Todd J. HAYHURST

Happy 50th Birthday, Todd! I miss you everyday, brother. Super glad to have become such good friends with your little brother. We sure would've had a ton of fun together. You are always with us in spirit...for sure. Love ya, bro...

In about an hour would be your 50th Birthday. You'd be proud of Victoria and Jeffrey.
Prayers and respect always
Thank you for our kids

Happy 49th Todd.
Forever in our hearts.
Love ya

Went back to buffalo this fall for a bills game. Saw the kids. They are doing pretty darn good. Man bro, talking with Jeffery was like talking to you back in our days in the Army.

Happy Heavenly Birthday Todd. It would be your 48th!
Miss you and see you again someday ...peace

Yesterday would've been your 47th birthday. The kids and I did not forget about you. We wish you were here and will always miss you, no matter what. You are in our prayers and thoughts daily. Para siempre...

Happy 46th Birthday Todd.

Todd, Another year goes by and it still feels like yesterday. You'd be proud of Victoria and Jeffrey.

Cybil and I are watching the Sabres play the vancouver canucks, and thinking of how stupid you thought calling a team the vancouver canucks was....and what you compared it too.

Incubus: I wish you were here.

Miss you bro

Sitting here and looking at the photo gallery really hits my feelings. Hard to believe it has almost been 5 years, always thinking about you and miss you every day dad ~Victoria

Did a shot of jack for Veterans day. Miss you bro

Thinking of you Todd. You are deeply missed and loved. Laura is doing an awesome job with the kids. Please send them a sign and tell them you love them. They miss you dearly. RIP buddy and here's a Sam Adam's cheers to you bud!

Been 3 yrs and continue to pray and think of you. Forever in my heart and always...love you

Happy Birthday Todd... many lives have changed forever. Your memory will never be forgotten. Have a cold one for us and continue to look over your family and keep them safe. RIP buddy... you are missed by all.

March 4, 2014, you would've been 39 years old. The kids wanted to leave you chicken wings at your grave...might have to do that....see you on the other side Todd. Rest in peace always, Laura

Pray for you and think of you every day. I dreamed you were young again and happy and I know that you are!~ my heart will always hold a place for you! Peace and love always dearest Todd! You had no idea how many people loved you and still do to this day!~ If only we could've prevented this...you'll live on forever in my heart.

Another year has past and you are missed by everyone who knew you...Life has never been the same for Vickie and Jeff.

After all the months, your friends and family still cherish your memory. I wish it were all a dream and that you were still with us. Hope you are in a happier place and that someday I can see you again. R.I.P.

Every time I'm outside grillin and having a drink it feels like you are there.

A New year and another Birthday has passed. We still love and miss you in our lives..

Cried and said some prayers for you. I miss you! Love Always

It will be year soon And the tears still flow from my eyes. I will never forget you and will always remember all the great things about you and the happiness we once shared. No one can ever take away Or change what memories we shared. Til my time is done on earth, I look forward to seeing you on the other side and being released From this hell called death.

I've thought of you each of the last 333 days. I miss you.

Dear Todd,
Another month has gone by and every day I say a prayer for you. The kids love you, cry for you, miss you too and would like to pay their respects to your grave, if we knew where you were laid to rest.....
I pray that God will have an answer for all of us someday and the REST of us that have compassion and your best interests at heart.
God Bless You for the kind soul you will always be remembered as!
Your friend ALWAYS, Laura

Happy 37th Birthday Todd! We miss you and we celebrate your beautiful existence on this earth. We hold you in our hearts forever and have faith in our Gods Love and Mercy! You were loved and always will be! Much respect to you.

Beloved Todd, it's been three long months and those of us that truly care, want nothing but to let you rest in peace and good memory. I pray to God, that he will hold you in his kingdom forever and that those of us that believe can look forward to joining you in your friendship on the other side. The human heart is a fragile entity.........God Bless

Todd, I still can't believe you are gone. It hasn't been the same without you. Vicki and Jeffrey will always miss and love you. To me, you were and always will be my friend. I hope you are at peace and know that I will do my best to raise our two children. God bless you.

Drinking a Sam Adams and thinking of you and wishing you were alive. Missing you and trying not to cry...sad, not wanting you to be forgotten. Sad, knowing that not everyone truly knew the Todd that I did and the Todd that I loved. Life is cruel...the world is cold without you in it. I pray to see you again someday. Blessings and prayers for you forever.........

Merry Christmas in Heaven Todd! We love you for always and forever! Watch over your children and guide them throughout the years. We send our prayers and love for you forever!

