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SISTER HEDWIG NEFF, ASC, 90, of the Adorers of the Blood of Christ, died peacefully at 9:05 p.m. on Friday, September 26, 2025, at Benedictine Living Community in Belleville, IL. She had been professed for 72 years.
Sister Hedwig was born in Paderborn, IL, the third of 12 children in the family of Gregory and Hedwig (Wachtel) Neff who belonged to St. Michael Parish in Paderborn. She made her first profession on July 1, 1953, and her final vows on July 1, 1958, both at Ruma.
She earned her certificate in Supervisors’ Food Services from Fontbonne University in St. Louis, MO in 1969.
Sister Hedwig’s ministry included a variety of services: dietary, sacristan, seamstress, lunch program worker, elder home caregiver, and inner-city service. Her work in the dietary field was done in institutions rather than smaller convents. She served at the Loretto Home, and the Catholic Children’s Home in Alton, IL, Cantian Seminary in St. Louis, MO, and St. Henry Seminary in Belleville, IL, De Mattias Hall in St. Louis, St. Ann Home in Chester, IL, the Ruma Center in Ruma, and Clementine Residence in Red Bud, IL, where she also worked as seamstress. Her dietary service also included several convents in Illinois: St. Stephen in Flora, St. Bernard in Albers, St. Clare in O’Fallon; and St. Joseph in Zell, MO. She assisted with the lunch program at St. Ann School in Nashville, IL.
She worked for several years with Catholic Urban Programs in East St. Louis at Holy Angels Shelter. She served as sacristan at Regina Cleri, a home for retired clergy in St. Louis. Sister Hedwig’s last ten years in ministry in the St. Louis Archdiocese were with CSJ Home Care.
In her retirement at Benedictine Living Community, she continued her hobby of crocheting the tops for small kitchen towels. One of her self-appointed ministries, even in retirement, was to send greeting cards—birthday, feast day, sympathy, holiday, and many other occasions, simply letting sisters know she remembered and cared for them.
Another hobby, especially in her later years, was watching birds and their antics. She fed them regularly while she was able. When she moved to Assisted Living, she appreciated the bird Adorers’ Mission Center feeder outside her window and continued to delight in the number and variety of the birds who visited there.
Sister Hedwig is survived by her sisters Aurelia Bell, Dorothy (Bryce) DeLancey, Celestine Neff, Alice Grohmann, Patricia Cortner, Myra (James) Middendorf, and her brother Cletus (Mary) Neff, nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents, her sister Loretta Chapman, and her brothers, Stanley (Rita) Neff, Norman (Rosalie) Neff, Thomas (April) Neff, brothers-in-law Donald Grohmann, and Donald Cortner.
Funeral Mass:
1:30 pm, Thursday, October 2, 2025
Benedictine Living Community Chapel at the Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows
726 Community Drive, Belleville, Illinois
Visitation:
Thursday– 12:30 pm – 1:30 pm
Benedictine Living Community Chapel at the Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows
Interment:
ASC Convent Cemetery
Ruma, Illinois
Donations in memory of Sr. Hedwig may be sent to the ASC Retirement Fund, 4233 Sulphur
Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63109, or online at www.adorers.org “Support our Ministries”
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Benedictine Living Community at the Shrine of Our Lady of Snows
726 Community Drive, Belleville, IL 62223
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Benedictine Living Community at the Shrine of Our Lady of Snows
726 Community Drive, Belleville, IL 62223
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Pechacek Funeral Homes - Red BudOnly 19 hours left for delivery to next service.