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Jake Chapman
May 30, 2022
Today is memorial day. While raising our flag and talking about service people in our lives I thought of you and Mykel. Thank you for your honor, following your heart to serve, and ultimately paying with your life in the name of our country. I haven't forgotten you, and will continue to carry your memory with me.
Charlie Gili
December 22, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we have made a small donation to Wreaths Across America to honor and remember Thomas H. Byrd
US Army Specialist. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
So handsome
Mom
February 11, 2016
Mon
February 11, 2016
Dads struggle is over. Hes with you now honey. I love and miss you everyday. See you in my dreams.
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Jeanne Ritchey
February 10, 2016
We still think about you and miss seeing the wonderful man you were becoming. And all the times you hung out with Eric in high school. Tommy will never be forgotten.
June 3, 2015
Hello,
I might know tommy's father from High school if he went to Sunnyside any of his high school years, whether or not I know him, I saw the news coverage on Memorial Day for your Son and I was touched and Proud of your Son
Nita
May 30, 2015
My condolences to the family, sorry for your loss.
Jennifer McClanahan
May 24, 2015
Dear Byrd Family, our lives were changed forever the day my husband, an Army Soldier had the painful, difficult duty of notifying the family. I waited up for my husband to come home that night and he was heartbroken. I could only sit there and listen as he tried to talk, we mostly sat in silence. What could he say? It was the hardest thing he's ever had to do. We got some comfort learning about Tommy from the local news in the days that followed. Hearing how he could make anyone smile with his "quirky" sense of humor.
Very rarely a day goes by that your son, Tom is not in my thoughts. That Christmas, we went to Christmas Eve mass and they turned out the lights for a moment for us to be silent and pray. My thoughts and prayers went directly to all of you, Tommy's family. I asked the Lord to comfort and care for all of you until the day you each will be with him again.
I am filled with gratitude for his service and selflessness, the ultimate sacrifice he made. I will always keep all of you and Tommy in my prayers.
I have wanted to reach out to you for years, but have not wanted to hurt you with my connection to the worst day in your life. Please accept my families condolences and continued prayers for all of you. If we can ever help your family in anyway, please reach out to us. We are still in Sierra Vista and will always be here for you.
Prayers to you all. Jennifer
September 13, 2013
This entry is in memory and honor of Tommy who lived his life well. He shall never be forgotten, even by generations to come. We remain grateful to him for his sacrifice for freedom of many nations.
Shanette
March 4, 2012
Mykel and family of Thomas,
I would like to offer prayers of comfort and love to you all, as lossing your husband, son, family member and friend is never easy. May the Lord continue to hold your hands and guide you as you all continue to heal.
Julia Byrd
November 23, 2011
I miss you so much Tommy. The holidays are so hard without you. I love you. Mom
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Thomas H. Byrd:
Please accept my remembrance of Thomas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Mom
October 15, 2011
Tommy, we are gathering for you tonight on this the sixth anniversary since our lives have been changed forever. I hope you catch our balloons. We all miss you so much. It still hurts so much that you are gone. We will love you always and forever. I love you. Mom
Love, Aunt Kim
August 4, 2011
Tommy, we still miss you so much it hurts. I wish you could be here to celebrate this day, sometimes it just feels like a nightmare and its been almost 6 years. Love and miss you so much.
Julia Byrd
August 4, 2011
Tommy I miss you everyday. Today is a special day...the day I became a mother. Please watch over our family as we are still grieving the greatest loss we have ever suffered...you. I love you so much. Love Mom
July 13, 2011
Tommy
Ever time i see a soldier i am reminded of you and your sacrifice
may god forever hold you in his arms.
love uncle kevin
Stephanie
July 9, 2011
Thinking about you often and grateful for the strength you give to those you love. :)
July 8, 2011
Miss you everyday. I know you are watching me, I love you. <3
ashley
May 31, 2011
a true hero!!! You will be forever missed by the many people to whom's lives you have touched !!! thank you !!!
Michele McDonouh
March 27, 2011
Dear Tommy,
I remember only meeting you a few times, but I vividly remember your smile. I want to say thank you again for your sacrifice. It was not forgotten. When I have my class stand up everyday to say the Pledge, you are in my thoughts. Watch over your family and bring them peace. God bless.
