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Rebecca Ann O'Bar

1974 - 2023

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Rebecca Ann O'Bar, a beloved resident of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Surrounded by her loving family, Rebecca peacefully departed from this life in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She was 48 years old.
Rebecca was born on September 30, 1974, in San Antonio, Texas, to Millard Willis and Mary Ellen (Horn) Meeks. She spent her formative years in Broken Arrow, where she graduated from Broken Arrow High School. For 28 years, Rebecca dedicated her time and talents to SS Medical Inc, leaving a lasting impact on her colleagues and the community.
Known for her immense compassion and caring nature, Rebecca had a big heart and consistently took charge in helping and guiding others. Her selflessness touched the lives of many, and her presence will be deeply missed.
On March 15, 2016, Rebecca found her forever love and soulmate when she married Brian O'Bar in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Their bond was one of strength, support, and unwavering love.
Rebecca leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories in the hearts of her adoring family. She is survived by her devoted husband, Brian O'Bar, and her beloved children: Hunter James Meeks-Riner, Hayden Taylor Meeks-Riner, Joshua Adrian O'Bar, and Jacob Austin O'Bar. She is also survived by her mother, Mary Meeks, her mother-in-law, Tina O'Bar, her sister, Shelly Whisler (Leroy), and her nephews, Cody Whisler (Allison) and Clinton Whisler (Jme).
During this time of profound loss, may we find solace in the memories we shared with Rebecca. Let us remember her for her kindness, her generosity, and her unwavering love for her family and friends. Rebecca's spirit will live on in our hearts, forever guiding and inspiring us.
In lieu of flowers, Rebecca's family asks donations be made in Rebecca's name and honor, to the Clarehouse Hospice Home, where she received great care in her final days. Clarehouse Hospice Home is a non-profit organization and operates on donations. Every gift matters. Donations can be made at the following link: https://www.clarehouse.org/donate

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