Robert Kaps

Bobby - Fairfield '85 here. We knew each other to say hello, ran in different circles, yet we always would talk whenever we would bump into each other on campus. Had not been back to Fairfield since graduation to attend a basketball game at the new arena. Almost 40 years. At the Alumni Reception prior to the game, met some rugby guys from '84 and your name, of course, came up, along with the mandatory Duggan reference. They had me laughing! I know you would have been there and I am glad you were there in spirit, laughing along with us!

Kapper, you are never far from my thoughts. We miss you.
Jc.

I had the honor of supporting Rob and his team at my former job and I can honestly say that, in all my years there, I never met a sweeter, kinder, more hardworking person. Rob always managed to put a smile on his face, even on the hard days. He always treated others with respect and was so highly respected by others. He made me feel valued and appreciated and I was grateful to have worked so closely with him. He was a very special person and will be missed by so many.

I received an email that the guest book will soon be taken down. It was a reminder of the loss of our dear friend. As we all witnessed at his service, he an Mo have done a tremendous job raising two beautiful kids. Rick, it's a tough spot you were in, but you were able to hit the right tone mixing laughter and tears. Mo, you will remain in our prayers as you continue to mourn. Please stay in touch. Reach out to me or any of your friends who know you and Bobby from Trinity. We will be there for you. God bless you all. [email protected]

It's hard to put into words how we felt about Bobby, as he was truly a one of a kind kind of person, who exuded such much fun every time you were with him and a wonderful joy for others. We feel so lucky to have called him our friend for as long as we did. It's still tough to imagine that Bobby isn't physically here with us anymore. But we are certain that he's with us all in spirit pouring out his love and understanding for the rest of our time..... Love you forever Bobby!

Kapper was a special person to Melanie and me. We enjoyed every time we were with him, Mo, Nicole and Miles, especially the time in the Hamptons. Kaps and I were on many fun and funny sales calls together when we were both at Looking Glass Networks. These are stories we tell to this day and they warm our hearts and every one includes a memory of Robert's infectious smile. The world is dimmer. Our deepest, heartfelt condolences.

So sorry to here about Bobby - we always enjoyed seeing him here and there in town - one of the Cranston Street basketball players and a joyous person.

Joan so very sorry. Julie nielsen
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Bobby was such a special person and I am so sad that he is gone from our lives. I will always be grateful that he was my friend for so many years. From the day that we first met in high school he always called me Jeffrey and continued to call me by my full name in the years thereafter. I believe it was his way of making me feel special as that was just the Bobby Kaps way. His ability to make everyone feel as though they were the most important person is what made him so well liked and was his best characteristic. I will never forget all of the happy memories that we shared throughout the years. As saddened as I have been by Bobby's passing, I also realize that I was one of the lucky people to have had both the privilege and the honor to call Bobby Kaps a lifelong friend. I will cherish that forever. Rest in peace my dear friend.

Robert...will miss you....thoughts to the Kaps family.

Maureen - it has been a long time since I spent time with Bobby but the great memories of him are indelible. No matter what group of friends Bobby was with -- brother in laws' friends, college buddies or otherwise -- Bobby was the first person people gravitated toward - a testament to the great person he was. Always smiling, and concerned about how others were doing before himself. Truly a people person at heart. Bobby has created a fine legacy for you and your family. A life tremendously well lived. He will be missed.

Kaps, you will be missed tremendously my friend. My thoughts and prayers are with both you and your family in this difficult time.

I am heartbroken to hear of his passing. He always had a huge smile on his face when he greeted you. Always.

Happy to have Booby in my life, great guy

That infectious smile. That's what I will always remember about you, Kapper. You made others smile just by showing up. Just got home from your memorial service, and the outpouring of love was truly amazing. What a guy. Truly. You will be missed, my friend. My heartfelt condolences to your entire family. The light has gone out because the sun has come up....

Precious Bobby, you deserve the credit -- or the blame, for at least a few of the gray hairs on my head, and a good many of the laugh lines around my eyes. You were a delight to know and love, and you will dwell in my heart always.

Sending prayers durning this difficult time to the Kaps Family
The Fallone Family

Hobe, you always enjoyed a good nickname. And with all those names you handed out you made each one of us feel special and decisively connected to you. Every opportunity spent with you with your masterful one liners and precisely timed quotes was always a memorable experience. This is why we have so many "Bobby" stories as all the time spent with you lives on within us all.

