Mr Shel Wellins

Mr Shel Wellins obituary, Bermuda Dunes, CA

Mr Shel Wellins

Shel Wellins Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 27, 2015.
Sheldon "Shel" Gary Wellins, 71, passed away on Saturday, October 24th, 2015 at Eisenhower Medical Center in Rancho Mirage, California. He was born on March 21, 1944 in Los Angeles, California to Larry and Jeanette Wellins. Shel grew up in Pomona, California. He was the #1 player and captain of his high school tennis team. After graduating, he received a scholarship to the University of Wyoming for tennis but left after his Freshman year since he wasn't eligible to compete. He went on to earn a Bachelor of Arts from the University of California, Berkeley, a Doctorate of Jurisprudence Degree from Hasting School of Law, and a Doctorate in Divinity. He served in the US Army, attaining the rank of Captain. He practiced law for over 45 years, was a law school instructor, Judge pro-tempore for LA County, a partner at CB Wealth Management, and a Claremont City Council member. But Shel will best be remembered as an incredible coach. He coached Women's Softball at COD for over 15 years, and was twice voted Foothill Conference 'Coach of the Year'. His best season was a record 45 wins to just 3 losses. He coached his teams to over 500 wins, a record that will likely stand for many years to come. He was also the Women's Golf Coach for many years and led the team to a state title. Shel married Cathy Brown Wellins in 1998 on New Years Eve in Palm Desert, California. He was an avid golfer and was a member of Redhills Country Club, The Lakes Country Club, and a current member of Bermuda Dunes Country Club where he served on the board. Shel was also a devoted Cal Bears football supporter and could be easily spotted on the roads of the desert driving his bright yellow Hummer plastered with Cal stickers as a testament to his loyalty. Shel was preceded in death by his parents, Larry and Jeanette Wellins. Shel is survived by his spouse Cathy; their sons Skylar Brown of Bermuda Dunes, Tanner Brown (Jenny Brown) of San Diego; his daughter Cori Wellins Lagao (Max Lagao) of Manhattan Beach California; his son Barry Wellins of Houston; his son Brian Wellins (Candy Wellins) of Austin; his brother Michael Wellins of Orange; and his grandchildren Luke, Olivia, Reagan and Charlie. And of course, his beloved huskies. A memorial service will be held at The Bermuda Dunes Country Club which is located at 42630 Adams Street, Indio, California from 12pm - 3pm on Saturday, November 7th. Any questions, please contact Cathy Brown Wellins at (760) 773-2133 or Cori Wellins at (310) 433-6633

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October 25, 2025

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November 6, 2017

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October 29, 2015

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Bob Tremelling

October 25, 2025

Cathy Wellins-

Did your husband Shel, do his Army basic training at Fort Benning, Georgia in early1971? If so, I was one of his buddies there. A great guy!
Bob Tremelling
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Scuba Coach

November 6, 2017

It's been two years. I still think of you often. I miss our visits and conversations.

John Gray

October 29, 2015

Sounds like a man I would love to have known. Clearly, just reading these tributes, he left a huge legacy of love and achievement and made an indelible mark on the world. Deepest condolences from my family to yours, Cori.

Rob Dremel

October 28, 2015

Shel, was a man that always put a smile on my face and help make my life so much easier. You will be missed! My thoughts, prayers and heart are with you. Have a beautiful journey.! Cathy and family, my thoughts and prayers and heart are with you as well.

Chuck & Susan Weisbart

October 28, 2015

Shel was a shining, compassionate caring & loving beacon of friendship that always cared so sincerely about others- his memory will always be cherished as a great friend whose memory we will always cherish.

Cindy Vargas

October 28, 2015

I had the privilege of coaching in the same conference as Shel for a few years before his retirement. Being a young, new coach, Shel was a great mentor to me. He was always so nice, helpful and simply a great coach and person. I feel truly blessed to have known him. He will be dearly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bill Grotenrath

October 27, 2015

I am sad that a dear friend and fellow coach has passed away. Shel and I had so many excellent times together at College of the Desert. My prayers for Shel and his family are being said presently.

Nick Trani

October 27, 2015

Shel was a caring coach and great man. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. My prayers go out to the Wellins family. He will be missed!

Elsie Kubelik, Kastanienbaum Switzerland

October 27, 2015

We shall always remember Shel as the kind person he was and as the humanitarian with the right sense of humour. Thank you for everything you did for us. Our heartfelt condolences go out to Cathy, Skyler and his whole family.

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