Terry Silvey Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Crestwood Memorial Funeral Home and Cemetery - Gadsden on Jan. 8, 2026.
Terry Sue (Bonds) Silvey, a devout and faithful follower of her Lord Jesus Christ,
passed away at the age of 86 on Friday January 2, 2026 at her home surrounded by loving
family members. Pastor David Little of Southside Baptist Church will o ciate the graveside
service, and one of Terry's favorite hymns, Victory in Jesus, will be lifted up by those in
attendance. Graveside service will be held at Crestwood Memorial Cemetery on Friday, January 9th, 2025, at 10 a.m.
Terry graduated from Etowah High School in 1957. It was there that she saw "that ol'
boy" looking at her from across the room in Algebra class. Little did she know that she just
looked into the eyes of the man of her dreams, Bud Silvey. She was the most beautiful girl he
had ever seen! In fact, she was voted Beauty by her Junior class and Favorite by her Senior
class. She was indeed Bud's favorite beauty, both inside and out! After eloping to Georgia to
get married and keeping it secret for a year, she spent the remaining years of her life devoted
to loving her beloved husband and family.
After attending Gadsden Business College, she began working at Redstone Arsenal
utilizing her skills to quickly move to the front of the typing pool, which in turn, quickly led her
to a secretarial position in the Civilian Personnel O ce for Mr. Gober, with occasional
opportunities to fill in for Dr. Wernher von Braun when his secretary was out. Terry made the
decision to resign from her position and be a stay at home mom when her children came
along. She often said that being a mother was the most important job in the world, and she
did it well. After both Kevin and Crystal were in school, Terry began working at the CED Mental
Health Center first as the receptionist, then secretary to the psychiatrists and psychologists,
and finally supervisor. After several years, Terry retired and went back to the fulfilling career of a
stay at home mom. Of all of Terry's accomplishments, she would say that her family was the
most meaningful.
Terry served at MeadowBrook Baptist Church in numerous ministries such as WMU
and Children's Ministries, including VBS and serving alongside Bud as Children's Sunday
School Director. She used her gifts of management and organization to serve on several
committees, as well as maintaining various o ces.
While Terry found opportunities to accompany Bud on the golf course, cheer the Tide
onto victory, and cook her family's favorite country dishes and desserts (can't you just smell
that chocolate cake or banana puddin'?), her true passion was her gift of sewing. She learned
to sew at a young age creating dresses out of flour sacks. Her skill blessed her family as she
made suits for Bud and Kevin, many frilly Sunday dresses and evening gowns for Crystal; as
well as, quilts, aprons, alterations, and various projects for her grandchildren and friends. Her
talent was unmatched, and her love for her family was evident in every stitch.
Throughout her life, Terry was confident and driven. She was always ready to help her
family, friends, and neighbors in need. If the measure of success is the love of family and
friends, then Terry was a wealthy woman, indeed.
Terry was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 64 years, William V. (Bud)
Silvey, Jr., her loving mother Clussie Outlaw Bonds, and her precious brother, Carroll Edward
(Buddy) Bonds.
Survivors are son Kevin Silvey, daughter-in-law Bonnie, and granddaughter Hannah
(Heath Tines); Daughter Crystal, son-in-law Wes, grandson Jordan, and granddaughters Lauren
and Morgan (Micah Johnson); Cousin Bobby Joe Smith (Ellen); Brother-in-law Roger (Judy),
sister-in-law Paula (Heywood), and sister-in-law Glema McCoy, along with many nieces and
nephews.
Serving with honor as pallbearers are Kevin Silvey, Wes Croskrey, Jordan Croskrey,
Heath Tines, and honorary pallbearer Micah Johnson, who is unable to attend due to military
service.
Special thanks to Hospice and Terry's doctors and nurses.
In lieu of flowers, the family gratefully acknowledges your desire to contribute
memorials in Terry's honor to The March of Dimes in memory of her brother Buddy, who
passed away too soon from Muscular Dystrophy.