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Steven Hagis Obituary
When Steven M. Hagis Jr. was 2, the family pediatrician told his parents that if they doubled his height at the time ‹ 3 feet 4 inches ‹ they could figure out how tall he would eventually be. So they braced for a giant son. As it turned out, Mr. Hagis, who was 31 and a vice president at Cantor Fitzgerald, grew to 6 feet 10 inches.
Naturally, he was drawn to basketball ‹ and coaches were drawn to him. More than 60 colleges tried to recruit him, said his father, Steven Hagis, but he wound up at Fairfield University in Connecticut, where he and another very tall teammate were known as the "twin towers."
He seriously injured his knee during his sophomore year and stopped playing, focusing on a degree in finance. He wound up as a trader.
After graduating from college, Mr. Hagis met his wife, Gloria (she is 5 feet 3 inches tall), while he was working as a bouncer at a sports bar. As she was leaving, Mr. Hagis said, "Where are you going?" ‹ the first line in what became a three-hour conversation.
She interrupted the conversation about 90 minutes through, called her mother and said, "I'm going to marry this man," recalled Mrs. Hagis.
When she got home that night she told her mother that she had forgotten what he looked like, except that he was as tall as their front doorway. "Go stand in the doorway," her mother said.
So she did, and they both decided that she could live with a foot-and-a-half difference.
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September 11, 2023
Steve, you will be missed forever and ever.
September 12, 2022
21 years have passed and we still remember you with love. We miss you and always will, Steve.
Maribeth Evans
September 11, 2021
On September 11th 2001 I was a 15 year old high school student sitting in history class in Chicago when we learned what was happening in New York. We cried and felt helpless trying to grasp what was happening. In the coming days we realized the magnitude and we're horrified. Our highschool had each student pick 1-2 names to display on their lockers in remembrance. I chose Steven. Every year since then on September 11th, I search Stevens name to see the great things his friends and family say about him. Although I have never met him I will always remember him. You will never be forgotten❤
Ashlyn
September 14, 2019
Every time I go to New York I go to the 9/11 memorial & museum. While looking through pictures from my trip this summer, I noticed something. In my photos from this summer's trip and my trip from 2017, Mr. Hagis' name was front and center in both of my photos. I did not realize until today (which also happens to be a few days after 9/11). Out of the almost 3,000 names, somehow I managed to take photos at the memorial in almost the exact same spot. God works in such mysterious ways. Prayers for his family and all of those affected by 9/11.
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September 11, 2017
Always remembered
Nick Basile
September 11, 2017
Steven and I played ball together on the Cardinals and I always looked up to him literally. Needless to say he was a gentle giant. We lost touch over the years but through friends I would always hear how he was doing. I am blessed to see all the lives he touched along with mine. Learning about his faith and how he encouraged others by reading these blogs I am so blessed and know I will see him in heaven one day. I pray for his family and hope God will bless his children with all his riches. Although our time together was short I will never forget you brother. Peace
Nick Basile
Donna Ciccone
September 11, 2016
Prayers and remembrance on this day
Jonscott Turco
September 18, 2011
Steve,
Each year on our birthday (09/18/69) I say a special prayer for you and your family.
May you rest in peace and may your light continue to shine on and through your family.
Jonscott Turco, Farrell '87
September 11, 2011
At the age of 6 was the last time I saw you. Now at 16 I see you everywhere, the light beating down on my face, and the rainbows over every place. You're forever in my heart and I don't think I will ever forget seeing you at Grandpa's or any place for that matter. Forever loving and missing you <3 R.I.P I hope God is treating you well <3
Amanda Mattera
September 11, 2011
At the age of 6 was the last time I saw you. Now at 16 I see you everywhere, the light beating down on my face, and the rainbows over every place. You're forever in my heart and I don't think I will ever forget seeing you at Grandpa's or any place for that matter. Forever loving and missing you <3 R.I.P I hope God is treating you well <3
September 11, 2011
You were too young with so much ahead of you. My thoughts are with your family on this sorrowful day. Watch over them and give them the strength they need to continue on.
JoAnn Pignataro
September 9, 2011
Always in my prayers and heart. Your children would have made you very proud. Watch over us and help us to live better christian lives.
