Sarah Jane Lavery

Sarah Jane Lavery obituary, Manchester, NH

Sarah Jane Lavery

Sarah Jane Lavery Obituary

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Sarah Jane Lavery, 86, of Manchester NH entered her eternal rest with the Lord on June 20, 2021. Sarah Jane held many titles - most notably daughter, sister, friend, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, cousin, and prayer warrior. Sarah Jane was born December 1, 1934, the daughter of David and Victoria Lavery. One of nine children, Sarah Jane grew up in Oswego, NY, on the base of Fort Ontario, where her father served in the Army. During that time, Sarah Jane learned the true meaning of family and found her passions for baking and music. Sarah Jane studied at St. Elizabeth's School of Nursing in Utica, NY where she raised her five daughters. Sarah Jane worked many years as a nurse in both Utica, NY and Manchester, NH as well as a Social Worker in Utica, NY, and a Nurse consultant for the NH Department of Health and Human Services. Sarah Jane founded the Ste Marie Healing Prayer Ministry and School of Healing Prayer in 1997 and served as its director for 20 years. She was passionate in her belief that Jesus was still about the business of healing individuals. She loved to pray with people and watch as God touched them. She loved to share a prophetic word whenever given the opportunity. She also was instrumental in reviving the Community of Living Water Prayer Group in which she was the prayer group leader for many years. Sarah Jane was a devout member of the Catholic church, follower of Jesus, and parishioner of Ste Marie Catholic Church. Sarah Jane had many passions in life including writing and music. Sarah Jane became a published author at the age of 80 and self-published two books. She played the piano and loved singing with her family. Sarah Jane loved flowers and always had a small garden for Mother Mary every spring and summer. She enjoyed trips to the beach with her daughters and grandchildren that always ended in mint chocolate chip ice cream. Sarah Jane was an expert baker and took pride in making everyone's favorite birthday dessert. Her Christmas cookies, half-moons, and "special bread" were her most notable fan favorites. Sarah Jane was predeceased by her daughter, Mari-Beth (Moore) Barrett of Newark, NY; sisters Kathleen, Joanne, and Maureen; and brothers Owen ("Butch") and David ("Bucky"). She is survived by her daughter Kimberly Kunkel and her husband Lee, their children Joshua (Kyle), John (Noelle), Kristin (Mark), and Brian; granddaughter Emily (Tim), daughter of Mari-Beth and Dan Barrett; Kelly Dunn and her husband Peter, their children Daniel (Annaliese), Mari-Briege (Nick), and Patrick; daughter Teresa Tarr and husband Geoff, their children Sarah, Thomas, and David; and daughter Meghan Vasil and her husband Jim; and siblings Eileen, Tom, and Patricia. She also leaves behind her 10 great-grandchildren, cousins, nieces, and nephews. Sarah Jane's family would like to thank the Staff, Nurses, and LNAs at Mt. Carmel Rehabilitation and Nursing Center for their kindness, compassion, friendship, and dedicated service over the past few months. Calling hours will be at Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, 250 Coolidge Ave., Manchester on Monday, June 28 from 4 to 7 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Ste. Marie Church on Tuesday, June 29 at 10:00 AM with committal services to follow in Mt. Calvary Cemetery. If you wish to make a contribution in honor of Sarah Jane's life, donations can be made to Ste Marie Parish in Manchester, NH or the St. John Neumann Trust, ? the Catholic Schools Office, Manchester NH. To view Sarah Jane's online tribute, send condolences to the family, or for more information, visit www.phaneuf.net.

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Phaneuf Funeral Homes & Crematorium - Coolidge Ave.

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June 29, 2021

Donna Morgan posted to the memorial.

June 29, 2021

Crissy Kantor posted to the memorial.

June 28, 2021

Kelly Lavery posted to the memorial.

