Shirley Hyman Lopater

Shirley Hyman Lopater

Shirley Lopater Obituary

Published by Bliley's Funeral Home Central Chapel from Nov. 8 to Nov. 9, 2008.
LOPATER, Shirley Hyman, 86, of Richmond, Va., formerly of Buffalo Grove, Illinois, and the South Side of Chicago, born December 2, 1921, died November 6, 2008 in Richmond, Va. She was the beloved wife of H. Jack Lopater; loving mother of Sanford E. (Susan) Lopater of Newport News, Va., David A. (Holley) Lopater of Knoxville, Tenn., and Lori (Larry) Skiles of Richmond, Va.; proud grandmother of Emily (Brian) Smith of Houston, Texas, Erin Lopater (Josh Diggs) of Norfolk, Va., Robye (Ray) Davidson of Charlottesville, Va., Joshua Lopater of Knoxville, Tenn., and Zachary Lopater of New Orleans, La., and Jessica and Justin Skiles of Richmond, Va.; and beaming great-grandmother of Henry and Holden Smith of Houston, Texas; loving sister of Irving (Maxine) Hyman who died in 1972. She was the daughter of the late Morris and Ethel Hyman, founder of Hyman's Auto Supply, a family business institution of South Chicago, started over 80 years ago. She was also the office manager for Associates in Adolescents Psychiatry for over 25 years, a job which she loved and one in which she was well-respected by her co-workers. Many special thanks to Bon Secours Hospice nurse, Norah Knutsen, and CNA, Brittany Kermon, and many other very special caregivers from Comfort Keepers, Inc., who made her last months comfortable. The family will receive friends 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Monday, November 10, at Bliley's-Central, 3801 Augusta Ave. Burial will be at Westlawn Cemetery in Chicago, Illinois. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Robert Friedman

December 2, 2008

This is Bob Friedman from Jeffrey Manor. Was saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. The Friedman Boys, Burt Bob & Loren also lost their parents this past Spring. Bernie and Roz passed away 2 weeks apart. The Lopater name has always been in our family memories. So sorry to hear. Where is Sandy located. Please send email. Bob

Frances GOLDMAN

November 25, 2008

Your mother was a cherished part of my annual cycle. Doing her tax return with her was a truly fun occasion!
You have my sincerest wishes that you will have only good memories of her.
Frances F. Goldman

Louise Casey

November 14, 2008

Shirley was a very special person. I will never forget the kindness she showed my Mother. I always enjoyed talking to her. I hope happy memories of her remain with you and your family forever. My Mom's name was Shirley Gellman.

Michael/Carol Homa

November 9, 2008

We've never met but we are cousins; your maternal grandmother and my paternal grandmother were sisters. After my mother passed, Shirley was very supportive and understanding. And, months later at a dinner, she shared with me wonderful stories about the family. She was a sweet and lovely person and will be missed. My sister and I offer our condolences. Your mother is in our thoughts and prayers.

Kimberly Kirkland

November 9, 2008

I met Shirley at Imperial Plaza. She was always nice, sweet and smiling. I am so glad we got to eat lunch together, I was hoping we would be able to get together again. She is and was a very special person to me.

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