Mom
February 21, 2011
Hi Tommy. I miss you so much. Our family has not been the same since you left. Please watch over Matthew as he will be returning to afganistan in a few days. Bring him safely home. Protect your brother as he is out on his own now. I am proud of him but scared for him. Take care of Dad he is in bad shape Tommy. Really bad shape. Do a fly by and help him. I love you Tommy forever. Love Mom
Mom
November 11, 2010
I miss you very much Tommy. I would have never believed that this day marks the day we buried you. It is still so hard. Burying a child has been the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I will honor you everyday, but on this Veterans Day I honor you as the bravest man I have ever known. You are sorely missed and will be loved forever. I love you. Mom
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Thomas H. Byrd:
Remembering Thomas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Julia Byrd
August 4, 2010
I miss you so much Tommy. I will always treasure that special day...the day you were born. You had a hard time that day and we were all scared we were going to lose you but you made it. What a day that was. The day I became a mother. I feel so sad inside. They say this pain will go away, but I dont think so. Losing you was the hardest thing I have ever been through. I miss you will all my heart, body and soul. Love Mom
Julia Byrd
June 25, 2010
Please watch over Matthew Tommy. He is in Afganistan. Please keep him safe and bring him home to us. Love Mom
Julia Byrd
June 25, 2010
I miss you so much honey. I think about you everyday. I met a mother the other day that lost her child and it was so hard to see the pain in her eyes because I know that it will never go away. Keep a watch over your brother. He is struggling so hard. He misses you and needs a big brother right now. Help him to heal. I love you and I will see you in my dreams. Love Mom
A F
May 31, 2010
We remember you today,Tommy Byrd. Memorial Day is for honoring our brave and you walk in the sky with the best warriors who ever fought. You are much missed. Stand down soldier, we've got your 6.
Sandy Webber
May 9, 2010
Hi Sweetie,
You have been on my mind a lot so I thought I would write you a note. You are truly missed, Tommy, & loved. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you & all the time that we spend together. You have a very special place in my heart & you always will have.
Matthew is preparing to leave for Afghanistan tomorrow. Please watch over him for us. David is back now & will be getting out of the Army next month. Its a relief to know that he is back & safe.
I love & miss you so very much.
Love, Grandma
May 3, 2010
I miss you everyday, and think about you always, I wish everyday that I could hear your laugh and see that bright big smile of yours, I know one day I will see you again, until then, I will see you in my dreams, and hear your laugh in the wind....you're my hero.
Ashley Sutherland
March 2, 2010
Dear Tommy,
We may have gone to SRHS together but I did not have the privilege of really knowing you. Even though we were never friends, I remember you in my prayers and thoughts because it's the only way for me to honor your sacrifice. You gave your life to keep me and mine safe and free, and every single person in this country owes you a debt of gratitude that can never be repaid. My brother came back safe from his 7th tour and I know that it's only because he had guardian angels like you watching over him. Thank you for making sure he came home to us, I will always be grateful. No one will ever know why God decided to call you home so early but I take a small comfort in knowing that you are in His presence and are at peace. Rest easy soldier and thank you from the bottom of my heart. P.S. Swing by your Mom ok? She misses you so much, I almost can't stand it, it tears me up. Give her a sign or drop in one of her dreams. If I could take even a fraction of her pain and carry it for her, I would. It would be the least I could do for her, for all that she's lost but I can't. So stretch out those gorgeous wings of yours and give her a flyby. XoXoXo Ashley Sutherland
DeAnn Rompf
November 11, 2009
I've been thinking about this anniversary for several days now, determined to come back here. It's hard to know what to write, though. I was only your Math teacher, Tommy, but you made such an impact on me through the way you carried yourself, the way you acted, and the smile that was ALWAYS on your face. It makes me proud to have known you...to have played a small part in the man you were. You were and still are much loved and missed.
Julia Byrd
October 20, 2009
This is a hard month for me Tommy. I miss you so much it still takes my breath away. I was remembering the other day when you were a little cowboy for halloween. You were so excited. Mikey was just a baby but you didnt want to go trick or treating without him. I can still picture, so clear in my mind, the smile on your face and the excitement that filled you. We had a lot of fun. A lot of things have changed since you left us. No one is the same. I am moving forward, but I still feel the pain of losing you. I cant beleive that you have been gone for 4 years. It still feels so fresh. I love you always and will miss you forever.
