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Anthony Wayne Carani
November 9, 1968 – April 23, 2025
Anthony Wayne Carani, affectionately known as Tony, of Highland Park and Highwood, IL, passed away at the age of 56 after a courageous battle with cancer. Born on November 9, 1968, in Highland Park, he was the beloved youngest son of Lucien Patrick and Sheila Kay (née Patrick) Carani.
Tony was a proud graduate of Deerfield High School, Class of 1986, and attended Northwood Junior High before that. Known for his magnetic personality and quick wit, Tony made his mark as a bartender, working at cherished local spots including Hunters Lounge, Skokie Country Club and Alex's Washington Gardens.
Tony had a passion for the simple joys of life-cheering on his Chicago Bears and Cubs, casting a line on a random fishing trip, hitting the road for one of his many adventures, and dancing through life to the beat of his favorite bands. A true foodie, Tony loved to cook and was the grill master of his barbecue. But above all, he was known for his humor. A self-proclaimed "joker of all trades," he never missed a chance to make someone laugh-even his final joke was a classic:
"Why do ducks have tail feathers? To hide their butt quacks."
Tony is survived by the love of his life, Jamey Dillon; his children Billy Mattern (Brandie Barksdale), Maddie Carani, A.J. Huey, and Jacob Dillon; and his granddaughter Kaylee Mattern. He also leaves behind his brother Lucien "PJ" Carani Jr. (Lora), nephew Lucien III, niece Ashley Kay Carani, and former wife Linda Carani.
The family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Campbell and his team of angels at the Kellogg Cancer Center, for their exceptional care and compassion.
A celebration of Tony's life will be held 10:00 AM Saturday, May 10, 2025 at Highwood Bocce Courts 440 Bank Lane, Highwood. A memorial Luncheon to follow 11:00 A.M. to 2:00 P.M. In honor of his legendary sense of humor, attendees are encouraged to bring a written joke or a favorite Tony memory to share during the gathering.
Tony's laughter, love, and larger-than-life spirit will be dearly missed and fondly remembered by all who knew him.
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Kenny Sommer
May 17, 2025
Tony I was fortunate to know you a longtime as my brother and family. Always a nice thing to say, good vibes and honest hard working high quality man you were. Till I hope we meet again in the next Kingdom of Heaven. My condolences to your close friends and family. Peace sincerely Kenny
John Charles
May 16, 2025
Rest in peace my old friend Tony.
Paul crimo
May 8, 2025
Tony your gone too soon,your a great guy with a big heart your kindness, your respect and your full support you gave me ,lots of great memories,seeing you around town you always took your time to talk ,you will be greatly missed and may you rest in peace Tony .
Victor Marban
May 4, 2025
I will always miss my good friend Tony!
Always have a funny story! Was a pleasure to work and know you for many years!
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Donna Yamaji
May 1, 2025
So sad to hear of Tony´s passing. He will be missed here at Kellogg. Loved his humor and his will to be so strong ! Jamey, will miss you, your love for Tony was undeniable.
May your memories bring you joy and peace.
Donna Yamaji
Bill Bernstein
April 30, 2025
Dear Jamey,
Very sorry for your loss. Tony was always friendly to me.
Warm regards, Bernie
Bradley Budnik
April 29, 2025
Thanks for fishing. I didn´t know you long enough. You´ll always be in my heart. I hear there is great fishing up there.
chris alexander
April 28, 2025
I have such fun memories of us growing up as kids. I´ll miss you and I´m sad. I never got to go fishing with you. Rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with your family
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