Nikki
September 8, 2011
On my bus ride into work right now, can't believe it's been 10 years. The kids all go back to school today. Daniel starts high school! I can't get over how amazing he and Jaclyn both are! They are wonderful kids and I see more of you in both of them with each passing day. Missing you always <3
Cristian Bruno
August 13, 2011
I was only a baby when you passed on me and daniel will always miss you we bolth will always look up to you i wiil always love you and rember the amazing christian man you where ilove your nefew christian bruno
August 5, 2010
Another year will pass but our memories of you will remain the same. Rest in peace Stevie. We miss you
Nikki
August 5, 2010
I've been lost in my thoughts over the past few days. Remembering you, grandpa and your mom. I'd give anything to have the three of you back for one Sunday dinner. It still hurts just as much today as it did the day we lost each of you. xoxo
Stacy Bruno
September 24, 2009
Another year has passed... this would have been your fortieth... been thinking about how we would have celebrated...funny thing is you always said you were never going to make it to Forty.. Guess you knew something we didn't!!! I miss you so very much, it is amazing because the pain in my heart feels like you disappeared yesterday, but I feel like I have not seen your face for centuries. Time just makes it different, not better. I realize more and more how fortunate we were to have the relationship we did as siblings.... not many out there like us... I thank God for Chris because I don't know what I would do without him... you two were everything to me growing up. I never imagined my life without either of you and I hate that you are not here... life has not and will never be the same without you. There are so many times I wish I can call and talk to you..... I truly miss you!!!!!
Kim Deneke
September 13, 2009
I think about you often. God bless you and your family
September 11, 2009
MISS YOU SO MUCH.
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND THE FAMILY.
WE LOVE YOU AND WE ARE IN YOUR PRAYERS.
JO-JO
AUNT VICKIES
NIECE.
September 11, 2009
Remembering you today and always.
Tara
September 11, 2009
Prayers and rememberance Steve for you and your family
JT
Nicole Hitchcock
September 10, 2009
Stevie,
I love you, I miss you and we all need you right now.
Nikki
August 12, 2009
Steve
I miss the Cantor days and the gang. Sometimes it is so hard to go on thinking of you and the others who are gone...
God Bless.
Frankie
July 6, 2009
Hi Steven
your in my thoughts and prayers
frankie
Nicole Hitchcock
March 24, 2009
Stevie,
Life is full of so many wonderful gifts. Mikey's daughter Leah brings such joy to our lives everyday. Even with the stress we've all been dealing with. It's simply amazing how this little girl can make each one of us smile ear to ear and for that moment we forget what silly things we were stressing about. We must stop to thank God for showing us how great he is by creating such a magnificent little creature.
I know you would have absolutely adored Leah if you were still with us today. She has a strength in her that even I sometimes cannot match. What we once thought was a tragedy has become our most blessed gift.
On a different note, I'm a crossroads in my life. It's a time that makes me nervous and scared. This Saturday I will be taking an exam that will literally make or break my future. How can I find time NOT to stress over such a serious matter?
I've made so many poor choices in my life that have caused me to be where I am today, I'm just hoping I'm given the chance to turn it all around. If it wasn't for Gloria I wouldn't even have a chance at passing. She has been helping me and pushing me to do my best and I am so grateful to her for all of the time she has dedicated to me over the years. Thank you for bringing her into out lives.
Please watch over me, keep me calm and focused as I take my exam.
With all my love,
Nikki
Kim Deneke
December 7, 2008
I lived on East 49th street in Brooklyn, NY as a young girl, and Stevie's grandfather Vito lived on my block. Every weekend Stevie and I played together. He loved playing with army men and he and I sat for hours building forts and positioning little men. Even though I was a girl, I found this to be the most fun and remember it like it was yesterday. I was heartbroken when I was informed that my friend was gone. I send my heartfelt condolences to his family from myself and my family.
Tara
September 12, 2008
I have read this legacy book countless times. Each time I have wanted to write an entry. But how do I honor a person like Steve in few words in such limited space? I feel as though I could write a book and it still wouldn't do his memory justice. Simply put, he was very special to me for many reasons. I think of him often and although my heart aches, I am able to smile as I recall the times he made me laugh. I am grateful for having known him and his family. I will forever treasure the lessons he taught me and the memories we shared. I am a better person for having known him and I will continue to honor his memory.
JO-JO CICCONE
September 11, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rebecca Webster
September 11, 2008
I never met Steve. After 9/11 I heard of an organization, Mercy Band (Bear Another's Name Daily), that would send you a bracelet with the name of a person that died in the attacks. I received a band with the name Steven Hagis. I live in Tennessee and though I have never been to New York I was deeply touched by all the events of 9/11. Over the past seven years I have continued to wear the bracelet with Steve's name on it to remind myself of the individuals and their families that were touched on that day. I was able to find out more about Steve through various web sites though this is the first time that I have written. I am humbled by all that I have read about Steve and who he was, the man, husband, father, co-worker and friend, his strong faith, and the fun person he was. I feel honored to bear the name of Steve Hagis to remind me not just of the events on 9/11 but also of the amazing life of this young man.
