the flower shop enjoying his good nature and salesmanship. I wish you Peace and Fond Memories of a Life well lived.
Cheryl Wilson
James Craddock
January 4, 2020
Elaine and Ashlock family; my heart is truly sad about Ray. I didn't know him well, but he was truly an awesome Chief Warham and loved the city of Bonham. May his spirit rest forever high on that mountain.
DeAnn Sutton
January 3, 2020
We are so sad to hear of Rays passing. He and Elaine were always so sweet to our family. He will be missed dearly. We love your family and are praying for you.
Pam Phillips
January 3, 2020
Don and I were so sorry to hear about Ray passing. I will always remember him as a young boy with us when we had a slumber party at his house with his sisters. He was right there with us and at that time we called him Butchie, I cant remember who gave him that nick name, his mom I think.
We love Ray and his sweet family, and know we are praying for all! God Bless!
Bert and Sally SIMPSON
January 3, 2020
Elaine, Christi, and Todd, we are so sorry for your great loss. We will hold you in our prayers. Ray was an energetic fellow who supported the city and especially the Lions Club. Also, he was so amazingly creative and artistic. We will miss him.
johnnie and Brenda White
January 3, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ! Ray was a sweet man and I loved working with him at the flower shop we enjoyed working with the flowers .! Love you Elaine , Kristi and Todd and families! Will you praying for you all ! Heaven gained a wonderful man !!
David and Debra Darnell
January 3, 2020
Brother Ray was an absolute joy to be with. He will be missed by all. May the love of the Lord rest on the family, in Jesus name. Amen.
Wanda Goodman
January 3, 2020
I Would like to thank the family for letting me care for there loved one he is a sweet Man and well be missed well be praying for you all
Stan Mc Near
January 3, 2020
RIP Ray, prayers to Elaine and all the families. Will miss seeing you here on earth, but enjoy your heavenly home until me meet again.
Nanacy Coonrod Gardner
January 3, 2020
Elaine and family, please accept my condolences in the loss of Ray! May the Lord God wrap you all in His loving arms and give you peace and comfort during this time. A special time I remember was when my Dad passed and Ray helped me do a spray of yellow roses for Daddy! The angels in Heaven are rejoicing in Heaven and praising with song!
Chuck Untersee
January 3, 2020
As our generation matures, racing now toward the natural transition we all must experience, I nevertheless am always taken by those who pass.
To Elaine and family I know Ray's transition is difficult, though you well know he is on the greatest adventure of all..."the peace of God which passeth all understanding".
Betty Morris
January 3, 2020
So sorry for your loss. May you feel Gods arms of comfort around you.
Angela Wood Evett
January 3, 2020
Ray was always loving, kind and made you feel welcome anywhere he was. When I was a child, his Florist shop was absolutely magical. He touched many people with his love and kindness and his sense of community and service to others will always be
remembered.
Truanna Hickerson
January 3, 2020
Im the daughter of Lorene Barron I always went to church with my mom when she was still alive and meet Ray he was a sweet man he will be missed but he will be singing in the heavenly choir with the other angels
The Wise Funeral Home Family Bonham, TX
January 3, 2020
We present this guestbook to you with deepest compassion and with our sincerest expression of sympathy.
Kathy Norton
January 3, 2020
Elaine and family,
I pray God's comfort, strength and blessings upon you in your time of loss and sorrow, but I know you are also rejoicing with the angels in heaven that Ray is now with Jesus and no longer suffering. Ray was the dearest and sweetest man I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and loving. He was such a special friend to me. I will forever remember that precious smile of his and all the kindness he showed me. He prayed many prayers for me and my family. I loved him dearly as I do you, Elaine. You are all in my prayers.
Carolyn Keene
January 2, 2020
The epitome of energy, thoughtfulness toward others, those things all rolled into one, add a lot of happy.... that was my friend, Ray Ashlock ! He was an amazing man and now Ray is amazing in Heaven.....
Elaine and all the Ashlock family, Gods grace and love be with you all and give you peace....
Jackie Dewoody
January 2, 2020
My prayers to the family. Ray was a great guy!
Debbie Baker
January 2, 2020
Elaine-Kristi-Todd & Families- so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort & peace during this time. Many Blessings, Butch & Debbie Baker
Kathy (Currin) Helstrom
January 2, 2020
My sincerest condolences to Elaine and family. Ray was a happy friend in our family's life.
Kay Raiden
January 2, 2020
Elaine,
I am sorry to hear about Ray. You and your family are in my prayers.
Nathan Huffman
January 2, 2020
Ray was always such a pleasant and kind hearted man. I will never forget his sense of humor and how kind he was to his family. I was proud to be a part of his family for many years. I know he will certainly be missed but never forgotten.
Sandy Dooley Armstrong
January 2, 2020
Elaine. I love you and Ray. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Eloise Sisk
January 2, 2020
Rip Ray. Prayers for the family in your hour of need.
Patty Fairchild Roberts
January 2, 2020
So very sorry to hear this. Ray was such a great person, always friendly, positive and full of energy. Thoughts and prayers for Elaine and their children as they deal with this loss.
Samantha Lovelace Fisher
January 2, 2020
Thoughts and prayers for the Ashlock family.
Tony Howard
January 2, 2020
Rest in peace. May God bless you and your family. Tony
Tanya and Jerry Kountz
January 2, 2020
Sending prayers of love and comfort to the family. Ray was a fun guy and a great neighbor. He will be greatly missed.
Teresia (Terri) Bond Gibson
January 2, 2020
Dear Ashlock family, Words are inadequate to express my sympathy for your loss. Ray was a kind man who always wore a smile and offered a greeting. He will be missed by many, but none more than you. My prayer is that your sweet memories help ease the pain of your loss and that God will provide peace and comfort as only He can. God bless you all. John 14:1-4.
Beth Roe
January 2, 2020
I recall Ray always being high-spirited. He was such fun in Elementary School and continued his enthusiasm for life throughout high school and adulthood. It did not take long to know how Ray felt about a subject. He was passionate. Bonham now has a hole that will be impossible to refill. RIP Ray. Love to Elaine and family.
Rhonda Parker-Jones
January 2, 2020
Kristi, I am thinking about ya! That is a great photo that described your daddy! I hope you all cherish your memories, they are the best!
James & Tammy Woods
January 2, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family.
Wendy Keeton
January 2, 2020
In looking at his picture, I believe that to be the Ray I will always remember. He always had a smile on his face. He was the kindness most giving person. He will always have a special place in my heart!
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