Stacey M. Alderfer

Stacey M. Alderfer obituary

Stacey M. Alderfer

Stacey Alderfer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Stephens Funeral Home, Inc. - Allentown on Sep. 12, 2025.

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Stacey M. Alderfer, 61, of Lower Macungie Township, passed away Tuesday, September 9, 2025, in Lehigh Valley Hospital, Cedar Crest Boulevard, surrounded by her family. She was the wife of Scott A. Alderfer. They celebrated their 31st wedding anniversary in January 2025. Born in Johnstown, PA, she was a daughter of Shirley (Doell) Houser of Macungie and the late Thomas Singel. Stacey graduated from Northampton High School in 1982 and received her bachelor's degree in Computer Science from Moravian University in 1986. She was a Computer Engineer at Lehigh University for the past 36 years. Stacey was a member of Nativity Lutheran Church, Allentown, where she served on church council for 7 years. Stacey led the Outreach Committee at the church. The Outreach Committee provides meals to Allentown School District students who are food insecure. Stacey enjoyed bike riding, gardening, reading and cooking new recipes.

Survivors: Husband, Scott; Daughter: Kailey A. Alderfer at home; Brother: Scott Singel of Palo Alto, California; Sister: Amy Yastrop and her husband Jeff of Lehighton, PA.

Services: There will be a Celebration of Life Service at 11:00 am on Saturday, September 13, 2025, at Nativity Lutheran Church, 4004 Tilghman St., Allentown, PA 18104. The service will be Live-Streamed on YouTube by the church. Please visit @nativitylutheran3536. Arrangements are being handled by Heintzelman-Stephens Funeral Home, P.C. www.heintzelmanstephens.com

Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to Girls Who Code (www.girlswhocode.com) or Second Harvest Foodbank of Lehigh Valley (shfblv.org).

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Donna Gerhart

September 13, 2025

Scott & family,
Sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. You are in my prayers.

Aunt Betty Landis

September 12, 2025

So sorry to hear this sad news, Scott & Kailey!
I will be praying for you and her siblings.

Denny and Cathy Beer

September 12, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chip

September 12, 2025

Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May Stacey rest in peace.

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