Michael Bruno
August 25, 2008
I have never written in this space before...Steve was the brother I never had until I married Stacy...He was my best friend, my spiritual guidance, my brother...I have lost many people in my life but none have had the effect on me as Steve. I think about him everyday, everything I do I think of what you would have said or did...how my kids missed out on an incredible uncle...I have not golfed a round since you left us...I have so many memories of us...which I thank God for....I talk to your kids and remind them of you and your amazing qualities....Daniel is really maturing now and he is a better athlete then you were and that says alot..I try to help him with baseball and he is getting better everyday..Jaclyn is smart and beautiful ...but most of all she is strong willed and tough minded just like her Dad...I would do anything for those kids...I look forward to seeing you again one day Steven when we can see each other in Gods Glory
Joseph Torres
August 10, 2008
To Steven's family,
I would like to send all of Steven's friends and family my very best and hope everyone is doing well. I played basketball with Steven in high school at Farrell. He was a sophomore and I was a senior. We were good friends in high school. I haven't lived in Staten Island in several years. I use to run into Steven once in a while at the mall whenever I visted. But we lost contact a while back like so many people do when they start careers and families.
A few years ago, I learned that Steven died on Sept. 11. It was a painful day. I drove past Farrell one evening and looked through the gym doors where I spent a lot of time with Steve at basketball practice. I saw the photo in the display case of Steven standing next to our former teammate, Nick, and our former coach. I remember that day like it was yesterday. I just wanted to leave a message on this board to let Steven's family know that I think of Steven very often. He was good man and a good friend to me (I transfered to Farrell in my junior year). I am grateful that I knew him and that he was my teammate and friend.
Nicole Hitchcock
June 1, 2008
Stevie,
I never knew what a small world it was, until today. Since you are watching from above, I'm sure you know what I am talking about. :)
Love you
Nikki~
Michael Petrizzo
April 8, 2008
Steve,
You are missed. Rest in Peace.
Mike
stacy bruno
February 6, 2008
Thinking of you today, as i do everyday. I miss you and mommy so much that my heart aches. It is amzing how all these years pass and the pain is still so intense. I know you are in an amazing place and that mommy was finally able to be with you again. It is just hard to be here without the two of you. I look into Jaclyns eyes and I feel like I am looking at you. She carries so much of your ways it is amazing. You have two amazing children that I love like my own. I can not wait for the day to see you and mommmy. Love you always
Nicole Hitchcock
December 14, 2007
Stevie,
I always miss you more this time of year. The holidays have never been the same since your death. Christmas eve at your parent's house seems empty. You, grandpa and your mom are missing and things won't ever be the same. That feeling of wholeness is gone. Walking into the house the smells are the same, the many many gifts scattered around the living room are the same, but 3 very important people are missing and it's hard not to be sad. All of the kids keep us smiling, but one look at any of our faces can show the pain that we are all hiding inside.
We all try to hide the pain so we don't make each other sad. That's the thing about our family, we are always looking out for each other. We don't want to see sadness in our loved ones so we hide our own pain to make them happy. The unbelievable bond that we all have is unbreakable. Some people might think we are crazy for being so close with each other, but that's only because they've never felt what we all feel.
Yesterday was St. Lucy's Day. We had dinner at Stacy and Michael's house and my mom and Aunt Debbie made riceballs as usual. It was a good day for us. We talk often about old times, things that happened in previous years and that gives us great comfort. I hope you know how much we all love and miss you each and ever day.
Love always,
Nikki
J T
November 25, 2007
Hi Steve,
I was talking with my nephew Michael McHugh III the other day. Sadly, his dad Mike was with you at Cantor that day and is with you now.
We talked High School and basketball. The boys, my son included, are in full talking-about-HS mode. I then spoke of you Steve.
I talked about Farrell and meeting you while we were both in 8th grade. I spoke about the Basketball marathons and how much fun we had. I spoke about meeting you on the bus stop in the mid 90s. As my story of you stretched on, I began to realize the story would end the say way his father's did.
We went down the road to that point and I saw my nephew reach a salient point of realization and he shook his head.
