Thomas O'Neil Obituary
He retired as Vice President of the American Automobile Association (AAA) after 50 years of a job he loved.
He was a Past President of the Lawrence Lions Club, Past President of the Holy Family Men's Guild and was one of the Founding Fathers of the Mary Immaculate Guild.
Tom always felt his biggest achievement was his loving family. He leaves his loving wife of 61 years Connie, his three children Thomas and his wife Nora, Brian and his wife Leslie and Susan McNeil and her husband Ralph and his 6 grandchildren Patrick, Jeanie, Emma, Duncan, Conor and Eoghan and his best friend his brother Bernard, as well as his in-laws Joyce Szczapa and Al, Frank Perry and Carol, Martha Mailloux and Ken and an extended loving family of nieces and nephews.
A memorial mass will take place at a later date.
Arrangements are private.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Charles Guido
December 11, 2025
Dear Connie, Tom,Susan & Brian,
I want to send Condolences to you for the loss of Tom.
He was a good friend and I recall so many good times we had together.
I hope all of your wonderful memories help you through this most difficult time.
God Bless Tom's soul,
Love,
Charlie & Cheryl Guido
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Barbara Robitaille
December 11, 2025
Connie and family,
I was so sad to learn of Tom´s passing. He was such a great person to work with and had a wonderful sense of humor. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Barb Robitaille
Joe Carey
December 10, 2025
Connie,
Karen and I are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I have so many memories of Tom from AAA and especially SLE Little League. He loved helping those kids knowing most of them needed it. We will keep Tom, you and the entire family in our prayers. Please publish when you will have a Celebration of Life gathering so we can join you.
My good thoughts & prayers,
Joe
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