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1953
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Thomas Dilley Obituary
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Daniel
April 5, 2023
I just had "The Art of Memory" recommended to me. I feel like I'm taking a tour with an old friend. How can a book about cemeteries have such humor in it? My condolences for your loss and it's going to be a great regret of mine that I never had to opportunity to meet this person.
Robert L Saas
March 10, 2023
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your lose. I discovered Tom's passing in the spring issue of Nebraska Quarterly. I lived next door to Tom in Selleck Dorm my first year of graduate school at UNL. Tom was a Great friend, I remember him telling stories about his father's law firm and President Jerry Ford being a partner. I can still hear him singing the Michigan fight song as he walked through Selleck Quad. late at night.
M-go-Blue Tom !
Bob Saas
Beanca Zwarensteyn
October 26, 2022
Our deepest condolences to the Dilley Family on the passing of Tom Dilley. Tom served as a trusted advisor, mentor and supporter of the Friends of Greenwood Cemetery, and we appreciated it very much. He left a great legacy with the writing of his book, "The Art of Memory: Historic Cemeteries of Grand Rapids Michigan." Also, the Community loved his historic cemetery tours. He will be missed.
Yvonne Sydloski
October 10, 2022
My sincere sympathy to you Debbie and your daughter. Having lost my husband of 58 years in June I truly know your pain. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Auwers
October 8, 2022
We often saw Tom walking around the block. A cigar, smile and a friendly wave. His intelligence, insight, and laugh were unmistakable, and he will be missed by all who knew him. Sending love.
Sarah Dilley
October 6, 2022
I am Tom daughter Sarah. To read his full obituary please visit : https://www.metcalfandjonkhoff.com/obituary/Thomas-Dilley
Thank you to everyone who has shared memories. It warms our hearts to hear his impact.
Rhonda Jewell
October 4, 2022
I knew Tom since we were both kids. He lived down the street from me and we ended up at our first job together, Hot Shoppes Cafeteria in Woodland Mall. So sad to hear about his passing, he will be missed!
Joe Sulak
October 4, 2022
Tom was generous with his time and especially with his knowledge of the Grand Rapids Cemeteries. I was fortunate to call him a friend and colleague. He will be missed.
Debra Ensing Heinzelman
October 4, 2022
Tom was a very fine gentleman and honorable attorney. He brightened every courtroom. He will be missed. As a retired Court Reporter I so enjoyed his Friday morning motions!
Cheryl Hoogerhyde
October 4, 2022
Tom helped me, years ago - no questions asked, just available and caring. I am so sorry.
Mary Kathryn Kelly
October 4, 2022
I always hoped Tom would be in the same courtrooms I was in on Friday motion mornings, as his arguments never failed to enlighten and entertain. With his legendary rapier wit, his eloquence, and his firm grasp of relevant law, Tom would captivate those of us who were spared pangs of envy only because he was such a kind and generous soul. It was a privilege to know him, and I wish his family and many friends comfort and peace in your precious memories.
Mark Ruedy
October 4, 2022
He was such a nice man. Met him when I was working at the GRPM during the exhibit on the local artist Reynard Widnaur(sp). He will be missed.
Jeff Sytsma
October 4, 2022
Tom became a sort of mentor to me when I was first joined the local history community. I'll miss his stories at our Board meetings. I'll treasure his advice. We all mourn this loss.
Gina Bivins
October 4, 2022
I want to thank Debra and Sarah for sharing Tom with the community all these years. There is a hole that is going to be impossible to fill. But we will try, in his memory.
Steph R.
October 3, 2022
My heart hurts for you Debbie. It was a pleasure getting to know you and Tom. I loved sharing puggie stories. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Sarah.
Joy Klawiter
October 3, 2022
My sincere condolences on the loss of your family member. He sounds like he was an amazing man. I stumbled across his obituary while searching for my uncle's obituary and happened to read the first few lines-which made me laugh heartily for his timely escape! Indeed! I think I would have enjoyed his company! And again, my deepest condolences.
Chris Kaupa
October 3, 2022
You were a pleasure to know and learn from. You will be missed at meetings. Your book is now closed. R.I P Tom
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