I remember you fondly Steve and I think of you on our birthday every year as well. The same exact day 9.18.69. I wonder what God had in store for you and I get upset at the life he has taken. I find peace in knowing you are a man of strong faith and you have a far better answer than I do to these questions.
Peace, love, and happiness to all your family. I am sure they are reminded often of the great man you were and the legacy you've left with them.
Doug Abraham
September 18, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Nicole Hitchcock
September 13, 2007
Stevie,
We all miss you each and everyday. No one could ever fill the void that has been left in our hearts by your death. 6 years have passed, and yet it still feels like yesterday. Please watch over me the day of my surgery. <3
Always,
Nikki
Fairfield U Classmate
September 12, 2007
To Steve's Family:
I went to Fairfield U with Steve and look at this site quite frequently. I knew Steve since freshman and he was a great guy, a true gentlemen. I pray for his family and all of the other victim's families.
Rest in Peace, Steve.
Ad maiorem Dei gloriam !
Dana Mercaldo
September 11, 2007
Gloria, while 6 years has passed quickly for some I am sure it has been what seems a lifetime for you. I simply write to say that we still think of you all often and to remind you once again that we will NEVER forget.
Nicole Hitchcock
December 29, 2006
Stevie,
Missing you everyday! Give grandpa and your mom big big hugs for me. <3
Love you, Nikki
Hopeful
December 3, 2006
Stevie, you must know why I am writing! I think of you and Grandpa often and now your mom has left us to be with you. I know the place to be is with you and the way to live is like you. I look to you for strength through this difficult time in my life and even though I wish things were somewhat different right now, I will be forever grateful for having met you.
I love and miss you.
Andrea Wilson
November 28, 2006
i have never met you but ive heard so much about you. Your family loves and misses you so much. Now you have your mother in heaven with you and i know you both are watching over your family. Your memory has left a mark on a lot of peoples lives. Rest in Peace.
P Tabbernor
October 29, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
richard avvento
September 26, 2006
Dear steve ,maryjane and family.
Its taken me over 5yrs to accept and now to acknowledge the lost of your son steven jr.How many times I passed your home, and never had the nerve to bring myself to knock and give my condolence, forgive me, the lost to your son was so detrimental to me, that i finally accepted the fact.
Our prays are always with steve, and his family, and to you steve and maryjane.
Drew Caparelli
September 15, 2006
Steve-
Since words are too fraile to bear the burden of my heart let me say simply and sincerely 'Thank you for your friendship'.
Drew Cap--Fairfield U. '91
DORA
September 11, 2006
HEY GLORIA, KIDS!!!
MY GOODNESS, I'VE FOUND MYSELF ALMOST FULL CIRCLE THIS YEAR. I REALIZED TODAY (A BEAUTIFUL, PERFECT DAY - JUST AS IT WAS FIVE YEARS AGO), THAT I WAS WALKING TO THE SCHOOL TO BRING THE KIDS TO CLASS....AND BRINGING CUPCAKES TO ANDY'S CLASSROOM. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT NOW ANDY WILL BE GRADUATING WHEREAS 5 YEARS AGO.....HE WAS JUST ENTERING KINDERGARTEN! WHERE DID IT GO?
SOMETHING STRUCK ME LAST WEEK....WE WERE IN FRONT OF YOUR HOUSE..YOU AND YOUR MOM WERE HANGING OUT ON THE STOOP, AND OUR BOYS WERE RACING - BACK AND FORTH...UP AND DOWN THE BLOCK!
I WISH YOUR HUSBAND WAS ABLE TO SEE THAT. BUT GLORIA, I KNOW YOU'VE GOT AN INCREDIBLE STRENGTH AND RESILIENCE THAT YOU MAY NOT REALIZE RIGHT NOW. PLEASE ALWAYS MAKE YOUR NEEDS KNOWN..YOU HAVE MORE FRIENDS THAN YOU REALIZE, AND LOTS OF LOVE AROUND YOU.
I PRAY THAT GOD WILL CONTINUE TO WRAP HIS ARMS AROUND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL ONE AND ARE TRULY BLESSED!
Dana Mercaldo
September 11, 2006
It is hard to believe that it's been 5 years since Steven was taken from his family and friends. I just wanted Gloria and the kids to know that we think of them often, will continue to pray for them and that we will NEVER forget. We love you.