Even though you would play the stammering nervous guy for a laugh you were a rock under pressure. If a situation were to suddenly turn ugly you'd make a quick assessment, a definitive decision, and we'd be laughing a half hour later.

The time we've spent together defines my childhood and young adult life. I will cherish your memory always and miss you every day. I love you my brother...

Chip-o-la

Thinking of you all!
Michelle Tracy

We were so sorry to hear. Sending all our love and prayers to you and the kids. It's so tragic. There are simply no words...Stay strong, Your family is loved by many...

What a wonderful tribute to Bobby. Just thinking of every memory of Bobby brings a smile to me face. My love and prayers with his family.

"Strange, isn't it? Each man's life touches so many other lives. When he isn't around he leaves an awful hole, doesn't he?"

Clarence Oddbody, George Bailey's guardian angel in "It's a Wonderful Life."

Kaps, I will sorely miss your big smile and warm greetings. It was a pleasure to know you and appreciated the joy you brought others. My condolences to your family and friends.

Robert always the gentleman and professional enjoyed every time we met and shared our stories. Always in my prayers during your illness, now you can pray for us.

Our sincerest condolences to Bobby's family. We all remember him as the guy whose personality would light up the room. Always positive, funny, and the guy you wanted to be with. Bobby was a part of our many shenanigans at KHS. Joe and Darryl still remember the night they walked from their house through Silas Condict Park to a point on Cherry Tree Lane where Bobby was to meet them. Up rolls Bobby in the family car "disguised" with a woman's scarf around his head as a kerchief. He was about 15 years old! Simply put, when you were with Bobby you always had fun and all was right with the world.

Good bye dearest Bobby. May you rest in peace and perpetual light shine upon you. We loved having you as a part of our family and continue to pray for Maureen and your children. With much love Uncle Bill, Julia and Bob, Liz and Rich, Bill and all our children.

Kapper, your unique ability to lift up all who came into your world through genuine friendship and joy is a true loss. Our prayers are with Mo, Nicole and Miles. We are all a bit less ourselves through your passing but I know this isnt the end my friend, you've just elevated your game...well done Kapper...well done.

John Crotty

Bobby - Well done! You have set the bar high.

Although it's been years since we have spent time with you, it is clear you succeeded in life in all the things that mattered. The common thread of everyone who knew you is what a warm and genuine person you were. That is an incredible legacy. Your enthusiasm for life and caring heart will not be forgotten by all the lives you touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Rest in Peace Bobby.

So sad to hear of the passing of Bobby. OUr thoughts and prayers are with all who loved him. He was truly special and I know we feel fortunate to have known him. My guess is he is lighting up heaven with his beautiful smile and loving spirit. RIP Bobby as you so deserve too.

The Brodsky family is so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers

Bobbya dear friend from Kinnelon High School and class of '81, may you rest in peace. Our deepest condolences to the Kaps Family.

I had the privilege of coaching his son Miles for a year. As a coach you get to meet a lot of parents there has never been one quite like Bobby. He was energetic, passionate, kind, and an all-around great guy. What made Bobby unique was that you realize how great he was within the first few minutes of meeting him. He was a person people enjoyed being around. He will forever be missed. God bless the Kaps they will be in my prayers.

Kaps- You were certainly one of a kind. A tremendous boss who gave me the opportunity to be the City Sales Director at TW Telecom and we worked side by side under your leadership to build a great sales team in NYC. I will forever remember our pep talks, our loud claps and me updating you on all things sports especially the NY Giants. We lost a great one and Kapper you will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to Mo, Nicole and Miles who I met a few times while at TW Telecom.


Cohen Family


The Cohen Family

I remember Bobby vividly as the funny kid, the happy kid, the friendly kid in class in Kinnelon. We were all close, we all knew each other. Although I have not seen him since high school, I can tell from his obituary that he stayed the same outgoing and positive person throughout his life, a friend and inspiration to all of us who were fortunate enough to know him. And he always had great hair - oh Bobby and his shiny hair! Wishing his family all the best.

Rest in peace Bobby. Your spirit lives with each and every one of us who's life you touched!

God speed dear Kaps. You were taken away far too soon. When I see the sun shining down upon us all I will see your smile. Prayers to your loving family and friends during this tragic time. Bless you.