Love Mom
Julia Byrd
August 4, 2009
I miss you very much Tommy. This is the day you made me a mother. I will treasure that day forever. I will love you forever and beyond. I will remember all the great memories that you left me. I will celebrate you and all that you have given me. Love Mom
Mom
June 10, 2009
I miss you so much I can't breath. Thank you for 21 years of great memories. I love you so much and will miss you forever.
Kenna Larra
May 25, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Cindy Froh
May 24, 2009
Tommy,
I am thinking of you this Memorial Day with love and pride. You are and always will be my hero. I was so lucky to have known you and to have you as a part of my life, however short it was. Thank you for your smile and easy-going nature. I will always cherish the memories.
Love, Cindy
In Memory of Thomas ~ (Debra Estep)
October 16, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Thomas, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Kim Hensley
October 15, 2008
Hi Tommy, I can't believe it's already been 3 years since our family chain has been broken (again). Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and how proud I am of you. I and the whole family miss you like crazy. please keep watching over us Tommy until we meet again. Love Aunt kim
Peggy Childers
October 13, 2008
To the family of Spc. Thomas H. Byrd:
Thomas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
September 28, 2008
Although I did not know Spc. Thomas H. Byrd, I hold him and his family in my heart and prayers.
When times get tough, remember that he is looking down from heaven and smiling, and protecting you.
Thank You for serving to keep our country safe.
May you rest in Peace with the Lord, and your hearts heal in time.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" John 15:13
Proud New Wife of a Marine in Iraq
Kim Smith (Rocklin, CA)
May 10, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Byrd!
Bruce Cole
April 4, 2008
Hello Michael Jr., Just wanted to say hello and let you know someone understands!On May 9th,1968 my 19 year old brother Bobby was KIA in Viet Nam .I waited for a long time to "get over it" as many suggested . I now know I am not and will not get over it . I hope you and your parents are getting on with your lives ,that does happen .If any of you ever wish to speak to someone who has been there ,please contact me . Many blessings to you .Bruce
Davida DeWitt
March 9, 2008
I didn't know Thomas but I feel for your family and for your loss. He looks like someone who brought a lot of smiles and good memories to a lot of people.
D. Mendenhall
October 21, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss.I hope that God will bless you and give you peace.I did my time there 2 years ago.Your son was a hero.
Peace
D.Mendenhall
August 8, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Mom Proud Mother
July 26, 2007
As I reflect on the days before you were born, I remember thinking how excited and scared I was all at the same time. Hoping that I would be a good mother. Hoping that I would raise a child with honesty, integrity and morals. I went to the doctors for my weekly appointment as I was due originally on August 7, 1984. I had only weeks left until you would bless our lives. The doctor yelled at me, and my mother, as I had gained a few pounds too many. He asked my Mom what I was eating and she said everything. It was true. I craved watermelon and peanut butter as well as chocolate and butterscotch. I felt like I was ready to burst any day. The day before you were born I was cleaning closets and cabinets. I began having mild labor pains at about 9:30p, August 3, 1984. It was not until about 3:00 in the morning that the heavy labor pains began and I was rushed to the hospital. I was in labor until about 11:00a on August 4, 1984 when the problems began. It seems that your cord was coming down before you and between you and me we were cutting off your air. I was rushed to the delivery room where an emergency C-Section took place. The last thing I remember before they knocked me out was my husband saying, "when is that stuff going to work?" and the doctor said, "there she goes." When I awoke I discovered that I had given birth to a healthy baby boy born on August 4, 1984 at 11:58a. He was named after his grandfathers, Thomas Webber and Harold Byrd. He had big hands and was instantly alert. He was embraced by our family as the steady stream of visitors never stopped. Present in the delivery room was his Grandma Webber and Tommy's father, Michael Byrd, Sr. The birth was recorded on audio and it sounds like I am laying on the table while they are all congratulating my Mom and husband. We laugh about it, but Dad almost fainted as you did not come out easily. We almost lost you on that day. We were all so scared that we could not breathe until the doctor said you were okay. I miss you so much Son. I wish everyday that you were here with us. All of those who truly loved and cared for you. Your death has touched so many lives, but not as many lives as you touched while you were here. We are all hurting so much. I will see you in my dremans Son. I love you so much and I am very proud of you. You were a loving, caring, selfless young man who will always be cherished and loved. You are missed by many and loved forever.
July 23, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Byrd and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Chelsea Himebaugh
November 22, 2006
Hey Tommy, a year you have been gone and James I can never stop thinkin about you. we have your picture up on the wall. we have decided that if we have another boy that we are going to make his middle name after you. You ment alot to James and We miss you everyday and are sad that you are not here to share in our joy. But I tell him that we got a baby from you our son was our gift from you. we miss you!!
October 22, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Thomas H. Byrd:
Your son's name, along with our sons, is forever together on a Memorial standing at Fort Indiantown Gap, Annville, PA. Their dogtags hang together forever moving with the wind creating a subtle sound, like the quiet whispers of the Fallen as they continue to speak to us. Attending this Memorial Dedication and hearing your child's name being read along with ours, has prompted me to sign this soldier's guestbook.
If your child can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 as well and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for right now. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten . You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
liberty collier
October 19, 2006
well its been a year scince your death as of 10-15-06. i can't believe it . like i heard so much about you. kinda werid that i never got the chance to meet you . you fought for what you thought was right and what you believe in. well rest in peace. you are surely missed & never forgotten . your couison . always be remember but, never forgotten in our hearts.
Mom
October 17, 2006
Well it has been just over a year Tommy and I still can't beleive it. I miss you so much and continue to grieve for our loss. You have made such an impact. All of our family and friends have been wonderful. They have been here through all of the hard times and continue to be our support. Our family has grown closer and our hearts are still broken from this loss. We long for closure and peace. We hope that it will arrive soon. Please look over all of us as we continue to honor and cherish you. I love and miss you with all my heart.
Po
October 15, 2006
I love you Tommy, this isn't an easy day.
Garnet Jenkins
October 15, 2006
Remembering Spc. Thomas H. Byrd, on this first anniversary of the day he gave his life for our country, with a Multitude of Thanks for his Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Thomas rest in God's Loving Care and know that he will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May God's Grace and Comfort, continue to be with the Byrd family.
From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
Psalm 121:1-2
May the memories of Thomas, live in your heart always.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Po
October 14, 2006
Tommy, it was a year ago on this saturday that you were taken from this earth and crossed over to the other side. It hasn't been an easy year. I know the Lord lays our path out before we enter this earth and when our job is done and it's time for us to return to God's side, we leave. The loved ones left behind have a difficult time accepting the loss, that is never easy. I cheerish the memories we made and all the time we had. Your smile and laughter are always with me. You are always with me and remain deep in my heart. You will never be forgotten. Thank you for all the memories and happiness. I love you Tommy, forever and always. I'll see you again someday. Hugs
Rachael Meyer
October 10, 2006
Well Tommy, as a year passes by...trust me...no one has forgotten about you. We truly miss you. I was thinking the other day about you and those hulk hands in Walmart or was it TOYRUS?...need I say more... I am almost finished with my deployment and I really hope you are proud of me.
love ya,
that crazy girl you got to join the Army
liberty c
October 2, 2006
well my birthday is comming up so that means its going to be one year sceen your passing.. kinda crazy.. even crazyier that i didnt get the chance to meet you.. but you are surely missed. much love and respect. your couision
Michele McD
October 1, 2006
You've been on my mind lately, as always, as we near the anniversary of your passing. I've very proud to have known you, though briefly, particularly for your sacrifice to this Country as well as the love you always showed to your parents. Be with them now and help them through this. God bless you now as always.
Mom
September 13, 2006
I miss you so much Tommy. I wish you were here with us. My heart is broken and I am not sure how to go on. I know that you are with us and I feel your loving arms around me. I thank you for being one of the best Son's. I found a letter from you the other day and I am grateful for your love. You are my Angel of Freedom and I will love and miss you forever. I'll see you in my dreams. I love you.
DeAnn Rompf
August 23, 2006
Tommy, there's not a day goes by that I don't think about the you. Your picture is on my desk at school. You are why I do what I do...even when I don't feel like it. Mykel, I know he's looking over you. He loves you so much, he could never really leave you. My prayers are with you kiddo. Love you both...
Mykel Byrd
August 4, 2006
hey babe,well it is your 22nd birthday, hope you had a great one up there with Grandpa,Jason, Richard,Tim,crazy man Summers, and Jeff! Hope you ate lots of pudding! I love you mostess! xoxo see you in my dreams! miss you tons!
ROBYN GARSIDE
May 29, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. THERE JUST AREN'T ENOUGH WORDS HERE ON EARTH TO EASE YOUR SORROW I KNOW. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Mom
May 18, 2006
Hi Tom. I miss you so much. I think about you often. My heartaches for all the things that our family is having to go through, as if losing you was not enough. I hope that our family is granted peace soon. I will love and honor you forever. You are my Son...My Hero.
Mom
March 29, 2006
Hi Tom. I miss you so much that sometimes I can't breath. My Heart truly aches every day for you and long to hear your voice. You have made me and many others very proud to know you. You are truly missed by all who knew you and those who don't. I love you with all my heart and miss you very much. Love you forever, Mom
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 24, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Byrd family in the loss of Thomas. I did not know Thomas, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Thomas I was touched by the many wonderful things written about you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Tommy and Mykel, March 2004
Mykel Byrd
February 9, 2006
Well cinnamon, I dont know what to say, I loved you the moment I saw you when I was only 13 I am so grateful for every second we had together, for every letter, for every phone call, I miss you like crazy, I really dont think I will ever be able to find the happiness that you brought me, you are my angel, you are the one person who got me. I love you and I always will, I know we will be together again one day.....we are cinnamon and sugar...I love you mostess...see you in my dreams.
Susan Mortensen
January 1, 2006
For those of you who were not at the funeral this is the eulogy that was said to represent his family. I regret that I had to jump up and interrupt the service to say it but I don't regret saying it. For all of you that were there and thanked me for doing it, your thanks is not needed as I didn't do it for myself, I did it for Tommy. That day was about Tommy, and nobody else. I want to thank those that supported me in doing it and say to those that didn't think it was right, I am not going to apologize for doing it and no family member should ever have to interrupt a funeral service to speak their eulogy. Anyways, with that said, here is my eulogy, representing the family of Thomas H Byrd, who was dearly loved and is sorely missed.
Tommy was one of the best nephew’s an Aunt could have. He was so loving and lovable. His smile could light up a room and he was usually smiling when he was talking to you. I still remember holding him as an infant and having him fall asleep on my chest. That feeling of pure joy and unconditional love can never be surpassed. As an infant he
liked to have his Grandma rock him and pat his butt so he could fall asleep. If she stopped than he would tell her Do Butts Grandma.. He also loved to have his head
scratched…which did not stop after he became a man. He had no compunction in plopping down on the couch, laying his head in your lap and asking you to scratch his
head. His cousins are the same way…I guess that comes from the relaxation technique Grandma started with us kids and used with all her grandkids.
As Tommy was the first grandchild for our family he got a lot of attention and love and in return so did all of us. He was the only grandchild fortunate enough to be spoiled by his Great-Grandma and Great Grandpa not to mention the rest of the family. Tommy is the
One who gave Great Grandpa the name Poppy that stuck with him until he passed away this year. Great-grandma used to let him play with the window button in the car,
rolling it up and down, up and down. When asked why she let him do it and did not use the window lock she stated “Because he liked to play with it.” Poppy used to take him for a walk and let him take his little motorcycle with him and soon my Mom would see
them walking home…with Poppy carrying the motorcycle. When Poppy was asked why he let him take it he stated “because he wanted to.” After he was up in the morning and Great Grandma, Poppy and Grandma were all dressed he didn’t like waiting around.
He used to throw Great Grandma her sweater and Grandma her purse so they could go off to breakfast together. He even had a waitress he used to call Tobasco because every-time she walked by Poppy would call out Tobasco so that she would bring him some so Tommy thought that was her name.
Tommy was also a very friendly and open child. At about 10 months old Aunt Kim got married and he was the ring bearer. He had to be in a walker as he wasn’t walking on his own yet. He took his own sweet time coming up the aisle as he had to stop and say Hi to everybody he passed. Nobody seemed to mind the wait though. Stubborn as he was, he walked on his own a couple days after her wedding. He could really be a stinker when he wanted to. The first Christmas he was old enough to really know what was going on
there were numerous gifts around the tree for him, including a big Tonka truck bought by his Grandma and Grandpa. Instead of being excited about the gifts Tommy was more entranced by the two buckets of cookies he had come walking out of the bedroom with. It was a sight to behold as the buckets were almost as big as him!
Tommy was an adventurous and fearless child. When my Dad and I took him up to the mountains he was riding on his little motorcycle and all of a sudden he was zooming down the mountain and headed straight for a tree. With our hearts in our throats and unable to get to him before he hit the tree, he came to a dead stop not 6 inches from the tree. We rushed down to make sure he was okay and I think he stated something to the effect that he wanted to do it again. Tommy also jumped into the pool one time and
his floatie came off. My mom jumped in after him with all her clothes on as he sank down. When she got him out of the pool he asked her why she had done that because he wanted to see the bottom off the pool. Believe me, his guardian angel was kept very, very busy keeping up with him.
I remember as a toddler he would tire you out just watching him as he had so much energy and his sense of humor could not be denied. He seemed to know that my Dad liked his paper to be in the exact order it came in, even after he read it, and would do his best to make sure it was not in order. There were many times his Grandma chased him down the hallway because he had the paper. He would be laughing hard and throwing the paper behind him every step he took. He would always warn you that he was about to do something he wasn’t supposed to with this mischievous twinkle
in his eye but sometimes you were just too distracted by his smile to notice that mischief was brewing.
Tommy was always very caring and considerate of other people’s feelings in all he said and did. He always greeted everybody with a hug, regardless of who was with him. He loved his family very much and his actions always showed that. I remember him telling
me once that he was so upset by my getting married and moving out of state that he had wanted to kidnap me or beat up Mike so that I couldn’t leave, even though he knew I would be back in six months when Mike went on cruise.
I also remember him as the man he became coming up to me and asking me if his Grandpa would be proud if he joined the Army instead of the Navy, as my Dad was retired Navy. My answer was a resounding yes. He also requested I put his
picture up on my mantle with all my other military family pictures and that is where it has been ever since I received it from him. We are all so proud of him for going in, especially during wartime. I just wish he had come back to us…we never wanted a Fallen Hero in the family. I say Hero as in our eyes as he was and always will be a Hero.
I loved Tommy very much and will always remember him as the mischievous toddler with the purple Nini and the grown man who still had his Nini but would share it with you if you asked. I know that he is sitting back at this time talking to his Grandpas, Great-Grandma and Poppy having a good time. And I know sometimes as my son gets that mischievous look in his eye and causes mischief that Tommy is right there egging him on. The Lord must have really needed a good laugh and a wonderful smiling face and that is why he took Tommy up to Heaven with him. This is the hardest thing our family has ever had to go through but Tommy will hold us up when the going gets too tough.
He was always there for us when we needed him and in our hearts he will always be there. The memories we carry with us will keep our Young Brave American Hero
always with us.
I love you oodles Tommy and miss you bunches!!
Sandra Webber
January 1, 2006
Dear Tommy,
I just want you to know that I loved you before you were born and I will always love you. You are so missed. Sometimes I feel like this is just a nightmare and I am sure to wake up soon and it will be over and you will still be with us. Although I know that won't happen. I can't even explain how I feel as this is by far the most painful thing I have ever had to deal with. When I lost Grandpa I thought I had hit the worst thing that could even happen to me but now I know what is even worse, losing a grandchild. The pain is indescribable. But I am so grateful for all the years of beautiful memories which started in the delivery room. You were a beautiful baby and you grew into a beautiful man. You brought such joy to all of us. You and I had some really great times together and I cherish every minute of them. I am so very proud of you, as is the whole family, but that does not ease the pain. Maybe someday it will become tolerable. All I know for sure is that you will always be in my heart. And maybe someday all the wonderful memories will help to ease the pain but right now they can't. I am so overwhelmed with grief right now. I know in my heart that you are okay, I guess it is all of us that I am worried about, as it is a tough go for all of us left behind, who watched you grow into a fine young man with a smile that could light up a room. And in spite of your growth, you were and will always be our "little Tommy"
I love you Tommy,
Grandma
Liberty C.
December 31, 2005
Dear Tom and the family.Your were my 3rd or 4th cousion .I didnt really know you .But, I found out you were my cousion through grandma frances. You passed away on my birthday. You sounded like a great person and really sweet. Your always going to be remembered and never forgotten. Rest in Peace Tom. love always Liberty
Susan Mortensen
December 29, 2005
Tommy you are dearly missed and we now have a hole in our hearts. We are so proud of your sacrifice but still wish you were home with us and not with Grandpa.
We love you bunches of oodles and you will always live in our hearts and minds.
You were one of the best nephews an Aunt could have...no matter how much you loved to harass me! I wish you were here now to harass me.
Love, Aunt Sue
Betty Donnelly
November 26, 2005
We are sorry for your loss. I didn't really know him, but I just remember his smile. Our hearts go out to all of you.
Jeanne Ritchey
November 17, 2005
My heart is filled with sadness for the Byrds.Tommy was a close friend to Eric and a great young man. He spend many days and nights at our home and these are memories our family will always cherish. We will never forget you, Tommy.
Ronda Henderson
November 14, 2005
Julia and Family:
May you find comfort in the legacy that has been left in the life of your son, and may you always cherish all the moments you had with him in his short life. God Bless your whole family. his wife's as well. in this time of grief. May God Bless Tommy, for his unselfish service to his country.
Danielle Truso
November 11, 2005
Tommy, You will forever be missed by many. I will keep you in my thoughts always and know you will be watching over us. You are a true American hero and I'll never forget the friendship we had. Mykel and the family will be in my prayers. Love you always.
Danielle
Gary Hedberg
November 11, 2005
My deepest sympathies to all of Tom's family, and friends and to his commrades in arms. I only knew of Tom through one of his buddies from Army unit. This is a tragic loss. Tom your sacrifice will not go unremembered.
Don & LuJean Merrifield
November 10, 2005
My heart goes out to all. We will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks fo being such a great person with such a giving and warm heart. You will greatly missed and never forgotten.
Don & LuJean Merrifield
Ashley Burleigh
November 10, 2005
Tommy you will always be in my heart. Ill never forget you in spanish class helping me de-pants greg! and at the wrestling matches how you always had a smile on you face no matter what happened with the match,Love ya
Michael &Shirley Anderson
November 9, 2005
Tommy you are always that great smile and warm heart in life. You are a true man in every man's heart. I wish to thnak you for being in our life. You have and always will be remembered. God bless you son.
Coah Mike & Shirley
John Nelson
November 9, 2005
It is hard to lose a family member. Mike was a member of a extended family of his youth, the Tucson Youth Football Eagles Association. We who will always remember him for his great smile, attitude, and a fine young man. Many young men pass thru our program, yet very few leave a mark like Tommy has. Always postive and a great outlook on life. We all will miss him, yet feel greatful for knowing him.
Craig and Nancy Froh
November 8, 2005
We are so sorry something this bad has happened. Are hearts are heavy and I know all that knew him is feeling the same way. We feel so blessed to have such a fantastic group of younger men and women protecting us all. May God bless you all and hold you dear to His heart.
Angela Badilla
November 8, 2005
I worked at the Library at Santa Rita when Tommy attended high school there. I would see him come into the Library, but never really got to know him. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Sara De Carlo
November 8, 2005
My heart goes out to both the Byrd and the Webber families at this time of mourning. Please accept my condolences and I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
R & S Hardcastle
November 8, 2005
May God wrap His love around your family. You are a true American hero and we thank you.
April Moss
November 8, 2005
Tommy, you have always been more than a son-in-law to me. You have always been my son. I have been truly blessed to have you in my life. I will always love you and cherish you. Thank you for giving Mykel real love and true happiness. I know you will be with us always. I can feel you in the whisper of the wind and I know when I look to the stars you are there...smiling. I love you son.
Marilyn NIEBEL
November 8, 2005
Although I have never met anyone in your family I wanted to express my gratitude for the service that Thomas gave to his country. My sympathy and condolences to you all.
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