Js T
September 11, 2006
Peace and Love to the Hagis family- Remembering Steve
Richard Avvento
September 7, 2006
I have so many memories of Stevie, my brother Stephen and myself playing matchbox cars in his room and constantly swimming in his pool.We were all inseparable. My heart still aches to this day. My thoughts will always be with you Stevie and your family.
Richard Avvento
Nicole Hitchcock
August 30, 2006
Stevie,
I've been having a hard time accepting the changes that have been going on in our family over the past few months. I know these changes are all for the better, but It all makes me very upset and then all I can think about is you. My biggest fear is that the memory of you won't carry on for years to come.
I was swimming in your mom's pool the other day and I had a memory of when you used to chase me around the yard trying to throw me into the water. The good times will forever be in my mind.
Missing you and Loving you always,
Nikki
kathleen francomano
July 12, 2006
with prayers..
Nicole Hitchcock
April 10, 2006
Stevie,
I've been having a rough week, thinking of you and Grandpa 1,000 times a day. I love you and miss you more than words can say.
Missing you,
<3Nikki
Nicole Hitchcock
November 7, 2005
Missing you each and every day <3<3
Love Nikki
Nicole Hitchcock
September 21, 2004
Stevie,
to correct my last entry, it has been 3 years not four. Still missing you every day
Love Nikki
Nicole Hitchcock
September 12, 2004
Stevie,
Four years have gone by and I still feel as if you are here, because we are keeping you alive in our hearts. In my last entry I wrote how Grandpa had gotten sick but then he was doing better. Well, he passed away on June 19,2004 and I'm possitive that he is sitting with you in Heaven. Our family has suffered such a great loss in such a short time, but we are strong. Our faith is what keeps us going. There is a beautiful memorial on Staten Island with your profile etched in stone,looking at it brought tears to our eyes because it was as if we were looking at you. We plan on going back to see it next week on your birthday. For now thats all I have to say. Until next time......
Love always,
Nikki
Js T
July 1, 2004
I graduated with Steve from Farrell in 1987 and just discovered this page. I am happy to have an opportunity to share my thoughts.
I first remember Steve in the Spring of 1983 when we were walking through the halls at Farrell. I approached what I thought was a Senior and asked him if he knew where the Spanish placement exam was. He looked down (as he often did) and laughed at me as he said he was there for the French placement exam. "You're in 8th grade?!" was my reply...as we laughed. We found the exams and shared a funny bond through HS.
I remember Steve's brief stint on the freshman football team. It was just unfair how a lob pass would result in a man-sized boy catching a ball over all these boys.
Throughout Farrell, I was just another classmate who felt honored to know Steve. I speak often of him when I talk of the loss of my brother-in-law at Cantor that fateful day.
I think about the time I was on the express bus and, as I passed downtown, I saw this silhouette dwarfing the other waiting commuters. As my bus approached, I sat there face to face with Steve. I laughed at his ability to look eye to eye as I sat on the bus. We shared a silent big hello. It was the last time I was to see Steve and it was some time ago.
Since then and since 9/11, I have heard such wonderful words about Steve as a man, a husband, father, and a man of faith. I think to the many times I've looked through my yearbook and the silhouette of Steve in the chapel at Farrell making the sign of the cross. I know God has him home and he looks over his wife and family.
God Bless,
JsT
September 11, 2003
It's been 2 years and I haven't even come close to forgeting Steve. Even if I was one of those bad influence guys back in the late 80's (high school). Just hoping your family is reading these things every once in a while. And a personal note to Stacy, i would love to keep in touch with you, and hopfully you can come to the restaurant I'm working at to enjoy my food again. Chefbomba@aol. You showed me so much at Steve's memorial back then that would be honored to have yo guys as a guest of mine. Don't be shy....please.
Bob Lombardo A.K.A. "BOMBA"
Joe Serao
September 11, 2003
Gloria,
It is 4:30am September 11, 2003. I just came back from Ground Zero as I did last year to recall the events of that dreadful morning which I too was a part of. It is painful to think of what took place that morning.
As I looked at Steve's name displayed on the various plaques around the site, I couldn't help but think that he left such a great legacy behind as a true witness of Jesus Christ to all the people that he connected with over the years. His reward is truly in heaven today. He is waiting for you and the kids, and all his bothers and sisters in the Lord. There will be a great reunion some day.
It has been an honor for me to be a part of the music for the memorial services that took place at Gateway for the past two years. I keep Steve's memorial pin on my desk in front of me at home and wear it with honor each time these memorials occur.
God has poured out much of His grace to you, and may you continue to always rely on Him for comfort and strength. I know this is what Steve would want because he always kept pointing people towards Jesus.
