Stephanie Marie Patterson

Stephanie Marie Patterson obituary, Hayward, CA

Stephanie Marie Patterson

Stephanie Patterson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Holy Angels Funeral Center & Holy Sepulchre Cemetery on Sep. 18, 2025.
With deep sadness, Stephanie Marie Patterson, age 74, of Roseville, California passed away
peacefully on September 9, 2025, surrounded by family. Steph was born on May 23, 1951, in
Oakland, CA to her parents Edwin and Helen Davidson. She attended St. Lawrence O'Toole
grammar school and Bishop O' Dowd High School in Oakland. She brought love and laughter
wherever she went.
Steph was employed by several firms: Bank of America in San Leandro, CA; Bank of
America in Davis, CA and Bechtel National in Oak Ridge, TN. She also worked for the
Provost at Vanderbilt University in Nashville, TN and her last employment was with the
State Board of Equalization for 25 years in Sacramento, CA.
Steph is survived by her husband of 50 years, Gary T. Patterson, her brothers, Philip J. Davidson
(Barbara), Larry S. Davidson (Bernadette) and her sister, Susan A. Goodchild. She was preceded in
death by her parents and her sister Norma J. Parr.
Steph was known for her love of travel, infectious laugh and ability to light up any room
she entered. She was an incredibly generous person, and adored her two Westies,
Sparkie and Nicky. She was a beloved wife, sister, aunt to her nieces & nephews,
cousin and friend to many who will sadly miss her.
A rosary, mass and interment will be held at Holy Sepulcher Cemetery in Hayward, CA
on September 24, 2025, at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in
her name be made to your local SPCA to honor her love of animals.
As you find your way into the arms of angels, dear Stephie, your light will forever shine
brightly in our hearts.

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October 5, 2025

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October 2, 2025

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October 1, 2025

Susie Goodchild posted to the memorial.

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Erin Blomberg

October 5, 2025

We will greatly miss our Aunt Stephanie. She was so fun and we never went anywhere without laughter and fun stories. She had an incredible memory and loved to share stories about the family history. She will live on in our hearts and we will smile when we think of her and Gary and the fun holidays we shared in Davis, Sacramento and Roseville. Until we see you again sweet Steph R.I.P. Love Erin, Brian, Patrick, Norah, Megan, Emily, Dillon, Riley, Chantel and Charise, Jim, Cathy and Karroll

Steph's sister

October 2, 2025

Beautiful Stephie holding her nephew Scott in 1974.

Susie Goodchild

October 1, 2025

Stephie, you were a wonderful sister and my best friend. I have beautiful memories of you and I will cherish them forever. God speed little Sis.

Susan

September 26, 2025

RIP, thank you for being my friend.

David Samuelsen

September 18, 2025

Miss Steph: to a wonderful, generous friend: rest in peace. We love you. Dave & Jackie P.S. Go Bears!

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