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Steve BLEDSOE Obituary
Spokane - It's with incredibly heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Steve Bledsoe.
Steve was absolutely one of a kind. A lover of life, his family, friends, music, food, and wine - the threads that wove the fabric of his existence. He built a whole universe of extended kin who he touched and spread joy with over his journey here on earth.
He always showed up for the important days, and he showed up big, especially for holidays and family events where he was consistently the head chef, music selector, and 110% of the life of the party - that was his zone and he played better than anyone. A true master of his craft, that all who knew him will struggle to replace.
Steve was predeceased by his wife, Tanya; parents, Rex and Nettie Bledsoe; and brothers, Bruce and Mark. He leaves behind his daughter, Ashley Dye (Brandt); son, Alex (Aylia); his three beloved grandchildren, Luca and Lola Dye, and Winston Bledsoe; and his brothers, Bryan, (Jean), and Ed (Deborah); and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
A celebration of his life will be held in Spokane in early summer.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steve BLEDSOE
Tom Burgess
June 30, 2024
Steve was very happy at Ian´s recent birthday party
Janet Gillespie, Dallas, Texas
May 18, 2024
I´ve known Steve since he was a 12 year old can kicker from Sac, me, a Catholic girl a year ahead in school. He was my best friend´s best friend. Everything written in his obituary is spot on. I really loved Steve , and we did a lot together as kids. He always presented with the same warm and fabulous grin, and whenever he walked into a party, everybody knew he was there, without him saying a word( he was the party. Steve was peace, he was kind, he couldn´t help but be popular and he was beloved. I was shocked to find that he is gone. I was just going to call him, I looked for his phone number, found he has left the earth, his loving self no longer corporeal, but his boundless energy alive and well. He´s okay now, still grinning. I really loved him.
Ashley
May 16, 2024
A memorial will be held on July 6th at Overbluff Cellars from 2-6 pm. Let´s raise a glass to Steve!
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Shelly Heston
May 14, 2024
This really saddens me. We just saw him at dinner, he shared his amazing bottle of wine with us.
It was so nice to see him after so many years.
Shelly Wray
Steve Pacello
May 13, 2024
I have known Steve since I can remember. He's one of those guys you thought would never die. Now that I think about it, he won't. Sincerest condolences to Brian and Ed.
Tom Burgess
May 12, 2024
I knew Steve for over 50 years.
When we were kids riding bikes, he was Steve.
During high school we called him Bledz.
Later on, we called him "Ray" actually, we all were Ray :)
Through all that time, I always called him friend!
I never heard him talk bad about anyone. He always had a smile on his face positive attitude and was up for fun.
I tossed him around in boats, racecars and everything else! I´ve seen his eyes more wide open than anyone probably!
I am in utter shock over this. We had plans for him to come to Thailand with us this winter.
Right now, I imagine Steve sitting in heaven´s version of Dimitriou's Jazz Alley. He has a nice full wine glass from some great vineyard In France that he probably went to, He´s sitting back very comfortable with a big smile on his face probably listening to Larry Carlton.... Or maybe Tower of Power.:)
He accomplished a lot in his life, and he was so proud of his children and grandchildren.
Hey Ray, we have unfinished business. See you on the other side brother
Brooke
May 10, 2024
Steve was our neighbor I am so heartbroken to hear of his passing ! He was an amazing person , our girls loved Steve they would bring him art work and he would proudly show it off he would have them do yard work and pay them always sending them home with soda or some kind of treat , Steve also took interest in our dog they had a unique relationship lol I would find him bringing her bones and treats always visiting and talking to her and she would try and jump the fence to get to him lol I have so many fond memories he was our friend , last summer he had given me tomatoe starts and gave me the run down on where there from and tips to take care of them ! my husband would always bring our friends over there and Steve would greet us with a drink and a smile ! I can´t believe I won´t ever see him again. I will always cherish his friendship.
Jim Bagan
May 8, 2024
simply the best. see you on the other side my dear dear friend. you'll always be in my heart. you will never be forgotten and you will always hold a special place in my heart
Jim Bagan
May 8, 2024
Simply the best. I'll see you on the other side my dear dear friend. So until then you'll never leave my heart
Mo Hagen
May 1, 2024
Steve had a profound effect on me in the most wonderful ways both professionally and personally in the wine industry. We would laugh telling stories in the course of our work day, he always had an interesting anecdote to share from his first hand life experience. His glory days of selling Drouhin in the 80s was a common one, but I never grew tired of hearing them. An avid fan of music, he would share different renditions of songs he and his friends "decomposed" or revamped with funny lyrics. He loved his family very much and that only grew after he became a Grandpa. He moved to Spokane as did I to Portland, but whenever we got together it felt like reuniting with family. My face would hurt by the end of the night from smiling and laughing so hard. Thank you for all that you did, the kindness you freely gave, and the wonderful memories you gave me that I will deeply cherish. I will miss you very much my friend, you truly were one of a kind, mullet and all!
Val
May 1, 2024
I´ve known Steve since junior high. Our lives have intertwined with many fabulous memories over the years. He was the life of the party!! Always a greeting with gusto, pouring up wonderful wines, or grilling something delicious! Steve you will be missed! Hugs to Ashley and Alex!!
Ruth L Michaelis
April 30, 2024
I am not surprised to learn that Steve was an excellent adult. I went to school with him from K-12. He was a lovely person. I am so sorry for your loss . Oceans of Love to all.
Jen
April 30, 2024
I worked with Steve for many years in the wine business in Seattle. What a kind, positive, and congenial person he was. My love to his family.
Dean Bachmayer
April 30, 2024
Steve Bledsoe was a mighty fine man. His spirit, enthusiasm, and lust for life spread joy to the people around him. Our friendship and love for wine, food, & music spanned over 35 years. I am really going to miss him. RIP St. Stephen...
Dan Davison
April 29, 2024
I´ve known Steve for forty years or so. We partied and ate our way through this world with his late best friend Dave Clark. When I needed a job other than playing music, he got me one in the wine business and we later worked together as well.
He taught me my first Demi Glacé. Ash and Alex were his pride and joy!
He will be missed but still present in our hearts and minds when we sip a good wine, eat a fabulous meal, or enjoy live music!
Bill Hanot
April 29, 2024
Wonderfully written! I've known Steve since 1998 and he was a frequent house-guest when he was in Seattle after moving back to Spokane. We shared a love of cooking, wine and live music and I'll miss him terribly. Always a positive attitude and kind and generous. We'll raise a toast with the last bottles he left in my cellar in his honor and memory!
Sincerest condolences to Ashley, Alex, Ed and the rest of the family.
Gloria
April 28, 2024
My heart is sad and breaking for all those he left behind. What a force of nature he was, one of a kind and so talented. My love and condolences to all.
Dennis Nourse
April 28, 2024
We didn´t know Steve very well, but Bryan we do. We are so sorry for your loss. Den.&Shar
Richard Watson
April 28, 2024
Steve was the best neighbor someone could have asked for. He instantly made me feel welcome into the community. He will be missed.
Bartender sandy
April 28, 2024
So sad..Steve will be sorely missed!
Scotty
April 28, 2024
Go rest high on the mountain my friend.
Pat Mallahan
April 27, 2024
Steve was quite a guy, the day we met, he was workin' behind a deli counter and he was a ball of fire. We were immediately friends. We saw each other quite frequently when he moved to Seattle and who ever wrote the obit. was right on, always the life of the party even if it was a party of two. Incredible chef that blessed us with the best meals. I will dearly miss him.
Pat Mallahan
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