Ruby D. Butler

Ruby D. Butler obituary

Ruby D. Butler

Ruby Butler Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by The House of Day Funeral Service, Inc. on Jan. 8, 2026.
Ruby D. Butler (Pettaway) was born January 04, 1946 to the late James and Ida Pettaway. Ruby departed from her life on January 04, 2026; her 80th birthday. She attended Waite High school. She left behind a legacy of hard work and a kitchen that was always open. Ruby grew up surrounded by family and learned early on the value of connection and resilience.

Many in the community knew Ruby from her 20+ years of dedicated service at Jeep, but she was perhaps most beloved for her role as a restaurateur. Ruby opened her first restaurant called Deli and More in 2003 and then Ruby's Kitchen in 2005. She didn't just serve meals; she shared her heart. Whether she was on the assembly line or behind the stove, Ruby approached everything with a strength that was uniquely hers.

She is survived by her Daughters: Sabrena Chatman, Sonda Hicks-Reid (Marvin), and Charvette Chatman-Payteon (Pat), Sons: Scott Atkins, Cary Butler Jr., and Kendrick Watkins, Grandchildren: Dr. Mieasha Barksdale (Derek), Devon Hicks, Mariah Coutchure, Jonna Hicks, Sabrena Hicks-Belcher (Bryce), Tarena Chatman, Shaila Warr, and Alyssa Autman, Daughter in Law: Veronica Hicks, Special sister: Frankie Glover, Special nephew: Ron Davis, Seven great granddaughters and five great grandsons, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives.

She proceeded in her death by her parents James and Ida Pettaway, siblings: Rebecca Terrell, Bill Pettaway, Dave Pettaway, Eugene Pettaway, Mary Goodlow, Joe Pettaway, Major Pettaway, Caroline Pettaway, Jimmy Pettaway, Ida Davis, and Richard Pettaway Sr, son: Jonathan Hicks and her granddaughter: La Tasha Hicks.

A private celebration of life will be held at the convenience of the family.

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