My love and prayers are with you continually.
Joe Serao
Drew Caparelli
March 20, 2003
Steve-
Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. My college roommate, John Protano, and I always smile when we bring your name up in conversation. The good times we had on the 150's block at Fairfield Univ. is etched in my mind forever. Thanks for touching my life in such a positive way.
Although I don't know your wife and kids, just know that I say prayers for them.
Your friend-
Drew
Nicole Hitchcock
January 13, 2003
Stevie,
I still can't believe you're gone. I can't look at Jaclyn without seeing your face. Daniel wants to become a fireman, hes quite the little "man" of the house. The kids are growing to be so beautiful, and I know you are watching down on them. Gloria has been so strong over the past year. We all miss you, and think of you everyday. I wish I could see you just one more time, so I could tell you how much of an impact you've had on my life. I'm an active member of our parish youth group. I know you would love to know that I am following a Christian life. Stacy's baby was named after you, and hes gorgeous. There is so much I wish I could say to you. Everytime I see your picture I feel as if you are standing in front of me. Grandpa was sick for a while, but hes gotten better. I know you are watching over him, keeping him safe. We all love you and miss you every moment of every day. Have fun singing Jesus his praises in Heaven we will meet again one day.
Love always,
Nikki
Dora Reyes
December 20, 2002
Dear Gloria, Daniel and Jaclyn:
I want to wish you and your family a most blessed Christmas. May the new year bring you health, happiness, peace of mind, and love. His grace is sufficient, His love endureth forever.
I saw the Christmas recital at the school today...I just thought of how much my kids have grown..I've learned never to take those days for granted. I hope that you have many joyous days with your children. They are an inheritance from the Lord.
God Bless you this season and always,
your sister in Christ Jesus,
Dora (Andy, Matt's and Ellie's mom)
gary ekelund
December 6, 2002
miss you alot
i'll never forget you guys
(my Cantor boys!)
Peace
Edward Jones
October 8, 2002
I graduated with Steve from Farrell in 1987. Even though I remember him as one of the "Twin Towers" from basketball, I wish I got to know him better while we were classmates. However, my heart goes out to his family and friends. Wherever you are, I am sure you are in a better place. May you rest in peace and your memory will live forever in our hearts.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to write how I felt.
John Nikolai
September 12, 2002
Dear Steven,
More than any person I've ever known in my life, you were like a brother to me. Though we both reached 6'10" in our lives, our rare, mutual height is the faintest of my memories of you. It is your ear that I remember most, and how you always lent it to me during the toughest times of my youth. Though I eventually moved far away, you were rarely far from my thoughts. I will never forget you or your beautiful parents who made me feel part of the Hagis family from the first time I met them. I could write volumes about your strength and character, but will always remember that you defined friendship. You will be missed forever.
Kevan Riese
September 11, 2002
Gloria,
My prayers are for you and the kids. I pray the Lord is comforting you and holding you "in the cleft of the Rock" as He did Moses. Steve was an Absolute Encouragement to me and to my wife Sandy. He so loved the Lord. Everytime we came to the small group Bible study or at church, Steve was always asking us how we're doing. He had a genuine concern for those in the body of Christ and outside as well. I do miss that. We miss you and him as well. I can't wait for the day that we'll all Fellowship with him and the Lord once again! We're praying for you. Lord Bless.
Kevan & Sandy Riese
Cindy Brown
September 10, 2002
It's Sept. 10, 2002 & I was scrolling through the names of precious people who died last year. My maiden name was HARGIS and I have a brother named Steve with middle initial M. I have no idea who you are, or your family but just the similarity in name is enough to make me think what it would be like to miss my brother. When I read the guest book of victims and can see they are christians it uplifts my heart. Carry on, family members...Keep allowing God to comfort you and give you peace knowing Steve is safe and will be with you for eternity. Gloria and children, please know you do have strangers around the country praying for you. It's not as good as Steve being there with you now, but I know you understand God's power to help you live through this.
Loretta Schrecker
September 8, 2002
Steven was a friend of my son Frank & daughter in law Gina, God Bless & Steven will remain always in our hearts along with all that perished.