Mo, Nicole, Miles, I am sorry for your loss. As your beautiful obituary said, I had met Bobby only once, but my immediate and lasting impression was how genuinely friendly and energized he was. He left this life surrounded by the love of his beautiful family. And that is very, very good. He and his love will stay with you and be part of you for ever.

To my former coworker, roommate and friend....you were incredibly good at bringing humor, hope, positivity and energy to each and every conversation and situation. You made everyone you came in contact with better for having brushed shoulders with you.
God bless you and your family,
Jim Riely

One of the best and brightest from the Kinnelon High Class of '81! A one-of-a-kind class act thru and thru. I will always remember fondly his great big smile, his bigger than life personality and his unique ability to connect with everyone he met. He will be forever missed, but never, ever forgotten. I'm glad I had the privilege of spending some time with such a special person. God bless the Kaps' family - our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Greg (aka Chief)

Bobby - I was looking forward to another poker game! Your smile was always the brighest in the room. Mo, Nicole and Miles, what can I say - hard to believe.

Best Wishes, Bill Wales and family

Kaps, I will miss your incredible sense of humor, infectious smile, and always positive outlook. You were a great friend and colleague. God speed my friend. Thoughts and prayers to your family during this incredibly difficult time.

The success of a man is measured by how many lives you have touched. Bobby Kaps was quite the success. Godspeed Bobby. You will be sorely missed.

Rest in Peace Bobby!! So many great memories, your smile and infectious laugh will always be alive in our minds and soul, thank you! Our deep condolences to all of your family and friends.

The "Looking Glass Family" has been following Robert's journey since his health situation became known. While not there physically to offer support to him or the family, he was always in our thoughts and prayers. I remember the day he walked into my office to interview to lead our Northeast Sales...Tan, smiling, laughing with great hair...and what a great job he did for us, and the many great friendships he built along the way. My heartfelt condolences.

You know someone is special, when you work indirectly with them at the same company, but they leave a lasting impression. I was lucky enough to meet and get to know Robert while we were at Looking Glass Networks, but the few times we would bump into each other over the past decade, it was like running into one of my best friends. He had this effect on everyone. My condolences to the Kaps family on your loss. What a great guy. He will be missed

I loved Robert and am so deeply saddened by his passing. He was such a good person and was so much fun - I loved hanging out with him! The world was truly a better place with him in it. My love, thoughts and prayers to Mo, Nicole, Miles and the rest of Robert's family and friends.

Kaps, as we often called him at Looking Glass, showed us how to make the most of every day and always had something positive to share. We'll miss you Kaps!

Robert-You will be very missed ...your spirit lives on in all of us forever and ever. You were the BEST Boss, mentor and great Friend ever.

Kaps- you are a legend in your own right; no one like you . Thank you for the energy you brought to our office; hasn't been the same since you left. I will miss you and cherish the man you were ; you lead by true example, were always kind and selfless. Everyday taking the time to ask others how they are and it was genuine. RIP in peace my friend. love u - TERESA

Rest in peace my friend. I will miss our chats and shared laughs we had the most. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten. My deepest condolences to the Kaps family.

We pray that Bobby's soul rest in peace and that his family finds strength to get through this difficult time. Bobby, endearingly know as "Kaps" to many, will be missed. He was one of THE nicest human beings we have ever come across and touched everyone in a way that only he can, whether you just got to know him or knew him for years. He was gentle, caring, loving and just a genuinely good human being.

I will miss you Kaps!! You were a great boss and a great friend! I hope that smile resonates in Heaven... Love you my friend! Rest Peacefully!!!

Kapper! I will miss you every day! You were an inspiration and mentor to me, and most importantly my big brother! I wish I could hear you say hi Matthew one more time,since you were the only one who called me by my full name every time you saw me. Life has funny way of showing us what's important and you always made everything important and everyone you met important to you. You will be missed brother. Look down at us with your infamous smile and know I will always have your back! Father, uncle, brother, and friend, all the way thru til the end! Go fly fellow Red Rugger....and give your Dad and my Mom a huge hug for me! Xoxo

Bobby, one of a kind, tirelessly doing good things for others. A master of one liners which endeared him to all who met him during his life time on this earth at every stop along the way. Tom aka Poppy

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.