Wesley Ed Howard

Wesley Ed Howard

Wesley Ed Howard, 93, died January 30, 2026, at home surrounded by family and friends.

He was born July 6, 1932, the oldest child and only son of the late Archibald Francis Howard and Floy Geneva DeBarr Howard.

Ed Howard could best be described as a character with a sharp wit, a glint in his eye, a good head for business, and a deep love of his family and the outdoors. He lived through the Great Depression, WWII, Vietnam, Korea, the Gulf War, 9/11, and Covid-19.

He left us on his own terms and died of "old age" in his own home as was his lifelong wish.

Ed moved to his homeplace in Hinkleville when he was three- years old and remained there until the day he died. He learned subsistence farming as a child by necessity during the Depression and WWII and parlayed those skills into being the First President of the Upshur County FFA in 1950, the year he graduated from Buckhannon-Upshur High School.

After completing military service in the US Army during the Korean War, he graduated from WVU with a Major in Agricultural Engineering and a Minor in Business. He used his new degree to obtain a job at Southern States Cooperative as Assistant Manager in Marlinton, WV. During his stay in Marlinton, he met the woman who would become his wife, Geraldine Dilley, working as a waitress in a diner he frequented. The couple married in July, 1965, and moved back to Buckhannon where Ed became the manager of the Buckhannon Southern States store and grew the business into the store that exists today, bringing propane gas to Upshur Co., adding lawn and garden equipment, and apparel and became locally famous for his "buy, sell, or trade," philosophy of business. He was named Upshur County Businessman of the year. By the time he retired from Southern States, he was a regional branch manager overseeing multiple stores in the region.

He was an honest businessman and loved to barter, known to some as "Boot" Howard because when you traded with him, you always had to give him "boot," but you still left with a smile.

Our childhood was spent wandering around the woods in his footsteps as he explained what every plant and tree was and how they were beneficial or dangerous, where and how to look for snakes and bears, and how to avoid both. We fished in our own pond and ate what we caught. Our freezer was always full of Venison, and when spring came, we went ramp digging, usually in his own patches on the property. Then came summer and fresh cucumbers in vinegar were always on the kitchen table. He grew delicious tomatoes that we ate by themselves, sliced with a little salt – then there was the fresh watermelon and seed spitting competitions, and the home-made ice cream making with an old-fashioned hand crank ice cream maker. There were strawberries, and blackberries and peaches in abundance – all right there for the picking – grown by his own two hands. When the green beans and corn were coming on, mom would make a whole "mess" of each, and they were the main course for dinner.

He was a lifelong conservationist, marksmen, and dog lover. He trained dogs and competed in field and trail competitions throughout the region, often taking home first place and taught hunting and gun safety. He instilled in us a deep love of nature, the outdoors, and the delicate balance of all living things without saying a word - he showed us in the garden, in the woods, and at the pond.

He was a hands-on father and even more present for his grandchildren and eventually great grandchildren. As well as hunting, fishing, and gardening, he took us boating and water skiing, participated in Easter Egg Hunts, bonfires, wiener roasts, taught us all how to play poker with pennies, candy, and bubble gum, and loved all our family get togethers.

He was always up for a fun time, quick with a joke and had a natural, easy laughter. He had a sparkle in his eye and grin on his face until the end.

He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Geraldine May Dilley Howard, two daughters, Edwina Howard-Jack and Kimberly Francis Howard; three grandchildren, Ronald Wesley Woody, Seth Frisby-Jack, and Taylor Smith; Four great-grandchildren, Adalaide Smith, Grace Woody, Easton Jack and Weston Jack; Five step great-grandchildren Colton Smith, Coby Smith, Autum Smith, Summer Smith, and Frankie Tussey.

Along with his parents, he was preceded in death by his beloved granddaughter, Abby Beth Hoge and his sister, Anna Lee Howard Robinson.

Special thanks to his caregivers whom he adored, Becky Martin, Crystal Wilt, Lilly Huff, Carrie Rice, Zoe Williams, and Sarah Wilt. Special thanks also to WVU Hospice.

He will be deeply missed and always remembered by all who knew him.

Friends will be received Thursday, February 5, 2026 from 2 PM - 3 PM at the First Presbyterian Church in Buckhannon for a memorial gathering. A Memorial Service will be held at 3 PM at the church with Rev. Peter Vial officiating. Burial will follow in the Heavner Cemetery in Buckhannon. The Upshur County Honor Guard will perform military honors at the graveside. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.polingstclair.com. Poling-St. Clair Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements.