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We are deeply saddened to announce the passing of Victor Alan "Vic" Utgoff, a cherished father, grandfather, and friend to many. Vic left us peacefully at the age of 85 on February 29, 2024 with his daughters and wife at his bedside holding his hands.
Vic was born in 1938 to Victor Victorovich Utgoff and Margaret Sniffen Utgoff. Commander Utgoff was a naval test pilot, so Vic and his siblings (Carl, Alexandra, and Paul) moved frequently, spending time in California, Hawaii, and elsewhere. Vic learned to make friends anywhere, later recalling, "I learned to always ask the prettiest girl in school to the dance. I realized everyone else was too scared."
Vic dedicated his career to learning, and serving his country by shaping defense policy. He earned his S.B. in Aeronautics and Astronautics from MIT in 1960 and his Ph.D. in Electrical Engineering from Purdue University in 1970. He served on the National Security Council during the Carter Administration and played an instrumental role as a strategic advisor to the President, including on the decision to cancel the B-1 bomber program. He spent decades thinking and writing about how the world could avoid a catastrophic exchange of nuclear weapons. He served with distinction at the Institute for Defense Analysis from 1981 to 2023, where he received the Goodpaster Award for excellence in research, the think tank's highest honor. He was the founding director of the Advanced Systems and Concepts Office at the Defense Department's Threat Reduction Agency.
Vic met his wife Kathy at a Chinese painting class in 1974. They married in 1978, and had two daughters, Anna and Margaret. Vic was a superlative father and husband, who supported his family during times of need and cheered them on during times of triumph. He taught his daughters how to work hard, treat people with kindness, and meet the world with open hearts.
Vic was beloved for his kindness and joy. He was quick to laugh and slow to anger. He found himself constantly in awe at the beauty of the world and grateful for his time here. He got to fly a plane across the country; he got to teach his granddaughters how to play liar's dice; he got to see whales and redwood trees and the Eiffel Tower and the Kremlin. He marveled at the beauty of it all.
Vic spent his last day doing things he loved: he went for a fried chicken lunch and stopped at the grocery store for some coconut chocolate macaroons. He fell on his way to bed and hit his head, lost consciousness immediately, and never opened his eyes again. He died the next day.
A celebration of Victor's life is planned for this spring. In lieu of flowers, please honor Victor with a contribution to Feeding America.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 5, 2024.

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Ron Millard

July 14, 2024

In 1965, Vic, when a grad student at Purdue, also flew 3 fast friends in a single engine fixed wing aircraft from West Lafayette to Sodus, NY, then on North to Timmins, Ontario, and then the 4 went onward on the Polar Bear Express train to Moosonee & Moose Factory Bay with a memorable but unsuccessful side fishing trip. A trip of a lifetime. Vic was our daunting pilot! Great memories.
Ronald Millard, PhD
Emeritus Professor
University of Cincinnati

Kevin Carl French

June 12, 2024

As the son of Carl, Victor's brother I am sad to see Uncle Victor has passed, I wish I could have gotten to know him better.

Rob Stengel

April 3, 2024

Vic and I were fraternity brothers and classmates at MIT. We both majored in Aeronautics and Astronautics, spending many hours together working on assignments. Vic and I stayed focused on aerospace throughout our careers, although we followed separate paths, he in national security and I in Apollo and academia.
- Our interactions at Lambda Chi Alpha formed a strong bond. A blind date arranged by Vic blossomed into my marriage to Pegi; Pegi and I celebrate our 63rd anniversary next week.
- Vic was an inspirational leader in college and a wonderful friend over the years. I will miss him. Kathy, Anna, and Maggie, please accept my heartfelt condolences.
- Rob Stengel, professor emeritus, Princeton U.

David Chu

March 12, 2024

Vic Utgoff's sage advice graced our nation's security community for half a century--calm, balanced but forceful in its exposition. His voice will continue in what he wrote, and the achievements he helped nurture. But those privileged to work with him will sorely miss his personal touch.

March 6, 2024

Vic was a treasured friend and we shared many wonderful times fishing on Smith Mt. and OBX. I cherish those memories.
Those who worked with him or knew him realize his contributions and we will miss him. Rest in peace my friend.
Tom Bennett

John Harvey

March 6, 2024

I was extraordinarily fortunate to get to know Vic after I came to IDA in 2017 as the SFRD research division director.
Vic was incredibly helpful to me as I navigated the brave new world of FFRDCs and IDA after a long career in the Navy.
His brilliance, cheerfulness, integrity and great good humor were the foundation of the many truly significant contributions Vic made while at IDA and while serving his nation in other capacities.
What a privilege to have known him, if only for a little while.
To the Utgoff family, please accept my heartfelt sympathies on his passing. I know your many memories of him and the deep love he had for you will never fade.
John C. Harvey, Jr, Admiral USN (Ret)

Wendy Hilton

March 5, 2024

The Utgoffs are my neighbors. I live across the street. Vic was always very nice to me while I was out in front weeding or raking leaves. His kind words always made me smile. I will miss that.

Jim Thomason

March 5, 2024

Vic was a fine friend and great mentor. To Kathy, Anna and Maggie, thanks so much for sharing such a lovely person. Love to you and for all the good times.

xxxx

-Vic and I listened to lots of jazz together, played lots of tennis together, collaborated on several important studies, flew together.
-He was (and is) the father of my child Heather´s best childhood friend Maggie. He was a very loving friend and "uncle" to both my children, Heather and Dusty.
-He was my cheerful, capable assistant coach on our daughters´ quite successful soccer team.
-I am grateful that he, as a soccer club board member, supported me wisely and strongly when I, as Pres of the Little River Soccer Club, had to deal with some thorny personnel and policy issues. Thanks, Vic!
-Vic was a solid tennis partner of mine for many years. He had a terrific sense of humor even on the court. For instance, he showed up for one early morning game wearing his shorts inside out. When I asked him if this was a new style, he said he tried dressing in the dark to save money but mostly not to awaken Kathy (such a considerate guy!). He said he still had some work to do on that technique, not to mention on his tennis game. So I said for now, "inside out" is a bit distracting but let´s keep playing and hope it´s more distracting for our opponents. I do believe we won that day...
-One day years ago I brought lunch and played a little chess with him when he was recovering from some surgery. He was awfully good, even in recovery. He inspired me to do better, and I think he succeeded, though I still have plenty of work to do in the mostly on-line games I play these days with my son, Dusty.
-Long ago Vic invited me to play poker with a close group of his friends. Taught me some good moves. Took a fair amount of my (and others´) spare change. Celebrated when I won; always encouraged me to come back, so he could take my winnings back. He was a wild and crazy player. He regularly said, "if your friends want to play, Jim, tell them I´ll send a cab, anytime, anyplace."
-Vic encouraged me to buy and hold a number of stocks. Working great, Vic -- over 25 years later. Thanks so much!
-Professionally, he Invited me to join IDA, back in ´84 -40 terrific years ago this month-- and then was a great mentor to me there until I got my own bearings, and beyond.
-He offered great hand-written comments - often MANY great and enthusiastic hand-written comments -- on my draft papers at IDA; in a very distinctive writing style. Am I right? Such SMALL script.. Trying to save paper, I guess. I started needing reading glasses reading his comments, I think. If I didn´t tell you enough then, thanks for the cogent edits, Vic, especially the ones I could decipher!
-Vic Supported me in `88 when I successfully argued to OSD (Policy) leadership, based on the first study I led at IDA, for changes to several overly optimistic assumptions in the SECDEFs Defense Planning Guidance to the department (re allied support for US operations).
-He was a strong believer in plan B´s to mitigate risk - b/c Murphy lurks-- as in a TRIAD for nuclear deterrence. BTW, He also witnessed, while at the NSC, the failed hostage rescue attempt in Iran. A powerful lesson. A powerful lesson I still promote in my work these days on strengthening supply chain resilience for national emergencies.
-Vic stood by me and endorsed (along with then Pres. of IDA Gen Welch) my highly controversial arguments to the Commission on Roles and Missions of the Armed Forces that ALL services have critical roles to play in conducting overseas military presence, not just one service. Thanks Vic!
-25 years ago Vic strongly encouraged me to take temporary leave from IDA and become a senior staff member on the so-called "Hart-Rudman" National Security Commission. He said it would give me the chance to work with a very wise analyst -- named Boyd -- of OODA loop fame. So I happily joined. Turned out it wasn´t THAT Boyd. Nevertheless, I did meet and work and travel with many terrific people on that Commission. And learned a good bit from the "other Boyd" too. And then I returned to IDA, enriched and wiser. So, I´m ever so thankful to Vic for steering me in that direction, for whatever reason.
-To be completely honest, one legacy that I kind of wish he hadn´t left-He inadvertently created a bit of trouble years later for me and others with something he did before I even knew him. In the late 70´s he successfully encouraged Pres. Carter to endorse FEMA´s approach to sizing the goals for the National Defense Stockpile, the NDS-go large-full guns and butter approach, count on no allies, no substitution. Later, to his credit, at IDA, he agreed that my/our new and ongoing approach to NDS sizing ("RAMF-SM") was much better than what he had too quickly endorsed to Pres Carter when he was working for National Security Advisor Brzezinski at the NSC. To be really fair to Vic, though, back then, properly, credibly sizing the NDS was likely a lot less important than it is today. And Vic "came around" -- based on our new evidence and arguments. Now I believe that´s the mark of someone who is both talented AND open-minded, which Vic was, to a supreme degree, in so many ways.
-At IDA, with Vic´s strong endorsement, I succeeded Vic (and Dave Graham) as Deputy Director of our Division - SFRD. Hard acts to follow. I hope I made him and them both proud.
-I said we flew together-- I´ll never forget spending an unusual special night together in a small town in VA...We had gone together to pick up our daughters at NASA space camp, and were flying back with them that night in his plane. After a while, Vic let me take the controls. Things were actually going fine for a while but then, suddenly, the plane´s electrical system failed. So Vic more (or less) calmly said "I better take over for now." He did, and after a few heart-pounding minutes he landed us safely, where we were welcomed mostly by a stray dog on the closest available tiny (and officially closed) airstrip. After staying the night in that small town outside Richmond, and getting a bit of sleep -- although Vic wanted to go out that night and look for a poker game so as not to waste any time -- Vic got the part (the alternator) replaced at a shop in the morning and we were on our way. Once in the air, he offered me the controls again. "Try again?" he said. "I think it´ll go better now." I said "thanks, maybe next time!"
-You loved flying, Vic. I hope that wherever you are you´re flying high, and will land safe and sound!
-It was oh so wonderful to have you at Lan´s and my wedding, Vic. I think we saw you dancing --with flair -- that night.
- To Kathy, Anna and Maggie, again, love to you, thanks for sharing Vic, and for all the good times.
-Vic was a sterling - no, more, gold-level -- friend and mentor. I will miss him dearly but remember him oh so well. Thanks Vic, for the fun, the camaraderie, the great memories!
--Jim Thomason

David Fontanella, USA, Colonel Ret.

March 5, 2024

Dear Utgoff Family
Vic and I owned a Piper Arrow aircraft together for 11 years. A friend of remarkable erudition, amiable, always a smile on his face.
We shall all miss him.

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