Ray Carnes

1940 - 2010

Ray Carnes

1940 - 2010

BORN

1940

DIED

2010

Ray Carnes Obituary

Visit the Gordon Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe website to view the full obituary.
Ray Carnes, 69, went to be with his Lord and Savior, Sunday, July 18, 2010. He was born in Union County, NC on August 15, 1940 son of Cora Lee Belk Carnes and the late J. B. Carnes. Mr. Carnes served in the US Air Force. A celebration of life service will be held Saturday, July 24, 2010 at 5:00 PM at Euto Baptist Church. The family will receive friends following the service. He is survived by his mother, Cora Lee Belk Carnes of Monroe, wife, Karen Smathers Carnes, daughter, Stephanie Conner of Pageland, SC, step-daughters, Monica Norris of Four Oaks and Pam Bean of Wingate, sisters, Carol Collins and Sandy Mills, both of Monroe, 4 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild, his dog "Mater", cat, "Carmel" and granddog "Sophia". In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Euto Baptist Church, 6019 Hwy 205, Marshville, NC 28103 or to Union County Animal Shelter, 3340 Presson Rd., Monroe, NC 28112. Gordon Funeral Service & Crematory is caring for the Carnes family. Online condolences may be made at www.gordonfuneralservice.com

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Gordon Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe

1904 Lancaster Avenue, Monroe, NC 28112

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July 28, 2010

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July 26, 2010

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July 22, 2010

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July 28, 2010

Karen, Pam, and Monte,
We were so lucky to meet Ray. He was always along Karen side through the master gardener program and the Successful Gardening program. He was such an upbeat jovial man. I admired him, and enjoyed that contagious smile. He will be remembered to me as a caring, fun, funny, supportive, and happy man. You were all so lucky to have him in your lives. Thanks for sharing him with all of us. He will be so missed! The memorial service was so touching and I felt like I even got to know him better through it. Wonderful knwoing you both! Look forward to the joys in Heaven
Love, Danielle & Andy

Debbie and Jerry Hinson

July 26, 2010

Karen:
I am so sorry to hear about Ray's passing.
He will be missed very much.
If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with You, Pam and all family members.

July 22, 2010

Karen, I enjoyed waiting on you and Ray so much. Thanks for all the smiles, jokes and good times. Ray was a wonderful person and will be missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Judy Griffin

Mike and Rachel Clayton

July 21, 2010

Karen, How special is the friendship we share!!! Ray will be missed so much but we are so thankful for the memories that will sustain and comfort us. God will provide the peace and strength that only He can provide at such a time! Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and may the God of peace grant you strength and lift you up during difficult days. We love you!! Mike and Rachel

Nancy & David Rorie

July 20, 2010

Karen, We were so sorry to hear about Ray. David and I knew him when we were all teenagers and enjoyed our chance meetings with him in the last few years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brandon Kisiah

July 20, 2010

Will turly miss Ray, i will never find a neighbor like him again in this life. If anyone ever deserved a ticket to heaven it be that sweet old man. I will miss the long convos we used to have about nothing, Love ya ray. Rest in peace my friend.

Deloris Roekle

July 20, 2010

Will miss Ray at party times at Rusty and Mendie's. We enjoyed his company many times at their house. Karen our thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.
Dee and Dwain Roekle

Karen Fennell

July 20, 2010

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted--Matthew 5:3,4
As you grieve know that I am remembering you Karen and your family and honoring the memory of Ray.

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