Robert Jochem Lanier

Robert Jochem Lanier obituary, Arroyo Grande, CA

Robert Jochem Lanier

Robert Lanier Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Lady Family Mortuary & Crematory on Jul. 24, 2023.
Robert Jochem Lanier
March 16, 1949 – July 9, 2023
Robert Lanier was born in Billings, Montana on March 16, 1949 to Robert & Frances Jochem and passed away July 9, 2023 in Grover Beach, California.
Robert, (Bobby when he was young), was the second of four children. His favorite time was going to their Grandmother's ranch in Wyoming where he learned to hunt, fish, ride horses and spend time with cousins. Robert graduated from Billings Central Catholic High School in 1967. After graduation, he was in the Navy, stationed on the aircraft carrier USS Ranger in the Pacific. Robert worked at Boeing in Seattle for a time.
He loved to read and learn and was continually taking college classes.
On February 14, 1988, Robert married Elizabeth (Betsy) Smith in California. Their beautiful daughter, Marin, was born March 10, 1989. They lived in California and Hawaii where he liked to spend time on the ocean.
Robert was preceded in death by his parents, his wife, Betsy in 2000, his nephew Brian Riggs, and brother-in-law, Mike Riggs. He is survived by his daughter Marin (Conner) Mehl, sisters Mary Ann (Bill) Jacobson, Teresa Riggs, and brother Dan (Nancy) Jochem, several nieces and nephews and friend Catherine Stephenson.
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at you back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
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Dan Reese

July 27, 2023

I enjoyed sharing family history with my double 2nd cousin. His grandparents were Karl Jochem & Frieda Reese. My grandparents were William Reese & Elizabeth Jochem.

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