Robert Stefano

Robert Stefano obituary

Robert Stefano

Robert Stefano Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Firtion Adams Funeral Service on Nov. 20, 2025.
Robert Stefano, 87, passed away on Tuesday, November 18, 2025, at Baystate Medical Center surrounded by loved ones. He was born in Springfield to the late Albert and Louise (Tomei) Stefano. Robert served his country in the United States Air Force Air Guard 104th Division from 1961-1962 and was activated to Phalsbourg, France under the directive of President Kennedy. After his service, he worked as a tool designer for Hamilton Standard and then became a self-employed contractor for many years.

Robert was an avid Cape Cod fisherman aboard his beloved boat, the Mandy Ann, fishing out of Chatham, Harwich, Barnstable Harbor, and Pamet Harbor. He was also an original member of The Rattletones band and played with many big-named artists during the 50's.

Robert is survived by his beloved wife of 42 years, Mary D. (Filipiak) Stefano of Westfield, his loving children, Brian R. Stefano and his wife Jennie of Westfield, Brenda S. Ramírez and her husband José of Providence, R.I., and Merideth A. Stefano of Westfield and her partner Daniel Hogan, and his cherished grandchildren, Brittany, Lindsay, Oriana and Harrison, and his great-granddaughter, Eleanor.

All services for Robert will be private, and he will be buried with Military Honors at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Agawam. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrier Project or Tunnel to Towers Foundation in Robert's memory. Arrangements are under the direction of the Firtion Adams Funeral Service, 76 Broad St. Westfield, MA 01085. www.firtionadams.com

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November 28, 2025

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November 24, 2025

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November 23, 2025

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Charles Mihlek

November 28, 2025

My deepest sympathies to the Stefano family. I met Bob yrs ago when my wife and his wife Mary worked together. Bob was a very talented carpenter and craftsman. I did some carpentry work projects with Bob yrs ago. I learned some tricks of the trade from him. Bob was an independent thinker and not a follower. He spoke the truth whether about carpentry or in general. I admired that in him. Wish there were more people like him. God bless, rest in peace Bob.

Vanessa Celia and Paris Dimos

November 24, 2025

Offering all the family our condolences. Remember that although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

James J Broderick lll

November 23, 2025

I send my condolences to the family Bob was my Dad best friend in grammar middle school and High School I went with my Dad to visit his friend Bob he was a very nice Man him and my Dad talk about old times in School Bob is the only friend my Dad had alive all his friends past away My dad found out last night that Bob had past away he went to Westfield last with my Mom to listen the Country band my Dad James Broderick sent his condolences to the family my Dad will miss Bob very much RIP Bob

Chris Stefano

November 22, 2025

I will miss my cousin Bob forever.
Rest in Peace Bobby!

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