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Roberta Gaudette Obituary

Bobbi (Roberta) J. Gaudette, 81, resident of Mont Vernon, NH died on October 15, 2025, at Southern New Hampshire Medical Center, Nashua, NH.

She was born in Pittsburg, PA on December 13, 1943. She was the daughter of Lyman W. Choate and Berdina Cotton. Bobbi was raised and educated in Miles City, Montana and graduated from Billings High School in Billings, MT in 1961.

Bobbi served as a Dental Technician in the US Navy in her early career. However, for most of her career she was an award-winner and a top realtor for several real estate agencies in Southern New Hampshire.

Bobbi enjoyed spending time relaxing and boating at her family vacation home on Rattlesnake Island on Lake Winnipesaukee with family and friends. She enjoyed traveling the world with her husband Mike which including place such as Tahiti, Bora Bora, Italy, England, Turkey, Cypress, Egypt, Guatemala, The Caribbean and The Mediterranean.

Shopping was probably her most enjoyed hobby whether here in NH, a flea market in Florida or The Grand Bazaar in Istanbul, Turkey.

Most recently Bobbi enjoyed spending the winter months at her home in Southwest Florida.

Most importantly Bobbi enjoyed spending time with her family in friends in almost any setting. The highlights of those times being her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Family members include her husband of 37 years, Michael P. Gaudette of Mont Vernon, NH; two daughters, Debbie A. Wass and her husband Loren W. Wass, and Kathrine Goodine and Tim Clifford; a son, William M. Crawford; four grandchildren, Emily D. Wass, Loren A. Wass, Connor Crawford and Madison Crawford; four great grandchildren, Parker E. Wass, Mason D. Wass, Keith Tardiff, Kristianna Tardiff; her step children, Michael Gaudette, John Gaudette, Scott Gaudette, Lynn McCallum (passed in 2005); five step grandchildren and three step great grandchildren.

She will be dearly missed by her family and friends and the many whose life she has positively impacted throughout hers.

Visiting hours are Monday, October 20th from 4:00-7:00pm at the Smith & Heald Funeral Home, 63 Elm Street, Milford. A graveside service will be held on Tuesday at 11:00am in Greenlawn Cemetery, Mont Vernon, NH. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to The Pine Tree Camp in Rome, Maine. A favorite place of her granddaughter Emily.

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Published by Union Leader on Oct. 20, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Roberta Gaudette

Oct

20

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Smith & Heald Funeral Home

63 Elm St, Milford, NH 03055

Oct

21

Graveside service

11:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

Greenlawn Cemetery

N. Main Street, Mont Vernon, NH

Funeral services provided by:

Smith & Heald Funeral Home

63 Elm Street, Milford, NH 03055

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Sandra Randall Di Gaetano

October 18, 2025

Bobbi will be missed by almost everyone who got to know her and became her friend, as she was my beloved friend for 60+ years. A bit of sunshine has left this world with her passing. My deepest sympathy and love to her family.

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