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Tom was born September 29, 1961. He is survived by his loving wife, Julia [Davis] Hankey; his 3 children, Katie Wade, Jessica (David) Ouellette and Matthew Hankey; his 3 grandchildren, Henry, Hunter and Gracie; his beloved mother, Carol Hankey; his brother, Jim (Peg) Hankey; his sister, Donna Scorse-Hankey; his brother-in-law, Jim (Shelly) Davis; his sister-in-law, Tracy (Dominic) Natale; his Uncle Mike; his several nieces & nephews and great nieces & nephews; and his many close friends. Tom was predeceased by his father, Gene Hankey (2021).
Tom worked for UPS Freight driving a tractor trailer for 30+ years. He enjoyed snowmobiling, spending time with family and motorcycling with his buddies. Tom was an avid Buffalo Bills fan and loved to go hunting with his son and brother.
Tom's Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, May 25th at 9:30 AM at St. Lawrence Church, 1000 N. Greece Rd., Rochester, NY 14626. Visitation hours will be held on Wednesday, May 25th from 4 -6 PM at the Thomas E. Burger Funeral Home, Inc., 735 East Avenue in Hilton. Interment will be held privately at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in memory of Tom to your favorite charity.
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Char Wenzel
June 3, 2022
I haven't seen Tom in so long and I often wondered how he was doing. He had a great sense of humor, and made me laugh all the time.
I cannot imagine how devastating this is to his family.
I pray for peace and comfort in the days ahead I'm asking God to wrap his loving arms around this family and guide them. I pray that the fond memories that you have in your heart carry you through this most difficult time. :(
Stephanie H
May 25, 2022
My heart goes out to all Toms family and friends. I got to know Tom and the family because I was a nurse on 2100 at Unity. When I heard about this my heart just broke. Could someone give Carol the biggest hug and a kiss from me and all the nurses from 2100 and tell her we are thinking of her and the family during this difficult time. Tom was always there with a smile and we always knew if we needed a little break to re group we could just go sit and talk with him and Carol or whoever was in that room and you never knew how much that was needed at times. Thank you Tom and family for being so kind. They always say nurses are angels but I believe my patients and the families are the angels and we all meet at the right time and your family got us through more then you will ever understand. Tom, Carol and family you will forever be in my heart. Love you all.
Judi & Tom Dudley
May 23, 2022
Our hearts go out to Julia & Matt our neighbors & to the entire Hankey family for the sudden loss of Tom. He will be missed in the neighborhood & I´ll especially miss kidding him about his "no turn around" signs by his driveway! God Bless you my friend & God Bless your family & keep them safe from harm.
Terry Whitney
May 23, 2022
Sorry for your lose I worked with Tom for 8 years for Becker movers spent a lot of time over the road with him great person will be missed
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