Thomas Herbst Obituary
Thomas Herbst of Honeoye, NY, passed away unexpectedly August 11, 2025, at the age of 82. He is survived by his devoted wife of 62 years.
Tom’s greatest joy was being surrounded by family and friends. An avid fisherman, he cherished the lake life deeply. His love for family and fishing shaped a life full of treasured moments and heartfelt memories. He will be lovingly remembered by all who knew him.
Thomas M. Herbst leaves behind a legacy of love, devotion, and countless memories. He is survived by his wife Mary Herbst, son Michael (Joanne) Herbst, daughter Laurie (Richard) Blanchard, grandchildren Richard Herbst (Fiancé, Megan), Jessica (Nicholas) Coin, Aaron Blanchard (Girlfriend, Mary), great-grandchildren Gionni Herbst, Liam Coin, Sophia Coin, nieces and nephews.
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