It's been a month since you've left us. Not a day goes by that I don't pray for you or think of you. You were the anchor, the rock of my foundation here in New York. Now that you're gone....it will never be the same.

Todd, I guess God needed you up in Heaven, so he called you home. You were always a wonderful nephew and although I live far away and our family get-togethers were few and far between, you were always part of me. I remember you when you were just three years old when I got married and you picked up my dress off the floor and followed me down the aisle just because you would do anything for Aunt Lynne! You were so special... my dad and mom's first grandson and they treasured you so. Todd, you will be greatly missed by your family. R.I.P... I will never forget you and I will treasure the memories of the last 36 years that I have known you.

Todd and I grew up together , no words can tell how i feel about our loss of a great friend , You are well missed Brother

todd and don were my first buddies when i moved to hamburg and they introduced me to eric and derek. the good times we had are to many to list. we lost alot of time when todd enlisted and then when i enlisted but none of us ever skipped a beat when did get together. you are one of the most genuine men i have ever met,and i will miss you my friend and brother in arms. your children, robin, laura and the rest of your family and friends knew you love you and will always remember you. you have touched so many people by just being you and that is a rare thing. i take comfort knowing your at peace and will be watching over your children and loved ones,solider. check in on donny, derek,eric and i once in a while. we'll need it you know what knuckle heads we are. until we meet again.

No words can express how deeply saddend I am of this terrible tragedy. I have been an absent Godmother to Todd for many years, but hold a special place in my heart for the beautiful l little boy who was the first born of my generation. He brought much joy into all our lives, all that knew him, all that loved him. I spent many a night pacing floors holding a screaming Todd ,along with his Mom and Dad. He was my first love , before I had my own children. I was the one who bought the toys no parent in their right mind would. We played a lot together. He was my Topper, my top guy. On my recent trip to Buffalo I had the opportunity to see him. I was a little afraid he would just ,put up with me because Karen and I dropped by unannounced . But after a firm hug hello from Todd, I was overwhelmed with how much I'd missed him . It brought tears to my eyes. (That I quickly hid). What a beautiful man he'd become. There was a quiet reserve to him although he still had that half cocked smile on his face. I am thankful l I had those few short moments with him . I wouldn't have imagined they would be my last. I will miss him again. My heart felt sympathy to all of his family and friends.To those I know and those I hope to meet someday. I Love you Topper, till we meet again.

Dear Jeff & Hayhurst family:

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,

Robin,
Todd was a very special person and I missed him being a part of my family.
He gave me some beautiful grandchildren, Vickie and Jeffrey, he was a good man and loving father to the kids and they will miss him now and forever. It saddens me to know Kalum will no longer enjoy hugs and kisses from his daddy either. I'm sure Delanie misses Todd now and always.
Thank you for caring about my grandchildren and daughter, Laura's feelings in your moments of extreme sorrow.
God Bless you and comfort you in the days to come.

Joe,Don,Derek,Eric and Stepanie, keep the bond that Todd has given back to you together forever. You need each other and keep the memories going through him.

We will all miss you buddy. You were a good friend who never changed even if we spoke or got together rarely.

There is a hole in the universe that no one can fill. You are so loved by so many people and I know that your family and friends will never be the same. May the peace only the Lord can give surround you always, may you smile upon your children, wife, family and friends and may you always be an angel at the shoulder of those you need you. My son loves you like a brother and you will be sadly missed.

Dear Robin,
Please know you and your family are in my prayers during this very sad and hard time. Our family knows what it is like to lose someone very precious so suddenly after the loss of my son several years ago.
I sincerely feel for your pain and want to extend my compassion and help if you ever feel the need to talk, as I have been a grief counselor over the years and it does help ease the shock and pain to share in the burden you are feeling.
Love and Blessings, Candie Young,716-517-6044 (Robin's mom)

In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. John 14:2
Well, I look forward to seeing you again in our Father's house. You were a sweet and quiet soul. Todd you will be missed by many.
Laura, Vickie, and Jeff, you area loved by many and we pray for a peace that passes all understanding to enfold you and guide you through your every day.
Love, Aunt Pam and Uncle Bill Gretsinger

Todd & Robin,family &friends, I had the great pleasure of meeting you a few times but I know so much about you thru my husband &Robin. I can see in their sorrow what a great man you were. Great stories that prove how much you will be missed. Your children are blessings as well as beautiful and they too will miss their daddy. I pray you have found your peace now. Thank you for your military service as well as the many wonderful memories you have left behind for all to remember. You will forever be in our thoughts and our hearts. God Bless You and your Family

Todd, Thank you for the memories. I will never forget you or any of the fun times we all had. You know I've not ever been good at saying "goodbye" so I'll just leave it at "see you later".

