Victor Desimone

May 22, 1963 - December 6, 2023

Richmond, Kentucky - Victor Paul Desimone, 60, husband of Beverly Meade Desimone, passed away on December 6, 2023 in Lexington. Vic was born in Whitesburg, Kentucky on May 22, 1963 to the late Kelly and Willie McHone Desimone. Vic was a graduate from the University of Kentucky where he obtained a bachelor's degree in Business Administration. He was an avid UK Sports fan. He enjoyed tailgating and was always the life of the party . He loved his family dearly . He was so happy being a dad and grandpa. He will be missed by so many. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his daughter, Victoria (Lee) Parke, grandchildren, Bennett Rae Parke, Charleston Victor Parke, sisters, Paula Kavolus, Kelly Sturm, brother, Jamie Desimone and several nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be Sunday December 10, 2023 at 3pm, at Clark Legacy Center, Brannon Crossing. Visitation will be prior to the service on Sunday beginning at 12pm. Burial will be Monday in Madison Memorial Gardens, Richmond Kentucky. www.clarklegacycenter.com

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Dec. 10, 2023.

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Kevin Reitz

December 9, 2023

If you are fortunate in your life you meet a person that is a light that attracted other people to them. Vic was that person for me. We worked together for several years. Vic was the person everyone wanted to be with. He was kind , generous and if you wanted/needed anything he made sure to make you happy . Vic was truly a most unforgettable character. Its hard to image the world without Vic there for everyone .

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Mary Jane Brown

December 9, 2023

He was the best football player who never played for Coach Brown at Jenkins. He will be missed.

Reuben & JoAnn Walker

December 9, 2023

Vic Desimone, more than a star, he seemed like the Milky Way. The town school children and teachers knew him as the generational “Candy Man”. Who could forget a Halloween night with Vic. A man of all seasons, Vic provided a one pound Hershey bar on demand, gifted baked bread, stone fired Pizza, and lemonade to anyone in his path. Vic was our veritable “festival” even in his back yard. Pure KY Wildcat, he knew how to provide a welcoming atmosphere at work and play. Long live the spirit of “The Kentucky Candyman”.

Words are not enough to describe the light Vic brought to the world. We all felt a part of Vic’s galaxy knowing he was spreading and modeling his goodwill for anyone he met. In words and deeds Vic showed us an ethical responsibility to the other. People in Vic’s path received his generosity. Vic could spin wool into golden thread. His life was for the other, and especially for his wife, Beverly, daughter, Victoria, his 2 grandchildren, her husband Lee, and the Parke family. All givers, this family has the spark to relight their lives.

The spirit of Victor Desimone will live on through his wife, family, and friends. Vic, one of many enlightened individuals who offered us a model for the art of living. Much hope for the future because Vic was on our green planet as a friend and mentor, We mourn his loss, but rejoice in his life, and the joy he encouraged in our Kentucky communities. Much hope for the future. Thanks Vic.

Ernest Branham Family

December 9, 2023

Vic and his family were well known in our hometown community of McRoberts, Ky.. He was a childhood friend and I have many memories of fun and playful times. Vic was always jovial abdomen had a story to share when seen through the years. Prayers and comfort to Beverly, Victoria, and Family!

Roger Kovalchik

December 8, 2023

Vic and I came up through the ranks together with Hershey, he and I always roomed together and I will always have great memories of the times we spent together at Region meetings in NKY! Ever the jokester, Vic was the larger than life and everybody´s best friend! I will miss him dearly - rest in peace Roger Kovalchik

Donna Coates

December 8, 2023

Beverly and Victoria we are thinking of you both and want you to know how our heart aches with you. Vic was always so jolly and loved sharing the candy. My mom (Betty Hendrix) loved you guys so much. She was glad to help you when Victoria was born . Mom was glad Victoria was there to help her when she was at the nursing home . So Vic and mom can now watch over us till we join them one day.

LaVerne Baker

December 8, 2023

Vic was a loving husband ,father and doting grandfather. He was a giving man, he would ask if I was ok and if I needed anything. He would send donuts, and snacks to me and some of my coworkers and even lunch and never wanted anything back. If he called his wife and I was in her office he would tell me all kinds of jokes. He's no longer on this Earth but will always remain in our hearts. May the Angels welcome you to Heaven.

Nancy Manning

December 8, 2023

He left behind loving, caring footprints.

Nancy Manning

December 8, 2023

I have known Vic since he was a little boy. His contagious smile matched his wonderful personality. Growing up he was everyone’s favorite, always kind, and caring. He is leaving behind a wonderful family and friends that will miss him terribly. Earth’s loss is heaven’s gain for surly he entered the portals of heaven. Much love and prayers to his family.

Lisa Damron Wiley

December 8, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of Vic´s passing, He was larger than life and everyone loved him. I will keep Beverly and the family in my prayers!

Ronald Lucas

December 8, 2023

So sorry to hear about Vic. Although we are cousins I was not around Vic very much since I live in Michigan. The last time I saw him he was here and we met for dinner. You could tell in a minute there was a joyful loving good man. He will be greatly missed but will live in the hearts of those who loved him.

Crystal Wilson

December 8, 2023

I met Vic through Beverly and got the opportunity to spend time with them over the past 10 years. He always made sure everyone was laughing and having a good time anywhere we went! I will always remember the New Years party´s and winery´s! He will be missed dearly. Thinking of you Bev.

Lesa Loflin

December 8, 2023

Vic always had a smile for everyone he saw. He surely will be missed. Sending prayers for peace and comfort. Love you Beverly and Victoria.

Ray and Jan DeSloover

December 8, 2023

Vic ( The Candy Man )was indeed, the life of the party! He loved being around friends and family and he was so funny! He will surely be missed by so many people! RIP, my friend!

Heidi Mikesell

December 8, 2023

I met Vic when I worked at the Hershey Company. He made life and work so much fun. I am proud to say we went from co worker to friends and have kept in touch throughout the years. My heart is broken to hear of his passing. I will miss our catch up calls talking about our love for our families and good memories from the past. Vic was full of life and such a joy to know. Praying for his family during this difficult time.

Sharon Whitaker Montgomery

December 8, 2023

I knew Vic through my Uncle Al tailgating at UK football games. Such a great guy! Always smiling, telling stories and making us laugh! Wonderful memories of a man who left us all better for knowing him! Praying for his family and dear friends! My heart breaks for you!

Jon Thomson

December 8, 2023

One of the best people to walk this earth. Vic was the life of the party regardless of where the party was. In a meeting, dinner, on a plane, tailgate, home or just hanging out. His personality, stories, smile and heart will always remain in my heart!!! No matter what, he ALWAYS put his family before anything else. He told everyone that would listen that Beverly and Victoria were the his heart and soul. UK Basketball and Football were up there as well. No matter what was going on in his life, Vic made you feel loved. My stomach always hurt when around Vic from laughing so much!! The best story teller. I honestly don´t think Vic had a mean bone in his body. I will miss the stories, the laugh, the hugs but most of all I will miss my friend. Rest in peace my brother.

Rick Staley

December 7, 2023

I am so sorry. Vic was full of life and joy! A true friend. I will miss his smile and stories!
Peace be with him
Praying for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Rick Staley

Kathie Dozier

December 7, 2023

He used to pop in when I worked with Victoria and take us all to Shamrocks for lunch such a kind and generous man.

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