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Rita Diefenderfer Obituary

Rita F. Diefenderfer, 74, of Bethlehem, PA passed away on Thursday, February 6, 2020 at St. Luke's Hospice House in Bethlehem. She was born in Bethlehem, the daughter of the late Charles and Bertha (Trabel) Braxmeier. She was the wife of Danny Diefenderfer with whom she celebrated 51 years of marriage this past June. Rita dedicated her life to children as a mother, grandmother, and an educator of 28 years. She retired from Moore Elementary School in 2005. She graduated from Allentown Central Catholic High School, Kutztown University, and Lehigh University where she received her M.Ed. Rita was an avid reader, quilter, baker, puzzler, and card player. She put her Catholic faith into practice daily, and she was an active member of St. Ursula's Catholic Church in Fountain Hill and Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church in Bethlehem Twp.

She will be lovingly remembered by her husband, Danny; children, Tara (m. Maurice) Fitzgerald, Lara (m.Robert) Wulff, Sara (m. Shawn) Crews, Christy (m. Susan Topping) Diefenderfer, and Daniel (m. Casey) Diefenderfer; brother, James Braxmeier; sisters, Maryanna Weinhoffer and Margaret Gerlach; and grandchildren, Hannah, Halle, Evan, Caroline, Tyler, Leah, Asa, and Naomi. She was predeceased her by siblings Charles Jr., Philip, Edward, and Bertha Corby.

A viewing will be held from 6-8pm Thursday, February 13, 2020 at the Connell Funeral Home 245 E. Broad St. Bethlehem, PA 18018. A calling hour will be held from 10-11am Friday February, 14, 2020 at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church 3219 Santee Rd. Bethlehem, PA 18020 followed by a Mass of Christian Burial 11am. Inurnment will be at Holy Saviour Cemetery.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital 332 N. Lauderdale St. Memphis, TN 38105 or Cay Galgon Life House (Mary's Shelter), 714 W. Broad St. Bethlehem, PA 18018 Send online condolences at www.connellfuneral.com

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Published by Morning Call on Feb. 9, 2020.

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Miriam & Tom Ellwanger

February 12, 2020

Our prayers are for you, Danny and your whole family.
I have many good memories of yours and our girls growing up in Ft. Hill.
Remembering your good times will assist you in the following days.
God bless all of you.
Miriam & Tom Ellwanger

Doris & Louis Steiner

February 11, 2020

Rita was a special person. Her positive attitude and sense of humor was a key to who she was. Please accept our heartfelt thoughts, prayers, and condolences at this most difficult time. May you find love and comfort with your memories of her.

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Sue Hall

February 9, 2020

Danny & Family,

My deepest sympathy in the passing of Rita. She was truly a great woman. May God bring you comfort during this sad time and the upcoming days ahead. I will keep you in my prayers. RIP Rita and may God give you eternal rest.

February 8, 2020

So, so very sorry for your loss, Danny! RIta was a very sweet person and will be missed by all! We offer our prayers and condolences, for your peace, through ALL of your wonderful memories! Our prayers and condolences to your children and their families too!❤❤

Vernell and Ed

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Memorial Events
for Rita Diefenderfer

Feb

13

Viewing

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Connell Funeral Home, Inc.

245 E. Broad Street, Bethlehem, PA 18018

Feb

14

Calling hours

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church

3219 Santee Rd, Bethlehem, PA

Feb

14

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Catholic Church

3219 Santee Rd, Bethlehem, PA

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245 E. Broad Street, Bethlehem, PA 18018

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