Shirley Virginia Spear Gotschalk

1932 - 2014

Shirley Virginia Spear Gotschalk obituary, 1932-2014

Shirley Virginia Spear Gotschalk

1932 - 2014

BORN

1932

DIED

2014

Shirley Gotschalk Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 14, 2014.
Shirley Virginia Spear Gotschalk, age 81, died peacefully on May 13, 2014. Born on July 31, 1932 in Richmond, VA, she was preceded in death by her parents Virginia Clements and Frederick Henry Spear. She is survived by her husband of 62 years, Ronald L. Gotschalk; and her three children and their families, Ronald (Lee) Gotschalk, Jr. and his wife, Julie, of Sparta, Virginia, Lynn Tarkington and her husband, Steve, of Brentwood, TN, and Nancy Nash and her husband, Warren, of Montpelier, VA, and Charles (Chuck) Jenkins of Galax, VA. She is survived by five grandchildren, Emily, Zachary, and Samuel Gotschalk, and Dalton and Shelby Nash.

Shirley was a life-long member of Grace Baptist Church. Over the years Shirley met and developed many long term friendships that she cherished. Visitation will be May 16, 2014 from 6 to 8 pm at Woody's Funeral Home - Parham. Memorial service will be at Woody's on Saturday, May 17th at 11:00 am. Interment private.

In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting a donation be made in Shirley's honor to Grace Baptist Church or the Virginia Home for Boys and Girls. Special thanks to all the dedicated caregivers at Henrico Doctors', HealthSouth Rehabilitation Hospital, Westport Rehabilitation Center, and Hospice of Virginia. Condolences may be left at www.woodyfuneralhomeparham.com.

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May 24, 2014

BEVERLY WASH posted to the memorial.

May 20, 2014

Bobby LAYNE posted to the memorial.

May 20, 2014

Brona Holcomb posted to the memorial.

BEVERLY WASH

May 24, 2014

we are so sorry for your loss. Shirley seemed to always smile and laugh even when you knew she wasn't feeling well. she will be missed. the relationship you have will keep her close to you. in every conversation and special event of your lives you'll know exactly what she would say. when you've known and loved someone for a lifetime that's the gift they leave behind until you meet again. we love you and please let us know if there is anything we can do for you and the family. love, Beverly and "Debbie Sue"

Bobby LAYNE

May 20, 2014

Ron, I only met Shirley once and I thought what a sweet lady. You must have had a beautiful life together with wonderful memories and I know you and your family loved her dearly. God bless you and Shirley and peace be with you. Bobby Layne

Brona Holcomb

May 20, 2014

Dear Nancy and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I just found out, I am very sad I missed the service- I want so badly to give you all a hug!! I love your Mom and whole family, I have so many childhood memories from Anoka Road, 51+ years- from the day our moms had beautiful baby girls on the same day at Richmond Memorial Hospital! I pray for peace and comfort for your family, love to all, and know you will have wonderful memories to treasure.

May 16, 2014

I enjoyed looking through the photos... I was one of the home nurses, and am glad I had a chance to know Ms Gotschalk.. She always had a smile and a bit of mischief about her. I was saddened to hear of her passing. Laura Feldman

Carol Michaux

May 16, 2014

Ron, I have many good memories of Shirley, including her energy, spirit and love for God and her Church. She was also blessed with a wonderful husband and family. I'll be thinking about and praying for you and your family. Carol Wilson Michaux

May 16, 2014

Ron, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

A.B.Jones

May 16, 2014

Shirley surely made a lasting impression on people including myself. I was the nurse in the pulmonary office and although I have been retired 11 years now, I still remember her smile and talkative conversations. She is remembered among many. Bless each member of her family and may your memories live on with smiles in your heart.

May 16, 2014

Ron, my warm thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jean and Charles

Jim Osbon

May 15, 2014

Ron, it's been a very long time but I've never forgotten you and Shirley. May your grief be manageable and fully supported by your family and friends.

Jeannette Seitz

May 15, 2014

Sending warm thoughts and prayers to the family in this difficult time. I will miss my sweet, spunky "Sniggie" but will always remember her joyful spirit and positive attitude.

Nancy Collins

May 15, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Alan Tate

May 15, 2014

Am so sorry for the loss.

David and Karen Fones

May 15, 2014

Shirley's smile and enthusiasm could light up the room. She will certainly be missed but never forgotten. May your years of memories bring you and your family peace in the difficult times ahead.

Regards,
David and Karen Fones

May 15, 2014

Shirley will certainly be missed by all her family and friends -- she had a huge and wonderful personality for such a small person. All of my Facebook messages from her always started -- 'Hey Cousin'....... she valued family and was loved by her family in return.

I think my favorite memory of Shirley is of her dancing (actually leading the rest of us in dancing) 'The Twist' at our Aunt Mint's birthday party many, many years ago.

You are loved and will be missed, Cousin!

Jim Clements

Bud Hazelgrove, GM

May 14, 2014

Please accept Woody staff condolences for your loss. You can depend on us to assist you on this journey and we will strive for your complete satisfaction while your loved one is in our care. We believe you deserve nothing less. For these difficult days, we will be honored to have you consider our home and family a part of yours.

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May 24, 2014

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