Elizabeth Reyes
August 19, 2002
* To Gloria and her kids*
i dont know what to say because i rarely know you guys but i do know that you are always apart of me cause you will always be my brother and sister in christ. When i found out in school that the building got Hit i was thinking about all the people i knew from church and my friends and family that worked there and my mother (dora reyes) picked my brother (andy reyes)and i up from school.i was so upset when i found out how many people had been missing and your husband had been one those missing.even though i cant change the fact that he is gone i still know that you can always talk to me or my mother anytime you like cause you know things like this dont always happen in everyday life.so if you need anything just give us a call at anytime you feel you need to cause you are important to us. and i say this to alot of people " if you are feeling sad ,dont be cause there are alot of people around you who can relate to what your going through and can help you get through this pain that we all have inside.
*GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD BLESS AMERICA*
Kieran Kelly
May 22, 2002
not really sure where to start or what to say so here goes...I met Steve in 1983 at freshman basketball tryouts at Monsignor Farrell on Staten Island. Steve was the tallest kid I'd ever seen at that point in my life. We were to become very good friends for we went through many battles together on the court against some tough teams. I remember the time freshman year he scored the winning basket against Fordham prep via a full court pass from me. I remember him picking me off the floor after I sprained my ankle against a tough New Dorp team. I also remember him saying that we need to drive together to every game because everytime we did we would win...we we're 23-6 in 1987, our senior year. He went to Fairfield I went to West Point. We would always stay in contact one way or another when we came home to Staten Island. When he worked at Cantor we would meet up at Moran's for a drink. Steve was a great guy and I'm not really sure what to do or say at this point...he was a friend of mine that I can't forget...my heart goes out to his children and wife...his parents are two of the best people a person could ever have...What can one say...I'm still numb from this news...a tragedy in every sense...
Michael Iezzi
April 30, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Steven to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
D Reyes
April 29, 2002
Dear Gloria, Daniel and Jaclyn:
I didn't know Steve very well, but he always had a wonderful, warm smile everytime I passed his huge frame!!!!! I remember just turning around one day, and instead of seeing a face, I think I was looking at his stomach, then I kept looking up, and up and up.....What a sweetheart.
Gloria, I see you all the time in church dropping the kids off at school (Jaclyn is in Andy's class)and I sometimes don't know what to say...I see how strong you are. I recognize the Lord's strength in your heart and in your eyes.
Although I don't know you well, you are a sister in Christ Jesus and those ties can be stronger than any blood tie a brother or sister may have sometimes.
If you see me pass by, please do not be shy about coming over and saying hi. May God bless you, your children and your family always.
You have a loving church family here for you always....
Dora Reyes
lisa santomauro
April 28, 2002
Dear Gloria and kids and Hagis Family,
May God bless you and give you strength to go through life ech day. May you remember the fine man that was once in your life. He was amazing and though I did not know himn that well I remember hearing how his heart was as big as his height. Gloria be strong and always know yhou cousins are here for you.
Lisa, Sally, Virginia and Vinny
Matthew J. Rosenwasser
April 12, 2002
Steve -
Thanks for doing our high school proud.
The WTC may have fallen, but the Nikolai/Hagis Twin Towers from the 1987 Farrell Varisty Team will live on.
Later,
Matthew J. Rosenwasser
Msgr. Farrell
Class of 88
Rosemary Grosshandler
April 8, 2002
I have known the Hagis' for about 27 years. We have not seen each other for a few years, but the friendship is such that we still love them dearly. I did not know Stevie was in the World Trade until about two months later. It hit me like a physical blow! I am so heart broken that I cannot even talk to the family. Just pray very hard and feel such pain for them. He was a great kid. My boys played with him every day until we all moved and even then. The family does not deserve this. They are wonderful and very religious people. Maryjane, what can I say. There are no words and never will be. I pray for you all constantly. My whole family sends their love and to Stevies family. Sincerely, Roe
Linda Rhatigan
April 8, 2002
Rest in peace, Steve. May God be with your familiy and grant them some peace also.
Friends of your father,
Linda and Will Rhatigan
LINDA CALABRESE
March 27, 2002
MY HEART BROKE WHEN I HEARD OF THIS TRAGIC LOSS. MY HUSBAND AND I BOUGHT STEVE AND MARYJANE'S HOUSE ON EAST 51 STREET IN BROOKLYN WAY BACK IN 1974. STEVIE WAS JUST A LITTLE BOY BACK THEN. (EVEN THEN HE WAS QUITE TALL) I HAVE LONG LOST TOUCH WITH MARYJANE AND STEVE BUT MY HEART BLEEDS FOR THEM AND HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS EVERYDAY.
