Ruby Marie Cole

Ruby Marie Cole obituary, Cincinnati, OH

Ruby Marie Cole

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Ruby Cole Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Arlington Memorial Gardens Funeral Home & Crematory on Apr. 13, 2026.
Ruby Marie Cole of Cincinnati passed away peacefully on April 7, 2026, surrounded by family. She was born on October 25, 1929, to Ruy and Cora Trautwein in Arlington, Ohio. Ruby is survived by her son, Robert (Deborah) Cole, grandchildren, Ryan (Owen) Cole and Ellen (Andy) Kilgore, her great grandchildren, Lucas (her hero) and Evie (her princess), sisters, Betty George and Shirley Simonson, and sister-in-law, Diana Trautwein. She was preceded in death by her parents; siblings, and in-laws Rose (Wayne) Bibler, Bonnie (Gene) Grohoske, Charlie Trautwein, Bob Simonson and Chuck George. She credited her farm upbringing for her success in life. She worked for many years at Children's Hospital on the executive team that laid the foundation for the national treasure it has become. That work and the time she spent with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren were her fondest memories. May she rest in peace, her work is done. The family will welcome family and friends for a Celebration on Life at Winton Woods-Racoon Ridge Shelter on May 2, 2026, at 1pm. A private service will be held with immediate family at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to:

Cincinnati Children's Hospital

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P.O. Box 5202

Cincinnati, OH 45201-5202

Make an online donation at:

www.cincinnatichildrens.org/donate

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April 14, 2026

Barb Gwinner posted to the memorial.

April 13, 2026

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Barb Gwinner

April 14, 2026

Ruby.....the kindest, smartest, most beautiful, and sweetest friend who we all loved. You were respected throughout Children's Hospital.

I miss picking you up for our retiree lunches. I know your best friend, Ann Melzer, will be happy to see you in Heaven. I treasure our lunch at the Red Rooster with just the three of us, where you and Ann filled me in on the early days of Children's Hospital, where farmers and others would bring chickens to pay their bill!

All of us retirees miss you not being able to come to the lunches in the past couple of years, but you are always with us in spirit, and you are always talked about with great respect and love.

Rest in peace Ruby, my lovely friend, and may God's light always shine brightly on you. I have a feeling you're sitting right next to the Lord, taking charge of who comes and goes! I wish I would have thought to get you a T shirt that said "In Charge."

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Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m.

Winton Woods - Raccoon Ridge Shelter

10245 Winton Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45231

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