Donna Morgan

June 29, 2021

Sarah Jane touched my heart and strengthened my faith with her own. She was such a strong example of what a woman of Christ should be. Knowing her was a privilege and a gift. She radiated a beautiful peace from her soul every time I had the pleasure of speaking with her. May her family be comforted knowing she is happy with her Lord and Savior and reunited with her beloved daughter, who was taken from this world much too soon. When I met Sarah Jane she had recently begun building an army for the Lord. And that she did. I hope and pray that I can touch even just one persons soul as deeply she touched mine. May she rest in eternal peace and love with Jesus.

Crissy Kantor

June 29, 2021

Sweet, beautiful Sarah Jane, thank you for choosing to share your chill time with us every week! You said having a good haircut was one of the most important things and you always had fabulous hair and the biggest heart! We have been truly blessed to know you! Your smile, positivity and life advice will be remembered and treasured by all. So grateful to have shared our lives with the Most Amazing Prayer Warrior. You will always be in our hearts❤
xo the chill girls

Kelly Lavery

June 28, 2021

I love you Sarah Jane. You're family and friends will all be in my prayers and I know you will be watching over all of us like you always have. ❤

Rita and Lew Goody

June 27, 2021

Teresa and Geoff and Family, We so remember Sarah Jane - her smile, her hugs, especially her prayers. She often advised me when I was director of the Bookstore at Ste. Marie. I can't tell you how many times she would tell me "God is taking care of it." Just a beautiful soul. Bless you all.

Michael Krawczyk

June 26, 2021

To me Sarah Jane was what faith in action looked like. She was the epitome of peace and calm. She is with her Lord. May God Bless her family.

Janice Powers Powers

June 25, 2021

Kelly, Peter, and all the Moore family,
I haven't seen your Mom for many years, but looking back I remember her warm welcome whenever we met. Her legacy is bright, her love continues in each of you.
May your memories bring you peace.

Lorraine Eady

June 24, 2021

To the whole Moore family, we share our condolences and sympathy. Sarah was a force of faith and prayer and strength that she combined with laughter and shared with everyone. We are thinking of all of you and will keep you in our prayers.
Love, Sean, Lorraine Audrey, Claire, and Donovan Eady

Brandie Cash, Crystal Orchid Florist

June 23, 2021

To the loving family of Sarah Jane, I am very sorry for your loss. I will remember her shopping for and loving her scented candles and the countless fresh flower deliveries to her home from you all. She always had a smile on her face and was so kind. My deepest sympathies to you all.

Janet and James A. Pietrovito

June 22, 2021

Dear Kelly, Peter and family,

We offer our deepest sympathies regarding your family's loss. We trust you have many fond memories of your Mom which will serve as some comfort as you mourn her passing. Our thoughts are with you.

Lucille Fortin

June 22, 2021

I remember Sarah Jane as a pillar in the Ste. Marie Parish community, especially in the Community of Living Waters. What a strong example of FAITH! Rest in the peace of Christ, Sarah!

Vivian White

June 22, 2021

I remember Sarah as a lady that has been Blessed with many gifts. She is a beautiful women of God and loved praying with others to help heal their minds, body and souls. She will be forever remembered as a Loving Lady. Sarah you will be missed.

Martha Piper

June 22, 2021

Dear Peter , Kelly and entire family and those who mourn SarahJanea loss we are truly sorry for the heartache you all feel as you say your final good by to her. May Our Lord give you His peace, strength, comfort and Holy Joy as you travel this road of Sorrow. Love &prayers Charlie & Martha Piper

Maurice and Marie Isabelle

June 21, 2021

Our prayers are with you.......

Chris Hunt

June 21, 2021

A giant in the religious Comunity she loved, a kind friend and sister in Christ!
Her prayers were felt for decades!
A huge loss to our Comunity of Jesus Christ.

Carol Yeaton

June 21, 2021

My prayers and thoughts are with the family at this time of loss. She was a wonderful lady and will be truly missed.

Susie and Eric Burnett

June 21, 2021

To all of Sara's children, grandchildren and great grandchildren - We are so saddened to hear about your Mom and Nana - what a very special person she was - so loved by so many - she left a lasting tribute through all of you - our deepest sympathy, prayers and hugs to all of you. She is now home with the Lord. all of our love sent your way, Love the Burnetts

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