Dana Mercaldo
March 15, 2002
Steven and Gloria are our dearest friends. I dragged Gloria out the night she met Steven, and to this day consider it complete providence. Although we moved 6 hrs. away to VA after our wedding (in which Steven was a groomsman and Gloria a bridesmaid) we still managed to see them and keep in touch. Steven was a wonderful man, devoted husband and loving father. There are not enough words to express how deeply he will be missed. The only comfort one can find in all of this is that on 9/11, today and for all eternity Steven was welcomed joyously into heaven and is sitting at the feet of Jesus. I look forward to the day when we will meet again. We love you Steven, and will take good care of Gloria and those beautiful children. They are your legacy, and we will make sure they always remember you.
Marcia Johnson
March 11, 2002
To Gloria and family,
We have a mutual friend, Dana Mercaldo, and although I never had the chance to meet you and Steve, I have been lifting you up in prayer since the tragedy. Dana tells me that your faith is sustaining you. God bless you and please know that you will always be in our hearts. We will never forget.
Rebecca Rivera
March 11, 2002
To Gloria and family, Though we didn't know you and Steve personally, we always saw both of you come into church. Gloria our prayers are with you and if we can be of any help, Remember that you have sister and brother in Christ to see you through this time in your life.
Love Dave and Rebecca Rivera
Robert Lombardo
March 10, 2002
God Bless, Rest in Peace.
Aurea de la Cruz
January 28, 2002
To Mr. & Mrs. Hagis, Christopher, Stacey and especially Gloria and children. I didn't know Steve personally, but I remember seeing him and Gloria in Church. I watched them court, then married and then have children. The one thing I remembered most(besides his height)was his big spiritual personality. His love for Christ came through. It gives me some peace to know that he and Lillian, my sister, went to Heaven together and they are rejoicing together. I believe in my heart that God secured them from feeling any human pain. They will always be alive in Heaven, and we shall meet with them one day. God bless you all and I think about and pray for you too. Love Aurea 5 of 9
debbie savo
January 20, 2002
I didn't know Steve, but I have met his wife at church. Gloria is a strong christian women who is depending on God through this time of grief. My prayers are with yoou always and if I can ever help you or your chidren in any way, please call me. your sister in Christ,
debbie savo
Alma Ramos
January 19, 2002
Steve was a wonderful, friendly guy. He was a member of my church, and very dedicated to the Lord as well as to his family.
My funniest memory of him was when he performed in the Honeymooners skit that we put on there. It was the one where Ralph makes fun of "little" Harvey by the pool table that he wants. Well when Steve came out playing the role of "Harvey," and dwarfed everyone on stage (including Ralph,) he had the audience in hysterics.
He had that relaxed smile on his face and was truly enjoying the moment. I miss you Steve, and pray for Gloria and the kids for you. The Lord will continue to be their strength. I'll see you in heaven.
Patti Carlile
January 14, 2002
I didn't know Steven, but purchased a memory band in honor of him, where I will wear his name and the place where he lost his life. I wear my memory band very proudly. My heartfelt sympathies go out to his wife, his parents and the rest of his family. He sounds like he was one terrific guy and I'm sure he still lives on in the hearts of friends and family who loved him so much.
Rich Bolton
January 12, 2002
Rest in Peace Steve
Colleen Hegel
January 8, 2002
I sat in front of you on the bus going into the city every day. Never knew you. But I always laughed on how you made it across the screet in 3 footsteps, while I had to ran. I am so sorry for your wife and your families pain. May God Bless You In Heaven. May God Bless your wife and your family and help them to be strong. Rest In Peace.
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
What a cute love story. We are very sorry for your loss of Steven. May his life and love live on in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Allison Hagan
December 6, 2001
I went to Fairfield University with Steve and met him freshman year. He was an outstanding guy, always friendly, cheerful, outgoing. One particular memory was on graduation day in May 1991. Billy Joel was our graduation speaker that year - Steve was standing next to me (Hagis/Hagan) for the ceremony and had an isle seat - I was just one in on the right from him. I was frantically trying to get a look at Billy Joel as he was coming up the isle in the procession - I tapped Steve on the shoulder and said laughingly, "this isn't going to work out with you in front of me, Steve." Without asking, I hopped right in front of him and switched places, where I sat for the rest of the ceremony with a perfect view of Billy Joel. Throughout the ceremony he continued to excitedly point out Christie Brinkley, Billy's daughter, MTV cameras, television reporters and various teachers as he could see over everybodys' heads. Steve Hagis is truly a great loss and I will always remember him in my heart.
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