Robin,

There are no words that can ease the pain that you are going through during this very difficult time. I would like to extend my deepest heartfelt sympathy to you. You and the kids will be in my thoughts and prayers.

There is nothing that I can say that will lessen your pain. Just know that I feel for you, and that I am thinking of you and your family.

Robin, My heart goes out to you and the kids. I understand the pain and turmoil you are feeling. If there is anything I can do to help now or in the days to come, please reach out to me. Praying for the Peace of God to fall on you.

Robin there just are no words to describe how sorry and how sad i am for you. god was with us friday night as he is now and forever will be. there is only one set of footprints in the sand - he is carrying you. with love stacy

Robin,
As you already no words can't express how sorry we are for your loss. Stay strong and remember all the good times you had.. Todd is another Angel amoung us, and he will be watching over you and the kids... Our prayers and thoughts are with you and always will be..

I'm sorry for your loss. We never know when our journey ends. May you find peace in your loving memories. Sorry I couldn't be there for you Laura & children

What a devastating loss for your children. My heart hurts for your family. I'm so sorry for the loss of you Todd. I hope you have found the peace you needed. You will forever be in the hearts of this family.
May you Rest In Peace Todd

Laura, Vicki & Jeffrey,

We are so very sorry for your loss... I want you to know if you need anything, we are here for you. You are in our thoughts and prayer's. Love you so much

Gina Jeff & Ethan

Todd,
I knew you a very long time and in my heart your memory, your spirit will live on forever in peace and in our children, Victoria and Jeffrey as well as your newborn son with Robin. This was so unexpected and I was very unprepared for a day like this; none of us were. I can only pray for God's love to carry us all though without you to help guide your children. This is the hardest thing the kids will ever go through. I just wish we could all go back in time and the kids could've had more time with you! You were, by far, a true friend from the very beginning and it was an honor to have known you and be a part of your family at one time. My heart will be with your wife and all the children left behind. Never in a million years, would I have ever wanted to see you suffer. You had so much to offer the world and more life to live, more songs to play on your guitars, more laughs to share with your new family, more concerts to enjoy with your friends, more fishing to do, more Buffalo Bills Games and Sabres Games to attend, more time with the kids. I will pray that you guide your children, because they will need you more and more as the years pass...especially Victoria. I will pray for peace for you and your family and your friends you loved so much, especially the ones that couldn't make it out to have one last good bye. Thank you for befriending me in 1994 at Ft. Lee Virginia.....God be with your wife, Vicki, Jeffrey, Kalum, Lanie these coming days.

Robin,
I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot replace the things that you hold most dearest to you. I will keep you and the kids in my thoughts and prayers. Please do not hesitate if you ever need anything. I will do my best to help you whatever way I can. Always remember you have a world of people who care about you...God and your friends and family will see you through this.

My heart aches for you, Robin. I can only imagine the devastation that the entire family is feeling right now. And although you may not know me, please know that if there is anything you need - even if it is someone to watch your children for just a little while so you can get some time alone, I am here for you. I am also a mother of 4 young children. You and your children, as well as the entire family are in my prayers. ~Julie

My deepest sympathy. Robin, u and ur family will be in my thoughts and prayers while you and your kids struggle to get thru this.

A good friend and great man has been lost, but will never be forgotten.

Robin, u are a strong, loving person and I can't fathom what you going through, you and ur beautiful children are in my and my families thoughts and prayers.

I hope that you are at peace...words cannot express the sadness of this tragedy. You were a great friend and an awesome dad. I'll miss you greatly!

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow. May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Memories keep our loved ones with us forever & ever... Until we meet again.
God Bless XOXO

Jeannine & Jerry

Although I couldn't be there, you'll always be in my prayers & in my heart.

Robin, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers now and always!

Robin and Family,
Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you and your family now and always.
We are so sorry for your loss.

Robert and Susan Richter

Robin, Our hearts go out to you and your family. May your memories along with the love of family & friends help you through this most difficult time.

Hayhurst family,
My thoughts and prayers will always be with you. Sending many hugs and much love your way.

Dear Robin, Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family during this time. God Bless.

Robin,
Im so sorry for your loss, you will find
strenght and comfort from your family and friends, Todd is your guardian angel looking over you and the babies.he is in gods hands now love you

Robin I am sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers