Shelby Lee Harder

Shelby Lee Harder obituary, Memphis, TN

Shelby Lee Harder

Shelby Harder Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by High Point Funeral Home & Crematorium on Apr. 10, 2023.

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Shelby Lee Harder, 85, of Lakeland, TN passed away peacefully on April 7, 2023, after a long illness. He was born in Linden, TN, on July 7, 1937, one of seven children of Mary Jane Harder and Edmond Bryan Harder. He was preceded in death by all six siblings and his parents. He married Barbara Jean Dillard, December 31, 1964, and they were married until her death in 2013. They had two sons, Robert Carlton (Kim) and Randy Eugene (Patti), and four grandchildren, Jessica Billingsley (Tyler), Sarah Harder, Emma Harder, and Sophie Harder. He was a loving husband, father, and devoted grandfather who will be missed.
Shelby had served in the Army two years at Fort Ord, California, before moving back to the Memphis area and marrying the love of his life, Barbara. Together they built a life while he was employed as an electrician. He worked for Schlitz, Stroh's, and as a Master Electrician for Coors. He retired in 2002, to help with the care of his wife. He enjoyed golf, fishing, and going to the Gulf Coast with his family. He was a member of Bethany Christian Church and loved his church family.
His visitation will be Tuesday, April 11, 2023, at Bethany Christian Church in Eads, TN. Visitation will be starting at 2:00 p.m. with the service immediately following at 3:00 p.m. and Burial at 4:00 in the Bethany Christian Cemetery.

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Ronald B.Kirby

April 4, 2025

I still stop and think about calling Shelby he was one of my best friends.

Margie Davis Fields

April 12, 2023

Shelby was like another big brother in our family.....he was my brother, Bill´s best friend. He was always around for many years and was loved by our Davis family! Rest In Peace, Shelby

Ronald B. Kirby

April 11, 2023

Shelby was a friend of mine for over 50 years we met at the Schlitz Brewing co. October of 1971 and we stayed in touch ever since then.
May you rest in peace Shelby

Pat Burnett

April 11, 2023

You will be missed Shelby Harder. .... Close friend of our family.

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