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Robert Graham Obituary

Robert F. Graham, Jr. SULLIVAN'S ISLAND- Robert F. Graham, Jr., son of the late Naomi L. Sturcken and Robert F Graham, Sr., was born in Charleston, SC on October 23, 1932. He graduated from Murray Vocational School and was a devoted member of Stella Maris Catholic Church. Robert Fladger Graham, Jr. had many nicknames, including: Bobby G, Bob, Dad, Papa Granny and most affectionately known as Sarge. Granny was a nickname he earned by taking care of his troops in Vietnam. Sarge grew up on Sullivan's Island, where he met his lifelong sweetheart at the age of 9. Sarge and Anne Limoges were married in 1956. Sarge enjoyed fishing, hunting, working on outboard motors and spending time with family and friends. Sarge enlisted in the US Navy in 1951 and was assigned to the Ice Breaker, USS Edisto. In 1955, Sarge enlisted in the USAF, where Bull Benini recruited him to join the Combat Control Team. He retired in 1974 with multiple awards, including two Bronze Stars. Sarge earned a Master Parachutist Badge. He made a Combat Jump in Vietnam on February 22, 1967, during Operation Junction City, the First CCT Mass Tactical Airborne Assault. Sarge was respected throughout the Combat Control Community. He attended Combat Control reunions until May 2023. He was life member #12 of the Combat Control Team Association. Sarge served several tours in Vietnam. After retiring, he became a certified outboard motor mechanic and Jack of all Trades. Sarge is predeceased by his parents, step-father, George M. Conner, wife, Anne, son, George and his only sibling, Joan McLaughlin. He leaves behind four adult children: Robert, Richard, Ann Marie, and Paul. In addition, he leaves behind 5 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. Sarge became a resident of the Veteran's Victory House in December 2021 and transferred to the Richard M Campbell Veteran's Home in February 2023, where he received excellent care and was surrounded by Veterans. The Mass for Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, September 8, 2023 at 10:00 am at Stella Marris Catholic Church, located at 1204 Middle St., Sullivan's Island, SC. The burial will immediately follow the mass at St. Lawrence Cemetery at Huguenin Ave., Charleston, SC. Full Military Honors will be for Robert Graham, Jr. at the cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Combat Control Foundation. As you know Combat Control held a special place in Sarge's heart. This organization ensures all Combat Controllers, and their families are supported. They do this through programs for Health, Resilience, Education and Heritage to ensure no one is left behind and the proud history of this community never forgotten. https:/www.combatcontrolfoundation.org Combat Control Foundation PO Box 432 Mary Esther, FL 32569-0432 1 (850) 684-4296 Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to McAlister Smith Funeral Home Mount Pleasant located at 1520 Rifle Range Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464; 843-884-3833.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 2 to Sep. 3, 2023.

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Larry Sturcken Sr.

October 18, 2023

To my closest childhood friend Bobby very proud of of you and the heroic service to our country
May God you and your family
Lawrence Sturcken

Katie his forever nurse

September 5, 2023

"Sarge" as I affectionately called him, was always a ray of sunshine to all of us that had the honor of taking care of him. He will always be remembered for his quick witted jokes, brutal honesty and his smile!!!! He will always have a place in my heart. My condolences to his family as he will be truly missed.

Riddell Perry

September 3, 2023

Robert worked on my outboard for me many times and was always honest with his assessment and he stood behind his work. He was a great person to know and do business with.

Andy Ward

September 3, 2023

My deepest sympathies to the entire Graham family.

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Stella Maris

1204 Middle Street, Sullivans Island, SC 29482

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11:30 a.m.

St Lawrence Cemetery

60 Huguenin Ave, Charleston, SC 29412

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